If you are too honest, what will happen?

You just think everyone is good and kind! I'm telling you, such a realistic society! People are very scheming!

Unless you're lucky, the people you're talking to are the ones who are easy to talk to! Just do your own thing, don't meddle in your own affairs, just have a clear conscience! There are also people who say that you are honest, I think everyone has an honest side, don't let others say that you are what you are, I think as you described above, you should be a person with no sense of direction!

A person must have a outlook on life and values!

Why don't you be too realistic, if you are too realistic, you will not end well?

Honest people don't end well, and honest people have the following situations:

The first type is the nest man. Nest people have no assertiveness when encountering problems, and most of them are passive and passive personalities. This kind of person is not good at expressing his own demands, and will not take the initiative to fight for himself in the face of interests, and often resign himself to fate and wait for good things to come to him.

For example, in a team, this kind of person can meet a leader with a bowl of water (in fact, there are very few such people), and maybe good things will favor him. On the contrary, if he can't meet such a leader, then he only knows how to work hard, and he doesn't know how to fight for interests, and over time, the hard work will become his, and it will be difficult for good things to fall on his head.

The second, the gentleman. A gentleman should also be an honest person, and a gentleman is a relative villain. The biggest difference between a gentleman and a villain is that a gentleman has principles, while a villain has no bottom line.

When a gentleman encounters trouble, he first considers his principles, whether his behavior is appropriate, and whether he will hurt others. The villain is different, the villain has no bottom line, in order to achieve his own goals, in order to fight for his own interests, he will do whatever it takes and does not take into account the feelings of others. In the contest between the gentleman and the villain, it is difficult for the gentleman to fight the villain with principles against the bottom line.

The third type is the face-loving person. Nowadays, there is a popular saying that those who love face will lose face in the end. Those who don't love face will win face in the end.

Honest people often have too strong self-esteem and too thin skin, and they don't talk about it when they encounter problems, all because they love face too much, so they will lose a lot of opportunities.

Therefore, it is an unavoidable reality that honest people suffer losses, and honest people do not end well.

is too kind so that there is no bottom line, and there is a lack of courage to deal with provocations in principle, and there is wisdom that is too humble and will always give in, so they don't know how to fight, lack the heart of defense, and are always very easy to trust others.

Very soft-hearted, very talkative, especially timid, very afraid of being bullied by others, generally have these problems.

In these days, the word "honest" can hardly be said to be positive or derogatory. To say that you are too honest is tantamount to calling you a big fool. Because you are busy with everything, but in the end, all the benefits are people's.

So as the saying goes, honest people suffer, honest people are useless. "Honest" here is derogatoryBut to say that you are a dishonest person is tantamount to calling you a big villain.

Because everything is done by others, but the final benefits are all yours. Being so treacherous and slippery has gone to the extreme of the opposite of "honesty". The "honest" here is a compliment

These days, no one wants to be a "stupid guy", no one wants to be a "bad guy", so no one wants people to say that they are "not honest", and no one wants people to say that they are "too honest". Therefore, neither too honest nor too dishonest, and practicing the golden mean has become the life choice of most people. To be a man is to be real, what's wrong with being an honest person?

As long as it's not stupid, it's okay to be worthy of others and yourself, and you don't care what others say. People have endless losses in their lives, endless bargains, everything is in line with each other, honest people do not necessarily suffer losses, I think people are really good.

Can't you be too honest, don't be too honest, be honest, be honest, and don't cause trouble. Honesty is right, everyone wants others to be honest, and likes to get along with honest people, because it is safer to get along with honest people, honest people would rather suffer their own losses than others suffer, and honest people never count others. He did not hesitate to praise that "the smartest person in the world is the most honest person".

Not only ***, but also successful people at home and abroad in ancient and modern times, all regard honesty as a criterion that a gentleman must abide by. However, there is a degree to everything, and once it goes too far, things go the other way. It's okay to be honest, but it's too bad to be too honest.

Too honest is a kind of woodenness, a kind of conservative, a kind of stubbornness, too honest people don't know how to be sophisticated, don't know how to plan their own life, too honest people only know how to live step by step, no innovation and no breakthrough, never want to take the initiative to do anything, only know to do things according to other people's instructions, and don't even know what they can and can't do. How much can such a person achieve in his life? A person who is too honest has been passive all his life, and he is destined to be mediocre all his life, not that there is no opportunity to favor him, but that he can't see the opportunity when it comes to him, let alone grasp it.

Hello dear! It could be due to the following reasons:1

To be honest about objective things is to seek truth from facts. When we do something, what is the consequence of this thing, that is, cause and effect, we have to be responsible for what we do, we must be responsible, we must be responsible, this is the work attitude that a person should have. When something is not done well, we have to look for the reasons, find out the internal laws of the existence of things, respect the objective reality, and face it realistically, instead of evading or shirking responsibility, so that we can grow and mature from this matter.

When all employees of a company have a realistic attitude towards the world, then the team will be a growth team, everyone in the team will grow, the quality of the individual has been improved, and the collective strength of the team will be strengthened. It's good for everyone. 2.

One of the most important characteristics of being an honest person is to follow the rules. As the old saying goes: there is no way to make a circle if you are unruly.

Therefore, only if we abide by the rules, behave in the rules and do things, then the society can be orderly, and the development of good order is the most conducive to social developmentTo be an honest person is to be loyal to the team and the leader. A person who is loyal to the team and the leader, must be an honest person, they will not lie to their superiors and colleagues, but to their colleagues with sincerity, people with this sincere heart, is what the team needs most, a person is not loyal to the team, then his conduct is not conducive to the unity and development of the team.

Don't bully him, he's an honest man. ''I don't know when I was labeled as an honest man.

Honest people are timid and cowardly, silent and do not like to speak. The way to get along with others is to wronged yourself to please others. As everyone knows, how can people who don't even know how to respect themselves can gain the respect of others.

Honest people are introverted and autistic, selfish, and accustomed to wronging themselves and lowering their posture to please others. But he can't win the favor of others.

Whether you can be a person or not, you can know it by looking at a person's connections. The more friends a person has, the more he will get along with others, and others will be willing to help him.

An honest person can't be a man, he is lonely and helpless, he becomes more vulnerable, and others are more likely to bully him.

Honest people will not have too good results in career and love. It stems from the fact that there are not many qualities that succeed in honest people. For example, introversion and shyness, not like to express, will not take the initiative in the process of getting along with others, miss opportunities, etc.

An honest person just can't be a man. I think I am introverted and shy, but in fact, I don't want to take the initiative to talk to others, and it is natural to leave the impression of being withdrawn and high-minded to others.

If honest people don't try to be enthusiastic, take the initiative, and express themselves boldly, they will miss a lot of opportunities, causing their circle of friends to get smaller and smaller.

Honest people should recognize their own shortcomings and try to change themselves. People are malleable, and it doesn't mean that there is no way to change the character if it is formed. As long as you dare to go to an unfamiliar environment and leave your familiar area, you will be changed in the process of adapting to the new environment.

Don't make excuses for yourself, "I'm an honest man", so that you can wrap yourself in a trap and not change yourself. Then you will never have a successful life.

Honest people are not a compliment in my eyes, but they feel very harsh when they hear it. I want to be a person who is very good in my interpersonal interactions, not to be considered an honest person.