I feel that I have some problems and confusion in my heart, and I hope to help me point out the reas

How do you feel the same as me! I'm a boy, and I feel like it's the unique way of making friends for people like us... Regardless of boys and girls, as long as it feels like their own food, they will talk darkly, and they will not feel like they have nothing to say... If you meet someone who is not suitable for you, you will turn yourself into a wooden person and do the work of your own hands.

Actually, what you think in your own heart (I think that male colleagues will think that I am very reserved and not suitable for chatting. I was scared, and the more I was afraid, the more I thought about it, and the more I thought about it, the more I was afraid. It's very frightened) added a lot of pressure to myself, making me feel inferior.

This creates a vicious circle... The less confident you are, the less you dare to talk to them. If you don't dare to talk to them, the more you feel inferior, the less confident you are...

Hehe, endlessly!

Try to relax yourself... If you have any cure, remember to give me a copy.

I think maybe you're not very confident.,Plus you're a very cautious.,I think there's something between you and the difference that makes you feel very uncomfortable.、Burdensome.。。。 I think another possibility is whether you have some psychological pressure or some knots with the boy that you haven't untied......In fact, sometimes it's okay to think about it, I want to open some, everyone is human, all are equal, what is there? Open your heart, be confident at all times, as long as they don't reject you, sometimes it's important to handle the communication between people correctly, come on, I believe you will be able to carve ......

How hard is it to find someone who can treat you with sincerity, love her, take care of her, respect her, accept her, and be loyal to her forever until the end of her life, whether it is illness or health, or any other reason? Who can really do it, and who can trust me!!

It's your psychological problem, and your heart doesn't want to be alone with a man, which makes you feel uncomfortable. You can be uninhibited in front of many people, but if you are alone with a man, you will feel constrained, and this comes down to overcoming your psychology.

You're a more cautious girl, that's better. Be cautious when you are alone with men outside!

Exercising more will be fine, don't deliberately, just naturally

Don't worry, think, there is pure friendship in this world, just treat him as the same sex.

You must have very few friends of the opposite sex I mean the kind of friends I used to have a similar experience with you, but I slowly changed my personality, I always wrapped myself very tightly, and my personality was more withdrawn, so I became more cheerful When talking to colleagues of the opposite sex, don't put too much pressure on yourself, which will make you more nervous

Actually, I think you may not be confident enough. As you said, it's more comfortable when you have a female colleague, and it's only when you're alone. I think you're worried that you're not dealing properly or that you're not saying the right thing.

In fact, as long as you look at it, it's just a normal colleague chat, and it's not an important interview, and no one will laugh at you.

You are too inferior. You're not confident. You are no worse than anyone else. Why? Chatting is just a process. You've gone through the process. You'll have unexpected results.

You are similar to me, you may be more shy, more conservative, and have something to do with the environment in which you grew up, and now you should learn to accept others.

Maybe it's good to get married. It's okay.

Making yourself stronger, or learning self-defense techniques, can help you cope with stress.

Adjust your mindset or go to psychological counseling

After the first conversation, you'll want to think about the next time.

Uh, didn't you talk to a male classmate in school?

I used to be in a similar situation to you, always entangled in a problem, and even couldn't sleep at night, still thinking, the whole person is very depressed, and if it continues like this, the consequences are particularly serious. But I've adjusted it myself, and I've given you advice:

1.If you have an idea in your heart, say it, don't bury it in your heart, and communicate with your friends.

2.If you can't figure out something, don't think about it, you'll understand it slowly.

3.Maintain an optimistic attitude, make more friends, participate in activities with friends, and slowly enjoy being happy with everyone, and no longer be negative.

4.It's useless to escape a lot of things, you have to learn to face it, try to solve the problem, you will find that you are not bad, and you will have confidence.

5.And the most important point: don't care too much about what others think, do what you have to do, just work hard to do well, and believe in yourself.

Hope it helps!

Divert your attention and allow yourself to have something to do and be less cranky ... Don't worry about what to do when the sky falls, there is a tall one on the top when the sky falls, and it is still unknown whether the sky will fall, why think so much, what you have now is what you really have, you should cherish the time now, live every day, and live the next day.

