Life is limited, so why do most people still live in the world and don t pursue what they really wan

Life is short, as the "Diamond Sutra" says: "Life is like a dream, bubbles, like dew, and like electricity", people can not extend its length but can increase its thickness, that is, try to make their lives more valuable, increase their own ability, increase their wisdom to the society, to their families, to their own to do more meaningful things.

Life should be as gorgeous as summer flowers, as quiet and beautiful as autumn leaves, and it is undesirable to get by and live in a muddy way.

I don't think most of the people in Zimo Hongchen are so-called worldly, most people have their own pursuit of life.

I don't know if the "worldly" mentioned in the question refers to going with the flow, being lazy and lying flat, easy to be content, although he has not worked hard to have anything, but such a person would rather be willing to be poor than to work hard.

Such people do exist, but most people are trying to pursue their own happy life, although the process is painful, and what they pursue may not be as they wish, but this is life!

Maybe the "worldly" in the question refers to the importance of fame and fortune, in fact, this is also a part of the people, the ups and downs in Vanity Fair, thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, the big waves and sands, after a thousand sails, the last laugh must be a transparent person, an altruistic person.

Lao Tzu's "Tao Te Ching" has a cloud: "goodness is like water, virtue is loaded", "the way of heaven, benefit but not harm, the way of the sage, for the sake of not fighting".

Zhuangzi would rather be a poor lacquer garden official than refuse to enter the temple as an official, he is free between heaven and earth, and his mind is content.

Mr. Yang Jiang said: "People live to be 100 years old, and only when they see through the world can they know that the world is their own and has nothing to do with others. We used to be so eager for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually the calmness and calmness of the heart.

We had so much hope for recognition from the outside world, until in the end we realized that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others. ”

Regardless of others, we must "keep their innocence, become natural, and concentrate on always completing what they can do!"

Life is limited, why most people are still worldly and do not pursue what they really want, because, people live in the world every day to face the reality of life, to firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, to work hard to pursue true innocence, or want their own things, it is a particularly difficult thing, because there is a lot of pressure, so you can only chase the most realistic money and material against your own will.

If a person wants to live a clear and thorough life, then he needs to do the following. First of all, it is necessary to establish a correct outlook on life and the world.

Man is the soul of all things, because man has the ability to think, that is, the extremely complex and rich subjective inner world unique to man, and its core is the outlook on life and the world. If a person has a correct outlook on life and the world, he or she will be able to have a correct understanding of society, life, and everything in the world, and be able to adopt appropriate attitudes and behavioral responses. It can make people stand tall, see far, and deal with various problems calmly and steadily.

Secondly, don't be too yourself, and set your goals within your ability. Try to make yourself as likely as possible to complete your goals. In this way, you will be in a very happy mood.

Thirdly, learn to self-regulate your emotions, eliminate bad emotions, and let yourself spend each day in a pleasant environment.

A positive emotional state makes people cheerful, relaxed, stable, energetic, and full of enthusiasm and confidence in life.

Therefore, you should avoid the development of bad emotions in life, and when you encounter bad things, you should change your approach and think in a different way, and you will gain a lot.

Confide in friends and loved ones to evacuate the depression. Relax yourself and participate in more recreational sports. Actively participate in group activities and build good relationships, and you will find that you are happy every day.

The question is, how many people in the world know what they want?

Life is limited, but man, first of all, must be alive, that is, man must be worldly, and must work hard for survival.

As for what you want, if it's surreal, it depends on whether you can achieve it!

Does the subject understand what he wants? Got it?

Life is not easy, individuals pursue different, personal positions are different, life is limited, but everyone is pursuing what they want. There is no mixing to make people first, and it cannot be called worldly, this kind of worldly plainness is true.

Humanity is the tip of a pyramid that always gives a very small number of social elites, who occupy the right place at the right time. The vast majority of people are the base of the pyramid, so that the elites stand on their shoulders and appear great, they are not worldly, they are the cornerstone.

Everyone has their own ideals and goals in life, but their personal positioning, different personal backgrounds and different environments have created their way of life.

Only a very small number of people are not fettered, rely on their own wisdom and hard work to create wealth, seize all opportunities, and work hard, to create personal achievements.

Just like Ma Yun, Ren Zhengfei, Ma Huateng, etc., they are also a kind of posture that is worldly, and this kind of worldly light is bright and unreachable to ordinary people. This is to do our best, not to be too ambitious, no one does not pursue what they really want, but there is a gap between the ideal and the reality.

Because everyone's life is not easy, some people may still live between food and clothing, and some people may live relatively wealthy, so everyone's pursuit is different, so this is a different pursuit according to the individual's situation.

Life is short, and instead of being entangled in the world, you can't pursue what you really want. It's better to take action and do what you want to do. Let life be full and make life wonderful.

Perhaps, when you reach this realm, you will come out without being in the world and pursuing the realm you really want!

People who lack a deep understanding of life and the truth of life never know what kind of life they want.

Life and the truth of life are:

First, life and life are the result of the union of causes and conditions. Cause and effect and combination means that everything in the world is made up of the union of "cause" and "condition". All phenomena in the world are caused by causes, that is to say, everything is determined by preconditions, not by itself.

In the process of real life, everyone's free will is pitiful.

Second, life is impermanent, and life here includes our way of living, state of mind, physical and mental activities, value standards, etc., at all times. These things are constantly changing, like a wide river, twisting, undulating, and turbulent. It's always running forward, and you don't know exactly where it's going and how fast.

