Ask for help Parents object, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-19
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    True love is not easy to come by, since you love, don't give up easily but work hard with him, as for the parents, don't force it, you can take a sleek way to slowly circumvent and do work, so that they can accept it slowly. And you guys.

    Two people should know how to tolerate and understand each other, communicate more, reduce suspicion, don't care too much about their own gains and losses, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go longer. I tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, you can try to log in to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "True Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Internet Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record the bits and pieces on your love road, become your love file for you to keep forever, and also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship. You can find it by taking a look at the "Tower of Hearts".

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't listen to the old man's words, and suffer in front of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's very simple.,It depends on what kind of person he is.,If you think he's going to be like this in the future.,Don't know how to change your life.,Then you give up.,You'll suffer in the future.。。。 But if you think that he will definitely give you the so-called happiness in the future, will change the status quo, a person who is willing to work hard, willing to work hard... Then you just stick to it ...

    You know him better with him, what kind of person do you think he is, what kind of decision you make...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The key depends on whether your boyfriend has potential, and if he doesn't have potential, leave early.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There must be reasons for the strong opposition of the man's parents, and I wonder what is the reason why they are so opposed to you. If it's because of family reasons, such as not being a household registration, such as being dissatisfied with your appearance or height, such as fortune telling that you are not suitable, etc., etc., if it is such a similar reason, I think you don't need to stick to it, because, marriage is not as simple as you think, thinking that as long as two people love each other, marriage is a combination of two families, not a combination of two people, so, even if you really insist on going to the end despite all difficulties now, the truth cannot be like in a fairy tale, The prince and princess lived a happy life in this way, but, in the face of life, you will have more troubles and contradictions, and when the time comes, the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you will become more and more serious, such a marriage is meaningless. Because no matter how much love you have, constant conflicts and quarrels will wear out love.

    Secondly, if the opposition of the man's parents is not due to the objective conditions mentioned above, then if you really like your boyfriend, then you should try to change the place that displeased them. For example, if they are not satisfied with your current job or income, then, for this, you are fully capable of allowing yourself to find a better job or a higher income, and constantly strive to improve yourself, so that even if his parents are picky, they will be satisfied with you. Moreover, if you change yourself through your efforts, even if you and your boyfriend fail to be together in the end, you can also take this opportunity to improve yourself, and if you have the opportunity to meet again next time, I believe that they will definitely be impressed with you and regret that they didn't choose you in the first place!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Communicate more and explain the reasons for your love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Most of the <> parents' interference in these situations is because they don't know your partner well enough.

    Take the initiative to show parents the good things about TA. Arrange for parents and them to meet, have a meal, talk, or go out together.

    Give your parents the time and opportunity to get to know you better, and your parents' impression and attitude towards them will also change due to contact and running-in.

    Actively use the role models around you to persuade your parents. If you have a couple in a similar situation to you, and they end up with their parents' blessings and a happy life, such examples can be actively shared with their parents.

    The more similar the examples, the more it will strengthen the confidence of the father and the mother in your future happiness.

    Join them in telling their parents about your determination to stay together. Let parents believe in ant pretend:

    You have made a choice of love after careful consideration.

    You have come to this point because you appreciate each other and love each other.

    You really want to be with each other.

    Be sensible, firmly express your love needs to your parents, and actively use the power of the role models around you, and your love will eventually be blessed by your parents.

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