People are not noble, they are destined to have a hard life When can a person with a hard life be

People who are suffering from life are usually born with the "victim mentality", which is reflected in the fact that once they have formed a disagreement with others, they will subconsciously think that I am being bullied, and I must not let others harm my own rights and interests, and then I don't want to worry about communicating with the other party, and are accustomed to using the form of disputes to defend their own "rights and interests", in fact, this is a reflection of too little confidence.

Many times, there are many things that can be solved through communication, others are unintentionally jeopardizing our rights and interests, perhaps, it is just an unintentional mistake, they themselves do not know, at this time, we calmly tell the other party the reason, the other party will be willing to make tolerance and compensation, but once they quarrel with each other, this kind of disagreement will no longer be controllable. "People with a hard life" will always compete with people and property because of their inferior logical thinking, and the only one who will be hurt in the end is often himself; And people who have an "aristocratic temperament" on the body can calm down when encountering problems, and never quarrel with people casually. Those who don't think about things will have a miserable life after all.

The second characteristic of a person who has a hard life is that he is short-sighted, and whenever he encounters something unpleasant, he loves to figure it out endlessly, and he regrets it endlessly. In fact, even if something that makes people feel difficult, as long as it happens, this thing is in the "past tense", and we can neither change it, nor should it affect our future life, and blindly paining or regretting things that have not been satisfactory in the past are of no use except for the pain that can make our current life painful.

People who have a hard life often don't understand the true meaning of life, they are short-sighted, and they will always let themselves fall into the pain that happened in the past and can't extricate themselves; On the contrary, those who have an "aristocratic temperament" often have a good attitude, once they encounter something unhappy, they will only laugh it off, never take it to heart, they can't use the mistakes they have made in the past to torture themselves today. When encountering people who are not satisfied, they will regret it and never finish, most of their lives are miserable, and we are short-sighted.

People with a hard life" are born with a bad fate, they love to worry about things, even if it is about the future is unknowable, nothing has happened, they are always used to worrying, let themselves fall into anxiety, unable to extricate themselves. People who are suffering from life will not only worry about the so-called development prospects and fate, but also worry about the future and fate of their loved ones, they are basically pessimistic people, even if they encounter good things, they also like to consider the worst areas, such people, it is difficult to have a happy life.

On the contrary, these people who have an "aristocratic temperament" usually have a good mentality of "having wine today and getting drunk tomorrow", and they understand a truth: it is meaningless to worry about the future, and living well today is the end of a good life. As a result, they are very happy every day.

People who are suffering from life are not easy to see through when they encounter problems, and they are often accustomed to worrying about the future.

When you quarrel with others, when you are underestimated, when you are wronged, if you can't hold your breath at these times, you won't succeed.

Those who are "hard-lived" like to be more serious in everything, and they like to be careful about everything no matter how big or small, such people will be troubled every day because of small trivial matters, and how can they have "extravagance"? This kind of person is destined to have a "hard life", just because they can't hold their breath when they encounter something.