Communicate with friends, do things with loved ones, tell the truth with people you don't know, release your doubts, and feel at ease.

You have to encourage yourself, make yourself brave, make your own choices, don't care about the outside world's opinions, just be yourself! I used to be like that!

If you like to read, I recommend reading inspirational books, I recommend you to watch some interview TV programs, and in addition to finding someone to chat with in your usual work can also play a certain role in alleviating the situation, get up in the morning and look in the mirror, smile at yourself in the mirror, and shout I can do it, I believe you can get out of the predicament.

Read more books and communicate more with friends.

You probably have some symptoms of obsessive-compulsive thoughts, right? It is recommended that you get a psychological consultation as soon as possible.

I used to be like this a lot, sometimes I was thinking about a few things repeatedly at night, and I was always in a state of excitement, not sleepy, and I couldn't sleep at night. There are many reasons for insomnia, I don't know what caused you, don't take medicine indiscriminately, often eat more daylily and sour dates, it is best to eat every day, don't always think cranky, slowly it will be fine.

I personally think that when I have insomnia, I think too much about things and take some things too seriously.

Spend more time on studying and relating to your family.

When people get sick, it is often not the disease that makes it more serious, but the psychological pressure and ideological burden that make the disease more serious.

Be happy and optimistic, don't get into trouble.

Hope you're okay

What an extraneous event!

Two suggestions for reference:

1. Tell your mother the truth about your troubles and experiences, and believe that if she hears that this is the case with her most beloved daughter, she will be more anxious than anyone else. So first of all, dispel your mother's concerns;

Second, rumors can't be sealed by sealing, and you can ignore your cousin's place. Even if she talks about it, you tell her that she casually finds a reason to borrow money, and you don't need to explain anything else, sometimes the more you describe it, the darker it gets.

If your partner talks about it, you can ask him, "If you believe me, I'll tell you no." If you don't believe me, everything I say is in vain".

If I were you, first of all, you could mention it as a joke to your partner, and then ask him if he was stupid before. You can also tell your parents what the family is afraid of. Then if your cousin has told your parents before, your parents will say it, hehe, and then when you go shopping or do something with your cousin, by the way, mention it as a joke and explain the matter.

Hehe, don't think too much, in fact, it may not be so serious What can I say to my family in the future, there is no need to lie Otherwise, there will still be something in the psychology after a long time.

Hope it helps!

If you really love your boyfriend and tell him, I don't think he will be like that, after all, to love you is to believe in you

Then find a time to sit down with your cousin and explain this matter clearly, in fact, it's not a big deal, it's just that your own heart is tangled, so it can be seen that the landlord is a person who loves to drill the horns.

You don't need to tell your sister, just tell your parents the truth, and your parents will believe you!! When the time comes, no matter how much your sister talks nonsense, no one will believe it, now that medicine is very developed, you can check whether you have done ** or not, if your boyfriend really loves you, you will believe you unconditionally. I support you to tell the truth sooner, so that your sister will not talk nonsense again.

1 Cutting your wrists is a gentle act of suicide, which is more concealed, not easy to make a sound, and not easy to detect.

2 Under normal circumstances, a broken arm cannot be completed by a person, and no one can hold on to chop off his arm with a knife Even if it can, the severe pain is unbearable for ordinary people, and it must be accompanied by howling and crying and a large pool of blood spurting out, and it is very easy to be found and rescued.

3 Even if the broken arm is not detected for a while and a half, then the person will go into shock due to severe pain or excessive blood loss, and in the case of shock, the requirements for maintaining a person's vital signs will be much lower, and the power of all parts of the body will drop rapidly, just like the original water pump is pumping water and suddenly loses power, and the blood circulation rate decreases, and the shock will definitely fall to the ground, maybe the angle problem will reduce the amount of blood loss, but after a long time, it will definitely die.

4 Even if the intention is to commit suicide In the midst of great pain and the imminent death of a person, the subconscious fear of death will cause the brain to suddenly wake up and produce a strong sense of self-help.

So, if you don't want to die completely, it's easier to die by cutting your wrist than by breaking your arm.

But what a wonderful life is, why think about death? It's better to die than to live! Please cherish life.