Is there really a saying that people have a good life and a bad life?

There are many people who think that many things are predestined, so which things are predestined. The first is to be born, your current family, which is really fateful.

No one can choose this, which family to be born in? It will determine the formation of your acquired character. In which family did you grow up in, and what kind of education did you receive?

What kind of family changes will you encounter? And your growth environment is also destined. Because your birth is predestined, so the early growth environment is also predestined.

What kind of parents will you meet? There are several siblings, and the order of your siblings is all predestined. You can't change it, you can't choose it. Still others leave their parents after birth, are abandoned or adopted. That's when fate will be different.

Growing up in a different environment will have different life experiences. This will cause some people to have a rough fate, and some people have a smooth fate, and they are very successful from the outside. There are three very important conditions for human success.

1. Information and Resources. 2. Personality traits of the individual. 3. Education and training the day after tomorrow.

Let's start with the first piece of information and resources, if you were born into a wealthy aristocracy. You are exposed to more information about society than you are at the bottom. So you have a lot of options to do.

Resources include family background and financial strength. What kind of family are you in? What kind of connections do you have, and what is your family's financial strength?

to decide your choice. What can be done and what can't be done? People with a lot of information resources and a good family background are more selective and successful.

The personality traits of an individual, the character of a person, influence his behavior. Even if you were born in the same family, because the order of siblings is different. The personality is also different.

Some people have a lot of information and resources, but because of their personality. There are a lot of things he can do, but he just doesn't want to go. Although the conditions for such people are very good, it is difficult for them to succeed.

Although some people have little information and resources, they have a kind of hard work in their character, dare to fight, dare to break through. If others don't want to do it, he will do it if he doesn't want to do it. Slowly, he will be able to become more and more successful.

Another point is the education and training that is acquired. I'm not just talking about schooling. There are also some things that we have experienced when we come out of society, which are also acquired education.

What kind of education do you have? What kind of professional training do you receive? Your life is completely different. Many people want to be a singer and an actor. But have you ever wondered about those famous singers and actors. In addition to the information and resources they are born with.

They all have gone through more than ten years or even decades of professional training before they can perform so well. It's not that you want to do it, you can sing, you can perform. You can do it if you look good.

Without acquired education and training, many things are just empty of oneself. You simply can't reach the heights of others. Because they started higher than you.

Many times, the so-called people with good lives just rely on their own vision to have a high-quality marriage.

Writer Yang Daxia sent a message, the higher the pattern, the happier it is.

It's a real headache, as if it really is. All decisions are predestined. This view minimizes the damage.

Based on my years of experience:

There is no such thing as an absolute good life, but there is an absolute bad life.

The happy things in life are probably those things, wealth, relationships, children, houses, cars, assets, etc.

The unfortunate have their own misfortunes: disability, untimely death, failure to marry multiple marriages, bankruptcy and debts, childlessness, loneliness, and so on.

Personality determines fate, and most people with bad temper and personality have a bad life.