What is it like to be forced to eat something you don t want to eat?

It's tiring to talk too much, and forcing yourself to do what you don't want to do is undoubtedly a kind of torment, in fact, it is normal for such a meal to appear in our lives, and attending a class reunion is a more real example.

At that time, I didn't know what the reason was to participate in the class reunion, and then someone would set up a group chat, and start all kinds of work, so I asked who had time to come out for a party, and generally went out to be more familiar with themselves, and then I didn't speak, just silently diving, who knew that I was actually out of Aite, and I wanted to be quiet as a person who didn't know anything.

Hey, I'm not very familiar with the people at the party, although it's classmates, but it's still the kind that is alien to each other, and then I said yes to the party, who would have thought that some people would temporarily retreat, and there weren't many people coming that day, and I didn't want to go, because the people I knew didn't go much.

I reluctantly went to eat with people I didn't want to eat, because a few of them belonged to the kind that looked down on me, because I didn't wear makeup, and then I was dressed more rustic, she pointed out to my face that I was dressed rustic, and then said that your family is not poor, why don't you dress up and dress yourself, I thought to myself: Mind your hair, I can do whatever I want.

Then I smiled and said, "Ah, they're all old classmates, so you don't have to dress up so much." Then I ate by myself, I didn't want to participate in this kind of party, and when I came, I was looked down upon, and I was stuffed when I thought about it.

Therefore, forcing myself to participate in a party or dinner that I don't want to participate in is really not only tired, but I can only eat without saying a word, or greet each other with a smile, which is really painful, I still like to eat with people I know better, and there is no concern between them, and I don't have to care about the feelings of others, after all, we know each other very well.

I remember when I was a child, I had a very bad habit, a habit that all my relatives knew, I didn't like to eat meat, and I didn't even like to drink soup with meat. Actually, it's not that I don't want to eat it, but after I eat these things, I vomit and vomit everything, and I feel very uncomfortable, so I am very resistant to eating these things. Therefore, I am generally a vegetarian, and I especially like to eat dishes made with potatoes.

But sometimes my parents forced me to eat some meat for the sake of my body nutrition.

I remember that time when my father was working overtime in the factory, my mother and I made winter melon pork rib soup at home, this dish is my least favorite dish, because I am very resistant to these two things, and I don't like to eat the same thing, I will regurgitate and vomit. <>

At the table, I was eating some other vegetarian food, and this dish was not touched at all. My mother actually knew about this habit of mine, but I didn't know why, when I finished eating, she gave me a bowl of pork rib soup, because I didn't want to experience the feeling of vomiting, so I didn't want to drink it. Normally, my mother will let me go at this time, but this time my mother did carry me and wanted me to drink, I couldn't twist my mother at the time, so I tried to drink a little like drinking poison, although I drank very little, but the feeling of nausea appeared in an instant, and I didn't want to drink anymore.

Then my mother asked me to stand aside with the bowl and said when I would finish drinking and when I would rest, and I had just stood there with my mother and had never been willing to drink.

I don't know how long it was, and I don't know how long I stood until my father came back from overtime, and when he saw the sleepy and shaky one, he asked me about the situation and said forget it, no.

It is your right not to eat or not, and no one else can interfere with you.

But listening to your tone, it feels like you're still in your teenage years.

However, I wonder if you had experienced famine, would you be a picky eater; If you have experienced poverty, you will not be a picky eater; If you are already a parent of a child, will you be a picky eater? If you are sick because of malnutrition, you will not be a picky eater.

Doing something you don't like is also a kind of growth. I also have a lot of dishes that I don't like to eat, especially when I arrive at a new place, I force myself to eat a little bit, and gradually I like the taste and feeling.

I know you don't like to be criticized, you don't want others to contradict you, you want others to agree with you, and you want what you think to be what others think.

Finally, it's your right to eat or not.

You must be a picky eater and eat more vegetables for your health

Believe that no matter what your family has done to you right now, they will never hurt you

It seems that you haven't broken the law yet, you are a bit picky eater, and your family loves you too much, understand each other, change your habits appropriately, and communicate more with each other. Let yourself be worry-free, but also let your family love you to the fullest.

Depressed··· Me too.。。 It's not for your good. I'm 14 and I feel a little annoyed, but after a while I think about it, I don't get angry anymore.

Vomit while drinking glucose Don't eat anything you don't like next time because things that don't taste good sometimes affect your mood!

It doesn't matter if it's good or not.

I think it's mostly about replenishing energy.

You don't think about what it tastes like.

Don't think about its shape, either.

Don't even think about how good you used to eat.

You just have to give yourself a belief.

It's that I have to eat.

And it's a must to be full.

Keep this in mind.

I think you'll have a lot of fun with whatever you eat!

If you really don't like it, don't force it. Why don't you make something you like to eat?

Were there any triggers before this happened? For example, **, or emotional trauma, etc. Find the right medicine and believe you will be cured soon. Happy to you.

1. First of all, consider whether it is caused by interpersonal and emotional fluctuations, these problems are always solved, and worry leads to physical collapse, which makes you unable to solve these things, therefore, there is no need to worry, the body is good and energetic, which is more conducive to solving problems, so eating is the first priority. 2. If you are a woman, consider the possibility of pregnancy. 3. Diseases of the intestines and stomach.

4. The possibility of anorexia, (however, the probability is very small and can be ignored, because you are talking about a poor appetite recently). 5. There are diseases in other parts of the body, which causes you to have a bad appetite. The human body is a whole, and discomfort in other parts of the body can affect the function of many of your body organs, resulting in a sense of slackness, poor appetite, and loss of appetite.

Note: When your appetite is poor, you can keep exercising appropriately when you feel that other organs in your body are fine; In addition, the diet should be mainly warm for the time being, so as not to overdo it, resulting in stomach cramps, contractions, nausea, vomiting and other symptoms. If the condition is severe, please consult the attending gastroenterologist!!

