Am I wrong about doing this to my boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-26
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    What a boyish boyfriend....You're right, but in the end it's a bit too much to say that the breakup was a bit drastic...You have to explain the reason to him, but you must have told him, but the important thing is to say the reason why you can't ignore it, he is not familiar with the place, you must take care of it, tell him this, but he insists on coming in September may also have his own reasons, ask him why, and then think about what to do...But your boyfriend is a little too small...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    One concession will solve the problem entirely, isn't your approach a bit drastic?

    Also, from the current point of view, it is indeed you who care, this is a completely reasonable request, as your boyfriend, you should also be able to understand and talk to him again.

    On the other hand, is he the right fit for your half? Do you like this kind of personality or not?

    Arrange your itinerary well, and if you are troublesome, have a good cold war, and if he really likes you, he will ask for your tolerance.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Your point of view is right, but if you care about him very much, you should communicate with him again, ask him why he came in September, maybe he has any ideas, and the two of them can solve the problem by communicating their thoughts well, if he really thinks about you and the two of you, you will definitely communicate well!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It should be your boyfriend who doesn't understand you! You should communicate with him well and understand each other!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    For asking such a question 2 people don't have a fuel-efficient lamp 2 people together must be considerate of each other, and one party will not make concessions to form the current situation Break up Forget When does he learn to think about the problem from your starting point, and you learn to think about the problem from his point of view, you are in love, now it is not a question of selfishness or selfishness, is it to imagine what is the top? What's next? What's light and what's heavy?

    What is slow? What's the urgency?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, tell him well, he also wants to come to see you, so he is in a hurry to come.

    Don't be too anxious You may be more excited now, wait until everyone calms down You are irritable Actually, you care about him a lot, right?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not that your boyfriend yells every time you make a mistake, it's a sign that you don't care about you, but in a way, it's a sign that your boyfriend cares more about you, and he will warn you in this way, or warn you that you make mistakes yourself. to avoid the possibility of making a mistake next time, so that you have more ability to warn about the situation that you often make mistakes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, your boyfriend is also anxious about you, at this time you can tell him, you say well, don't yell at me, I will correct it, if you keep yelling at me, I will be sad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Every time you make a mistake, your boyfriend yells at you, one means that you often make mistakes, and it may be some who make mistakes, some people are more anxious, your boyfriend may belong to this kind of thing, and it can't prove that he doesn't care about you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I think this matter should be considered from different angles.

    Sogou asked. From the first point of view, if your boyfriend yells at you when something happens, then it is likely that there is something that makes him very angry and difficult to control his emotions, which I think is understandable. It's possible that one of the things is really because of you, and I think he may be yelling at you after a long time of suppression, and I think it's actually hard to control the speed of the boy when you're arguing.

    In fact, you can also think about it from another angle, when you are very angry, you will also yell at your significant other, then if you think about it this way, your psychology may be more comfortable.

    Sogou asked. If it is not caused by some reasons or your affairs, after the quarrel between you, your boyfriend yells at you at this time, and when you encounter problems in the future, as long as you quarrel, you will yell and yell at you, and you will be very angry or angry, I think there is no need to continue this relationship at this time. I think love or not love is the most important factor in determining whether this relationship can continue, but life can not be completely connected by feelings, he also needs in daily life, your suitability and whether you will get along with a good result, the requirements for the two of you are still quite high, if he is very angry with you, when quarrelling, will choose to coax you, then to a large extent it may ignore your feelings, So there may be a second time, there may be a second time, there may be a second time, and then gradually you may lose the courage to argue because of his roar.

    So in the process of arguing in the future, you may be very passive, and in later life you will become more and more sad because of the number of times you quarrel, I think it is actually a very sad thing.

    Sogou asked. I think when two people quarrel, the best state is to control their emotions, to be able to listen carefully to each other's voices while arguing, not blindly quarreling or blindly yelling to win this Super League victory, often the winning side for a long time he may be abandoned. Because not everyone can accept a partner who yells at her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your boyfriend just yells at you when you make mistakes, and I don't think it's a sign that he doesn't love you, it's his character, that's how it is.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Every time you make a mistake, you are angry and will yell at you, which can only show that he is no longer as good as before, and he doesn't want to have infinite tolerance for you at that time during the love period.

    He's growing, you should grow up, you have to grow up, don't always make mistakes, don't always be so naïve.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is because the mistakes you made made made your boyfriend very sad and caused him to be very angry with you, which does not prove that he doesn't care about you, you should make fewer mistakes, so that your boyfriend will treat you better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course not, because only people who care and care about each other behave in this way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Probably not, maybe your boyfriend is such a trait, he will say such an opinion when you make a mistake, so this is also very normal.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Probably not, maybe your boyfriend is very short-tempered and a little anxious, see if you can communicate.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Every time you make a mistake, your boyfriend will be fine, this is normal, it doesn't prove that he doesn't care about you anymore, it just means that he may be short-tempered and not calm enough when dealing with things.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can explain your feelings to your boyfriend, and if you explain to your boyfriend that he still coaxes you every time you get in the car, then it means that your boyfriend really doesn't care much about you. It is advisable to revisit the relationship between you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe your boyfriend is this kind of personality, it's up to you to accept it. However, I think that a man should be very intimate and warm to his girlfriend, even if she makes a mistake, we must discuss it well, and not make the girlfriend more sad and sad!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Probably not, it may have something to do with his personality and temper.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You made a mistake boyfriend, ugly monkey, you don't necessarily he doesn't care about you you you divide once, twice is okay, too many times he movies.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Every time you make a mistake, your boyfriend will yell at you, and that's because you often make her angry.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Every time I make a mistake, my boyfriend yells at me, does that prove that he doesn't love me anymore? I think it could be that your boyfriend doesn't have a very good temper, so he wants you. Fix it up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Empathy. If, in the same situation, you don't feel angry at all, it means that the man should be divided.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Make your own choices and cherish the moment.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In addition to sweetness, there are only quarrels in the relationship, and no couple will never have some contradictions. Everyone is an independent individual with different personalities, so it is inevitable that there will be some disputes in the process of getting along, let's take a look at it and see how couples should get along. Some netizens asked, why do I have to blame me for my boyfriend hurting him, let's take a look!

