Why do I speculate too much about what others say about me?

You're so unconfident. Other people's guesses are your own imagination. Tired or not!

Wake up every morning and say hello: Good morning, genius!

Washing your face is, saying to the mirror: you are the best!

When you want to do something, say to yourself: I did a good job, let others envy me.

Hint at yourself often, encourage yourself, and improve your self-confidence!

When you think about other people's evaluations all the time, when you think of good evaluations, tell yourself that it's useless to think too much; When I think of a bad evaluation, I tell myself that I forgot about him, and I always think about how to live in this matter?

Is your profession one that is often judged?

My profession often has to be analyzed and pointed out by others, and some criticisms are very ugly, so what can I do, they just say it, and I can't let people all over the world agree with me, right?!

This is a very normal psychology. Each of us lives in a group and naturally cares about what others think and think of us. If you don't care at all, you're really going to extremes.

However, while we strive to do better, we don't need to care too much about what others say. Because, life is always your own. Other people's remarks are only a small part of your own life, don't let it affect the whole life.

Calm your heart, go your own way and let others say go.

Go your own way and let others say go! Don't take this to heart, be optimistic and cheerful! The main thing is to open a little!!

Try to follow your heart, don't be disturbed by others, and have a good life!

Go your own way and let others say go! Be self-confident. Everyone has the right time.

If there is no desire, it is rigid. Or is desire at work? People are like this, because it depends on the opinions of others, there is no ego, only troubles. However, this is also an opportunity to exercise your mind, and it doesn't matter if you experience it. Time changes everything.

I've had this experience, but I've also unconsciously become less important, maybe I'm getting older, but the mentality is the most important, you can try to do more things that you are confident in, maybe it will be better.

It's normal, it's good to adjust it yourself! Let go of your heart and live for yourself.

Go your own way and let others have no way out.

Same as my girlfriend! I just beat it up!

It's all there, what is the situation and what is the relationship, this kind of problem still needs to judge the relationship and character of the other party.

Why bother? Because most of them are guessed, impatient.

Everyone will more or less want to know what others think of themselves, but don't dwell too much, it's not good to drill too much, first of all, you must be clear that you are a person with independent thinking ability, you have to distinguish which evaluations are good, you should listen to them, which ones don't make sense at all, don't pay attention to them, read more relaxed and broad books, Feng Zikai, Qian Zhongshu and other writers' books are very humorous in life, you might as well take a look, and shift your attention to cultivating hobbies, if you really feel panicked, You can go to a psychology teacher for consultation, many people think that to consult a psychology teacher is sick, this kind of thinking is too narrow, in fact, you just need to talk to someone, say your feelings, let the teacher use scientific psychological methods to solve the problem may be better.

Actually, this is normal. Everyone cares a lot about what others say. Me too. However, we must know how to overcome and know how to forget. You always think that other people's words will do a lot of things wrong.

I'm like that too. Other people's words will be sad in their hearts for a long time. I value other people's opinions very much, and I'm too tired and tired. I'm trying hard not to, but there's always nothing I can do.

It's not like this, I used to think about it too much, and I couldn't hold it anymore, so I worked hard. Slowly, you will find that people don't pay attention to you. You're not a celebrity, are you?

You wouldn't be paying attention to non-celebrities, would you! In addition to friends, relatives and lovers, who really care about you.

There's no need to care too much, you live for yourself, not for others, just do it yourself with a clear conscience.

That's because you're not confident enough in yourself! There is also a lack of a group of like-minded friends with you.

It's not that you face yourself squarely, don't care what other people think, people have different aspirations, and different people have good or bad evaluations of different people.

It's not a mental illness, I've been in this situation too, but now I don't, I think other people think of it like fart. If you have an opinion about me, if there is any trouble, there will always be people who think that my method is the right one!

Because there are too many ** in this world, it is difficult for good people to be trusted! Even so, don't be sad, and don't lose your principles of being a human being because of suspicion. You are genuinely good to your friends, and one day they will understand!

I can't talk about people's shortcomings, it's just that we are all too young and have suffered all the misery of society, what can we say? In short, treat the people around you with heart, even if you are misunderstood, you will not hesitate.

Hehe, you can be sincere, but they don't think so! They don't think the same way you do!

Realistic society: The better you are to others, the better others will only take advantage of you.

Maybe you can try to prove that what you say is true.

Mindset is very important, keep a clear mind. If you think about it, it's not necessarily a bad thing, it means that you are more calm and will rarely make mistakes. But it also shows that you are not confident enough and too cautious, which can be changed.

You should think that everyone evaluates others based on their own values, as if your evaluation of everyone is different, which you cannot control. Each of us is not a saint and will make mistakes, and the important thing is to correct each mistake in time. Successful people are also tempered by constant setbacks.

When you have nothing to do, read more books, read some world famous books, you can find a lot from them!

Sometimes, I'm just like you, I'm always afraid that others will hate me, I'm very cautious when I do things, I'm afraid that others will get angry or something, and I'm afraid that others will say something bad about me.