I'm a sophomore now, and I'm all alone, and I go to the cafeteria to eat alone, and sometimes I feel sad because I don't have a partner to eat with. I remember when I was a freshman in high school, I didn't know anyone, no one took the initiative to make me friends, I was very lonely at that time, and I was afraid to go to a crowded place to eat, so every time I went to a fried restaurant to order fried rice and pack it to the classroom or dormitory, I ate it slowly by myself. After eating it for a few weeks, I now want to vomit when I think of fried rice, and then I stumbled upon a villager's restaurant, so I went there every day to eat, but every time I was alone.

But I'm gradually getting used to it, I'm still afraid of the class party or something, because I'm afraid that I will be ignored, but life is okay, you don't need to care too much about other people's eyes, in addition, I don't think your classmates will have malicious intentions, so the next time you meet at dinner, you have to say hello with a smile, and when you meet someone you know on the road, you have to smile and nod your head. If you want friends, you don't have to be humble to please, just make yourself good, and then someone will naturally take the initiative to approach you.

You have to rely on yourself You just don't dare to do it the head After that moment passes, you will naturally get used to it Push yourself It may be embarrassing in the process But time can definitely change yourself I am such a person.

It's not embarrassing to be alone and do things alone, you are too inferior and lack self-confidence. It's not something to be afraid of when everyone eats like this, it's not something to be afraid of. Learn to enjoy solitude and develop a sense of self-confidence, communicate more in daily life, and discover your own shining points.

Why are you afraid, find out why, everyone in this world is unique, you are no worse than others. Everyone has their own time and doesn't pay much attention to others, and sometimes if you feel like people are staring at you, you must be thinking too much.

There's nothing to be afraid of, I also eat in the cafeteria alone, and the only thing I have to worry about is that I went to make a soup and came back and the meal was poured by the cafeteria aunt.

Usually get together with friends and participate in group activities.

Your personality should belong to the introverted kind, relatively isolated, you don't have any girlfriends, and you don't even have a friend around you to talk to, right? I feel that this state is not very good, will a person not be depressed after such a long time? Even if you go to university and go out into the society, and then work, you can't avoid contact and communication with people.

I suggest you make more friends and don't isolate yourself.

Forced to go, go shopping alone, go to a café alone, it's good to get used to it,

You can go to the supermarket and the mall as often. This builds your guts.

Try to be glamorous, ignore the eyes of others, eat your own food, and let others appreciate it!

Actually, I'm in a similar situation to you, but I've never felt bad about being alone, and I go to the cafeteria by myself, and I don't envy others for company, and it's not a big deal.

It's called autism! It's not difficult to overcome, first make a close friend, then follow each other to hang out and play together, and slowly get in touch with a friend! One day you'll let go.

Take it one step at a time, first when there are fewer people, and then slowly go to when there are more people.

Do you have any shortcomings, you are afraid of being seen by people who know.

If you don't have self-confidence, you can go to a place with more people, walk more, and cultivate self-confidence.

There is nothing to be afraid of in the world, no one is better than yourself, believe in yourself, everything will be fine.

Do your own things, eat your own food, does it matter what others think! Just be happy. Don't be afraid, face it bravely!

You can touch it slowly, don't be overly vigilant.

The role of the mind is changed, and the heart is more friendly to communicate with classmates in order to get out of the yin shape, and I wish progress in learning.

Do you want to overcome your fears or do you want to eat with others.

Then two people, neither of whom wants to go alone.

The boyfriend's practice, beautiful words, in the name of thrift, is actually a disrespectful behavior for her. Why doesn't he eat it himself, he has to ask others to eat what he has left, and he doesn't like it, the ancients have long said, don't do to others if you don't want to do to yourself.

Your boyfriend seems to be a bit sadistic! Now that I know that you don't like to eat, I have to tell you, don't waste it, first of all, do you love this boyfriend? He treats you like this, can you bear it, and you have a cold, or do you do this to you, is it a bit too much?

It's also worth considering, is he the right fit for you? Will this life be tiring in the future?

You have a cold, did he care about you? If he doesn't care about you, start with "Don't waste."as an excuse. Forcing you to eat leftovers is looking for trouble, just making you unhappy.

Let yourself bring it up and break up. And so he served his purpose.

So, what should you do now? You need to do a good assessment. Would you like to be with her? If you don't want to, leave early. Because he doesn't love you anymore.

He can do this to you before he is married, if you are willing, it means that you are self-inflicted, this man said don't waste it, in fact, he is hinting that you want you to leave him, and the unmarried man ** must also pretend to be unless he changes his mind, you have to find someone who loves you, loves you, and cares about you.

Your boyfriend's approach is very immoral, and he forces you to eat what you don't want to eat, I have a very good atmosphere for such a person, and domestic violence is no different, it's better to stay away from such a person, or think about your future life, think about it, right?

Do you need to ask this question? Obviously, I want you to go fast, and I want you to get out.

It's not right for my boyfriend to force me to eat what he has left, especially what he doesn't like

Your boyfriend should be a selfish person and doesn't value you at all and doesn't care about you. And too stingy. So it's supposed to be a scumbag. Leaving him should be the best option.

If you don't respect you, such people are not fun!

Do you want to say more? Such a boyfriend should break up early, it can be said that she doesn't love you at all, not only does she not love you but also spoils you, and he doesn't take the initiative to break up with you because you want to break up yourself. If your parents find out, they must be distressed to death.

Hurry up and break up, such a boy is not worthy of your love. I don't know what else to cherish you and cherish you? If you are wronged, you don't have a good life even if you get married.

This is the experience of those who have come here. You should have nothing to hold on to him.