I liked a guy in my 30s, I was afraid of opposition from my family, what should I do, I m 16 now

You are calm, it is very important for girls to love themselves, you are only 16, if you think that the other party really loves you is not playing, let him tell your parents, get engaged first, otherwise don't be stupid, in case he still has a family, you don't know what are you, there are a lot of things like this now.

No one supports you Oh, little brother, haha, I'll go home to you, I hope you will be more satisfied, you are 16 years old, she is 30 years old, a very interesting pair, if she likes you too! Then you are really very happy, because you belong to the love of the mother-love complex, and once she loves you! You'll be her good boy, be happy!

Then it's up to you, strive for happiness and go your own way....

The family is bound to oppose it, you are still young, you are not deeply involved in the world, and you know very little about emotional matters after all. It is recommended that the landlord look at this relationship after 3 years!

All I can say is. Falling in love is a matter of two people. He's not suitable for you.

Only you know. After all, you are still young now, and your ability to judge right from wrong is not strong, and you are still very confused about distinguishing people. I suggest that you choose carefully.

In case he's here to lie to you. What will you do later in life?

In fact, you may not know what it feels like to like yourself, you should just have a good impression of that person, and that person is usually very good to you, you must look at your feelings rationally, don't be blind.

You're 16 years old, you haven't experienced much yet, and you should understand what it means to like it later.

I'm going to oppose you, you can say that you are in love now, you actually like a 30-year-old, he must have a lot of emotional experience at this age, and this person is 30, and you can still like it at 16, which also proves that that he is not a good person, is it obvious to abduct teenagers.

Do you have paternal or maternal tendencies? It's only 16 years old, and you only say that you like it, you just like it, just like you like a star, it doesn't necessarily mean that you love him. Distinguish the difference between liking and loving!

In my opinion, it is not love, it may be the feeling of attachment, because at your current age, the most contact is maternal love. But don't mix love with family affection, I believe you will understand as you grow up slowly.

Don't rush, take your time, you are not mature and do not know what true love is.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but brother, it's okay for you to love her, can you do it for a lifetime if you want to live together? It can be said that you don't know how to love, and when you grow up, you will understand that love is not a lifetime, and you can't like a person for a lifetime, only mutual understanding and maintenance...

Now I feel that I have grown up and sensible, and when I look back after a few years, it is a matter of two thoughts!

Hold on for a moment! Wait.

If you can ask a question here, it shows that in thinking twice, refer to the suggestions of friends around you! It's best to listen to what your family has to say.

It's so small, don't do something you regret on impulse, study hard, and I believe there will be better ones in the future

Be motivated to learn, and you will find your true love.

Don't be too blind, you don't have a future. Now your so-called liking is just feeling that he is good to you. Think carefully.

What's wrong with today's children? You're too young to know what true love is, and when you do, you won't like him. Alas, what a child.

If you truly love each other, keep going.

That man is a strange man! Don't be fooled!

You're just a kind of blind worship.

Maybe she hasn't been kicked before! I haven't had a manager through the wind and rain, where is there a rainbow? ＠

Hey, girls nowadays really owe.

This is very easy to do, brother, it is a good opportunity given to you by God, so this is when the girl you like wants help from a friend, then you are not a great opportunity, I wish the world a lover to become a family!

Comfort her, what do you want you to do, a big boy, it's to accompany her in an emergency!!

The time has come for heroes to save beauty.

Stay with her well. Comfort her and give her a sense of security.

This hero suggests that you call ** to greet her, it's best to make a few more jokes, and boldly confess to her when you're almost out of words, or confess when you ask her out to play, anyway, it's best to tell her face to face, you know, the girl's death hole is covered by the boy's bravery!! Therefore, if you confess to the agitation and bad words, you must be brave and stare at her eyes to confess! In this case, the success rate of the skin is generally 80%!!

If you have a girl you like and whisper and want to develop with her, it is recommended to find an opportunity to say it in person. Relying on a text message alone may not be able to accurately express your thoughts, and you can't see her reaction on the other end of the phone.

You just write, "Happy New Year, I hope you and I can find each other's other half this year." ”

She also loves your words, bai she will show herself in front of her parents.

Du self full of attitude. Now that marriage is free, there is no such thing as forced marriage, so you can answer it.

The woman's parents have a tough attitude, and the daughter takes legal measures if she is reluctant, and the parents have no right to interfere with the children's right to choose marriage, which can only be used as a reference. Elopement is certainly not a good way, if you really love each other, continue to work hard for the future. Parents want their children to live happily in the future.

Let parents see your steadfastness and happiness. Even if there is still a pimple in my heart, I will naturally agree, for the sake of my children. No parent would sacrifice their child's happiness to fulfill their ideas.

How much do you love her? Don't say it so easily, if you really love her, you will lose your mind in love. Since you don't choose to elope, what nonsense is coming up.

Since her family doesn't agree with you, what else can you do besides stealing marriage. Anyway, time will dilute everything, and it is hard to dilute your tenacious love.

Raw rice and cooked rice, the child has it, it's okay if it doesn't work!

If you love her, you have to have courage, otherwise it will not work out. Or confess to her and elope.

If you love her, you have to have courage, otherwise it will not work out.

Why not, uh, take the liberty of asking if you're a man or a woman.

Don't listen to adults, you're just in love......A process that doesn't come together in the future will only waste your studies.

Talk to them slowly, I'm just like you.

Go with the flow.

In fact, no matter what advice everyone gives you, what should you do or what you should do at that time, your parents' opinions may not be listened to, let alone the opinions of strangers, and no stranger can consider it from your standpoint.

In short, don't go overboard and have fun.

Leave him and find your own life.

I suspect you have a father-lover complex, in your thirties, your dad is not a few years older than him, right? That man is not a human being, and such a child is also on it.

See a psychiatrist and get in touch with the opposite sex.

I can already eat with my family, what else can I not say!!

I believe that communication can solve all problems, so let's talk about it openly!! I believe that sincere efforts will have perfect fruits!!

Your thoughts, likes and are not the same as hers, it is advisable to ask her concerns, opinions.

It feels very impure, and there may be bitterness, but it's best to ask the girl herself, there should be honesty between the two.

She wants to be more affectionate with you

After all, the job is also for your own good, and the people in the house also want you to be happy, and when you are still young, you can do what you like. Beg.

1Let's all walk slowly! But you have to have the motivation to struggle, don't be pampered, otherwise her family will definitely look down on you.