Good and bad in early love, is puppy love really bad

Hello, I am also in adolescence now, but I don't have early love, I find that the phenomenon of early love is very common around me, I go to school in the countryside, and there are more early loves. There may be more open cities. In fact, puppy love is not a dirty problem, maybe adults complicate it, I look at the classmates around me, the good of puppy love is:

Some people have more motivation to study and work, and there are many students in our school who have risen in grades after falling in love, because they feel happy and a little happiness, so they will be more energetic in doing things.

The disadvantage of early love is that some people pay too much attention to this, put aside study and work to think about all kinds of emotional problems in adolescence, unconsciously, it will regress, we in adolescence, it is also easy to get hurt, that is ignorant love, not even love, so even if the relationship is particularly good at the beginning, it ends with one or more parties being injured, which not only wastes time, but also makes yourself unhappy, and may also make parents worry, and even have conflicts with parents.

I am also young, not rich in experience, I will say my own true thoughts, there may be views that you disagree with, please forgive me, in short, I hope you do not forget that you still have study or work at any time, to act rationally, to do things can consider the consequences. Don't be bothered by this, come on!

Well, puppy love is bad!! This is my personal experience!!

Puppy love is really bad for the following reasons:

1. Early love is distracted, affecting studies, wasting youth, and ruining the future.

We often say that you can't use one mind for the other. As a student, the first task is to study, if you have more thoughts, your attention will inevitably be distracted, and your grades will inevitably decline. Even those who excel in their studies and have top-notch grades may not be able to devote themselves to their studies because of early love, so that they cannot perform normally in the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination.

In the past, in our class, the girl with the best grades and the boy with the best grades fell in love, and the two met every day and wrote letters to each other.

At that time, it was the third year of junior high school, and because of early love, neither of them passed the high school entrance examination, and everyone felt sorry for them. What's even more regrettable is that neither of them repeated, nor did they go to other schools, so they went to work together, and it didn't take long for the two to get married, and they were not yet of the legal age for marriage at that time.

If it weren't for early love, they should be able to be admitted to high school, and then to college, and their lives would be different.

Second, early love is easy to hurt, easy to be disappointed in feelings, and thus make unwise choices.

At the age when love first blooms, the mood is extremely unstable, and it is easy to like a person, and it is easy to dislike a person. But if you still like someone very much, but that person no longer likes you, then it is inevitable that you will be hurt, and you may even stop believing in love because of this, and become casual in later relationships.

Because of early love, I was deeply hurt, and it was so unwise to be so hasty in the face of marriage.

3. Early love is not tolerated by the world, and gossip is full of rumors, causing serious psychological burden.

Puppy love is a forbidden fruit, not only not allowed by the elders, but also not accepted by the world. If early love is **, parents scold, teachers criticize, classmates ridicule, and many irrelevant people will also point fingers behind their backs, full of gossip, which is enough to crush the weak heart.

If you don't know how to clean yourself and love yourself, how can you be treated gently by the world. In the matter of early love, a slight mistake may turn into a thousand years of hatred, sad.