In the past, you would have appreciated a choice, but now you are likely to regret and blame yourself for your choice. The environment, conditions, background, and state are all changing, so the needs, aesthetics, standards, desires, and meanings of life are also constantly changing.

Because most people are ordinary people in the secular world, lacking faith and down-to-earth progress, and lacking the courage and ability to pursue what they really want.

It is precisely because life is short that it often makes us feel more secure to be in the world than to pursue what we really want.

It's hard to say what you really like, and hobbies have always been "going with the flow".

Highly sensitive to external feedback, it is easy to find clues that others don't like and look down on you.

Attending a family or class reunion and feeling nervous, for fear that you will be compared.

If you reach a certain age, you will be very frustrated and feel that you are "wasted".

If you want to pursue what you want, you inevitably need to ask the question: Who is "I"? Because only when this question is clarified can it be clear what is really "me" wanted, and not imposed by the world.

There is a lot of helplessness, a lot of practical factors, and not everyone can live comfortably.

Most people are still obsessed with room and board, not many people really pursue what they want, not many people know the difficulties, and many people live a dull life.

Everyone has different stages and managers, maybe he can't experience it in this life, it can make him wake up, find the direction from the lost self, it can be said that now is out of the lost self, sinking a stage, and when he encounters things that make him introspect, he will start to think about his life and direction.

Forest Infinity Why most people are still secular in honor and do not pursue jojo. Responsive. These people can't be chased, and he can't chase them if he wants to.

Life is short, and most people are still worldly and do not pursue what they really want, which is wrong. Everyone's pursuit of ideals and happiness takes different forms.

On the surface, the working class is worldly, content to work rather than what they really want. In fact, they rely on their own ingenuity and hard work to create wealth through part-time work and make their lives complete. Ideals are big and small, but the goals are all the same, in order to pursue what you really want.

White-collar workers, CEOs, civil servants, doctors, professors, they all pursue what they really want, but people see it differently. Doctors do their jobs well, save lives and help the wounded, treat the sick and save people, professors impart their knowledge to the gods of learning, and the peach and plum are all over the world, and white-collar workers create wealth and performance for the unit in their own posts.

Every ordinary position is pursuing the so-called secular that they really want, just doing ordinary things in the most ordinary positions, sanitation workers, dock workers, security guards, waiters and other grassroots ordinary people, they don't pursue what they really want, are they still secular ? No, they're changing their lives with their hands.

Because of fear and fear, because of lack of courage. In pursuit of what you really want, the path is often lonely, full of unknowns, with greater risks and less resistance. It is easier to obtain visible benefits and greater resistance.

For example, getting married. It is much more difficult to get married because of love than to get married because of marriage, but because of the pressure of age, many people choose to succumb to reality.

Life is indeed very short, we should cherish it and pursue what we want, but some people can't find their own direction, they are worldly, and have no goals, this is because I can't see my heart clearly, I want some ways to follow the direction of my life:

1.Find the 1 person you most aspire to be.

This is what we call the first step to find your personal purpose: first you have to come up with a person, who do you aspire to be the most? Come up with a name for this one.

If you can be this person, you will feel happy every day; This person you want to be, you have to know him well enough, you want to be him, then you will accept his failure, his sadness, all his ups and downs, and finally his success in the end.

You must want to experience or experience his life.

2.Find the 7 people you most aspire to be.

Repeat the steps you just had and think of seven people, seven people you aspire to be, whether it's a real-life person or a fictional person.

3.Summarize 21 traits.

Find a blank piece of paper, a pen, and write down the skills or traits in each person that you think best align with your values.

What is one of your skills and traits that best aligns with your values?

For example, if you choose Yu Minhong as the person you want to become, you can summarize some of his skills, such as English, speech, and management. Then write down the skills and traits of the seven people you summarized earlier. There are 3 items for each person, for a total of 21 items.

4.Find the trait with the highest points of commonality.

Make these 21 of the most repetitive trait skills your ultimate goal.

When you write down a list of traits on a blank piece of paper, you will find some things in common, such as the fact that some people are very calm and bold.

From these 21 items, you have to find the first three trait skills with the highest degree of repetition. This is the life goal you need to pursue and the method of struggle for life.

Although life is short, people's pursuit and yearning are different, perhaps everyone's strength is limited, what they want can not get, so they have been working hard, and they have other desires, people are not satisfied with the continuous struggle of Zunyi, if everyone stops, do not pursue the ideal of struggle, it is not okay to be content with the status quo, because the society is changing, the price is **, and the spiritual pursuit is getting higher and higher.

Yes, life is short. It should be a full, quality, and meaningful life, which is the real life.

But if you want to realize this life, it is not easy to realize your wishes. Therefore, everyone is often in a contradiction, dilemma, and many people are very contradictory and don't know what to do. So I simply don't pursue my ideals and live every day.

Be a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day. So we should wake up, and we should advocate more positive energy. Let everyone be filled with a warm feeling.

Make society more harmonious. Each of us is a member of the effort, and we all have to participate in it. I love everybody, everybody loves me.

Let everyone feel that living in this world is very happy and happy, and that there is hope.

As long as you work hard, there will be hope. Let everyone feel truly happy and happy. This is the direction of our efforts, and it is also our ultimate goal.