    First of all, we can first see if we have some big problems, if we don't have big problems. Then you can eliminate the mistake from yourself. Then we need to find out why the boyfriend is doing this, whether he is not serious at all in this relationship and does not like himself at all.

    The most important thing is that you still have to be responsible for finding a boyfriend, not only when you are in trouble, but also because you do not shirk your responsibilities and can sincerely recognize your mistakes. If you find that your boyfriend doesn't realize your mistake and instead finds an excuse to shirk responsibility, it's better to ring the alarm bell for yourself early. This kind of quibbling communication will make you feel very aggrieved, and there is a nameless fire in your heart that cannot be released, no less than violent injury.

    I hate shirking responsibility and finding reasons the most, I am not responsible for myself, and it is a kind of shirk for others! <>

    The man's attitude is vague or has no attitude, just throw it away without thinking about it, such a man has no real feelings for you, and it is not worth wasting time and energy at all. If a man really loves you, he will not blame you for his own mistakes, and at the same time, if a man really loves you, he will not hurt you, he will take care of you and protect you. <>

    If you meet a boy who hurts you and thinks it's your fault, then this boy doesn't love you, and when you meet such a boy, you should leave him early, don't let him hurt you again, and it may eventually cause more serious consequences. In addition, such a boy is also irresponsible, irresponsible, unreliable, everyone must learn to stop losses in time, and minimize the damage as much as possible.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your boyfriend hurt you and said it was your fault. First: This man is selfish and does not realize his own fault.

    Second: The man doesn't love you, or doesn't love you very much.

    Third: This man has a desire to control, and he is pua you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The first of the two situations is that your boyfriend hurt you and said that it was your fault, which is a manifestation of shirking responsibility and irresponsible scumbag behavior, and the second type is indeed your fault, but you didn't realize it, but mistakenly thought that your boyfriend hurt you, no matter which one was hurt, it was you who was hurt, so you have to make your own judgment accordingly, what kind of situation made you hurt.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's because this is a scumbag, he always doesn't want to be responsible when he encounters things, and he also thinks that others won't find out about such thoughts, so he is shirking responsibility.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because the hurt is mutual, and when you hurt you, you hurt him too. He said that you are at fault, but in fact he is at fault himself, he probably hasn't realized that he is wrong, just like you, you both owe each other a word of sorry.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your boyfriend hurts you and says it's your fault, I think this person must not really love you, if someone really loves you, then he must be reluctant to hurt you, he will be good to you, and will pay a lot for you. will protect you from the slightest harm.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because your boyfriend may be a face-loving person, even if you are at fault, you don't want you to criticize him, you should let him calm down slowly, and then communicate with him well, I believe he will be able to repent.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If your boyfriend hurts you and says it's your fault, it means that he just made an excuse for hurting.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Dear, generally this kind of person is more self-righteous, feels that everything he does is right, and does not want to admit his mistakes, maybe it is because of good face and too strong vanity, so he will blame the other party for his mistakes.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This kind of boy doesn't have a little responsibility, it's obvious that he made a mistake, and if you tell him what he was wrong, he will keep running away, and in the end when you say it, it will be pushed on you, but blame you for being unreasonable.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Your boyfriend hurts you, and says it's your fault, it's just his excuse, he doesn't pay for his mistakes, but puts the mistakes on you, such a boy is irresponsible, and he has no sense of tolerance.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You can be sure that this boyfriend of yours, he doesn't particularly know that he feels sorry for you, he hurts you and you should apologize, unless you really do something wrong, he will say that you are wrong.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It shows that your boyfriend didn't recognize his mistake and thought that it was your fault that you misunderstood him. It shows that he is not mature and stable enough, machismo, and will not consider your feelings!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Maybe your boyfriend doesn't want to admit his mistakes, or maybe your boyfriend doesn't have any feelings for you anymore, so if you do this, you want to get rid of this sense of responsibility.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Why does my boyfriend always say I'm sorry after hurting me?

    Why does he say sorry and ask for forgiveness every time after hurting me!

    Then perfunctory me said that I was in a bad mood! Got into a fight with someone else, even if what he said was true!

    So am I his punching bag? When I say I'm breaking up, I'm trying to keep me in all sorts of ways!

    Is such a boyfriend still worthy of forgiveness I'm so sad! Even my heart is broken!

    I think since you've been so angry, you still have him in your heart.

    He apologized to you, which means he still cares about you.

    I suggest that you talk about separating after a while, and then think about it, maybe the next one will be better, maybe you won't be able to catch up with this one.

    Is he often angry with you?

    If he is then you kick him and look for him, if you feel that you can no longer think of him with him, think of things that are happy with him, then you just wait, and when you find a better one to kick him, I think you will find a better one.

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