Landlord, in fact, it's nothing, it's just that we are a very reasonable, very intellectual, very humane person, unlike some very selfish people, who only care about their own lives! We do this to make others think that we are a good person, and the person who wants others to think that he is a good person and strives to develop in a good direction is a person with noble thoughts.

If you really think that your ideas are too much, then restrain yourself, it's not a big deal, who can not make mistakes!

I'm the same as you, but it's much better now, in fact, find your own strengths, make yourself more confident, carry forward your strengths, and you'll be better, believe in yourself, and good luck.

Get out of social fear and build social confidence!

Why do you always think that others will think that you are bad, so do you think you are good or not? Always care about other people's thoughts, is you really lacking or inferiority complex in your heart, everyone has their own characteristics, not introverted must be bad, you also have your own strengths, whether it is to things or to treat the people around you, have a sincere heart, try to be perfect, don't force other people's ideas, overly care about other people's attitudes. First find the reason from yourself, see if you are really deficient in some aspects, and then change it, and then look at yourself again for the people around you, if others think it is right, change, wrong, don't care.

You think about it a lot, in fact, I used to have a similar situation, but now I won't, in fact, it's good to be happy, we live for ourselves, why care what others say and think. The most important thing is to live yourself. If you really change, then act, time will tell, you are good.

In fact, my personality is very similar to you, I am also a person who cares a lot about other people's thoughts, often because of some small things and cranky, introverted, even withdrawn、、、 I am afraid to communicate with others, so I always rarely speak in front of others.

Later, when I went to college, I slowly realized that many things, in fact, as long as you do your best, you don't have to think about what others think of you, no matter how you were, how you are, and how you will be in the future, in fact, it has no impact on others. If you watch more comedy and comedy films, people will gradually become cheerful and make themselves more knowledgeable, then you will have something to say when you communicate with different people, usually take the initiative to care about others, or simply say a word or two of greetings, after a long time, people will unconsciously accept you, and you will also integrate into their circle. Then, try to hide your vulnerable side as much as possible and show them your optimistic and cheerful side.

In fact, it is really strange to get along with people, you have to believe that "first of all, you must be sincere to others, so that you can win the trust and respect of others" I also came over like this, I hope you can do it too. Come on!!

When you care a lot about what others think of you, do you care about others as well?

Many people have this kind of thinking that they are not good enough in front of others. I also have a little.

Actually, other people really won't care about you. Just like you don't care too much about other people.

When you recall what you have done before, how much do you remember clearly?

Very little, so do you think others will remember your past?

People are selfish creatures, always self-centered, always feeling that others are watching you. But! The fact is: other people's most about your affairs is to understand them, and they will never care too much, and others always care about their own affairs, just like you!!

Man lives for himself. Do anything. As long as you feel that you are doing a good job.

That's it. Don't make sense of what others think. They say whatever they like.

You were farting at the time. Being yourself is the best choice. Don't distort the facts.

Live in someone else's world. Then you are tired ...

You are not introverted but autistic, you always feel that you don't get the attention you deserve, and you ignore your own problems, what you worry about may not be what others should also worry about, everyone has something to do, you are not eye-catching, who can think about people who have nothing to do with themselves all day long, you worry too much, just do yourself.

Mentality, open your heart, say what you have, maybe you just live in a life of self-directed and self-acting.

Try to do one thing successfully, show them with facts that you are not like that, and you don't need words.

In fact, there is no real good than bad, I used to want you to care about other people's opinions, but the past is also in the past, the past is not good in the past, the past does not mean that you are not good now, you can't only care about other people's opinions of you, although you are very introverted, not easy to get along with people, but you always have to face, so if you want to change, change, I believe that your friends will not only care about the past you, maybe they also want to see you after the change!

It's not right for you to do this, because you're too suspicious, you're always cranky, it's become your habit, but you'll think about other people's small actions, in fact, because your sense of self-protection is too strong, you're afraid as if someone else's action has some purpose, guessing is okay, you're always suspicious, you know, it will hurt your spirit, you're overusing your brain, it is recommended that you don't think too much, change it quickly, whenever you see other people's small actions, you say, it's okay, it's okay, All is well.

Life is a constant temptation. Actually, this is what everyone thinks, you don't have to feel guilty, you're just more sensitive, it's normal. , let it be, you don't need to pay attention to it, this is originally a skill of self-preservation, guessing what others think, and replying yourself.

But what needs to be told is that what you see and what you guess is not necessarily the real situation, so don't be dragged down by the imagination in it.

Such a psychology is not good for you, and it can affect your life. So all you have to do is try not to think about it, and if you really can't help it, then you might as well think of other things to divert your attention.

You are more curious and imaginative. Chat with your friends and you'll be their pistachio.

No, I care too much about what others think of me, and it also proves that I am not confident.

That would be a headache and it is advisable not to pay too much attention to it.