My boyfriend s parents are going to meet my family

Why can you get something for nothing?

Do you know what the man's parents are most afraid of?

One is that girls are shameless, and the other is that girls are insatiable.

The boy's own inability to make a down payment for the house is already insufficient, you don't want to work with him, you just want to dig money out of the other party's parents' pockets, and you think they are excessive.

If I were the other parent, if I heard what you said, I would either let my son not be with you, or I wouldn't want this son.

A house cannot be bought at once, first of all, we must consider whether the man's family has the ability to buy a house!

Another point, did you say that you had to buy a house to get married when you were dating?

If the man can choose to come to the woman's house to discuss the engagement, it means that the man has paid attention to this relationship, which means that they still like you very much, as for why discuss? It is to let each other's parents understand each other better, so that both parents can put forward the events required for engagement, of course, you can also discuss the matter of buying a house, you can ask your parents to mention, when the man comes to your house, I believe that your parents also pay great attention to the marriage room! So don't worry, you can ask your parents to mention it to her!

If you really don't have a house, and you have to have a house before you get married, it depends on whether your boyfriend is willing to pay for you! Good luck!

You have to consider whether the man can afford to buy a house.

If they only have this one son, and they can afford to buy a house, they will definitely buy it

You can discuss it with your boyfriend.

The boy takes the initiative to see the woman's parents.

1. He is anxious to settle down with you.

Generally speaking, the boyfriend is anxious to see the woman's parents, which means that the girl is very important in his heart, and he is eager to carry out the next step of development with the girl, and may want to marry the girl and start his own small family as soon as possible.

2. I want to know about your family situation in advance.

It is also possible that the boyfriend is in a hurry to see the woman's parents and just wants to know the girl's family situation in advance, so as to plan ahead, in case your family really makes him feel bad, then he may take corresponding measures.

3. Being urged to marry.

In addition, the boyfriend may be being urged to marry by his family, so he is forced to ask the girl to meet his parents in order to fulfill his parents' wishes.

2. What does the boy want to see the woman's parents represent?

1. The man is very casual and thinks that it doesn't matter if he meets his elders.

Many post-90s boys think that meeting their parents is a very ordinary thing, and they think that they can meet each other's parents even if they are ordinary friends, which is just to meet their uncles and other characters, just to respect their elders, and does not represent their own position.

2.I really like the woman and want to get married.

He really wanted to meet the woman's parents and wanted to get their approval as soon as possible. He will show some traces of love for the girl in front of the woman's parents, and he doesn't mind letting his parents see it, because he knows that when the parents see him treating their daughter like this, they will feel more comfortable giving their daughter to him.

Summary. Kiss. In this case, you can communicate with your boyfriend and say that it is my parents who think that we have not met our parents, and say that it will be a few more years.

My boyfriend is in a hurry to come home to see his parents, but his parents disagree + what to do.

Kiss. In this case, you can communicate with your boyfriend and say that it is my parents who think that we have not met our parents, and say that it will be a few more years.

And your parents' side. You're also going to do the mental work, say. You've got a boyfriend. Let them think you have a boyfriend first. It's good for you!. We'll talk about meeting later.

Kiss. You can also tell me how the situation is, and I will provide you with a better analysis.

My boyfriend's family also wanted my parents to meet my boyfriend, but my parents didn't want to.

I don't want to see it. Let's just say that we'll talk about it later.

Because your parents probably didn't want you to talk about marriage so early, they didn't want to see it.

I also want to let my parents meet.

How can I persuade that?

Dear, then you can beg your parents and say that they will meet for a meal. Don't do it.

Here's my personal opinion:

Let's talk about the conclusion first, the reason for your parents' interference is actually considered from the perspective of marriage, if you believe that the end of this relationship is married life, with your parents' experience and vision, you can basically foresee the problems you may encounter in your future married life, and parents are naturally easy to choose to cut off this risk at the source out of the mentality of protecting their children. You should be able to understand this truth, right?

I respect and have no intention of ** your privacy, for you, it is definitely free to fall in love, but the purpose of falling in love may change at any time, which requires you to grasp your own bottom line and principles, in fact, if you are not talking to him about a love for the purpose of marriage, you should be easy to communicate with your parents about this issue; Similarly, if the progress of your relationship has begun to plan your future life, you should talk to your parents clearly, so that they can clearly know the real situation and plans between you and your current boyfriend, which is actually good for your family relationship, communication will make you more aware of the real purpose of their interference and real concerns, and communication will also make them more aware of your real needs for dating and expectations for the future. There are certainly differences and disagreements, but conflicts and contradictions are not.

Judging from your description, at least your parents are not very interested in your boyfriend, it is naturally not easy to have a good result when you meet, the key to this is your position and principles, if you are swaying yourself, then your parents will definitely be more resolute in their attitude to win you into their camp, in the same way your attitude is ambiguous, your boyfriend will misjudge that he needs to stand up for you, but it will exacerbate your embarrassing position and the outbreak of contradictions. Here your communication strategy should be clear, if you want to meet, first exchange views with both parties separately and state your position, otherwise the meeting is really meaningless.

In the final analysis, falling in love is the values and practices of a person's life, whether it is your parents or your boyfriend, please believe that instead of caring whether you are really happy at the moment, they must care about whether you will consider them in the future, and naturally they will take the initiative to strive for you to stand aside with them when your position is not clear, and this is the time to test you the most. So, please really think about how you plan for your future and think twice.

Should you meet your boyfriend's parents? It depends on how far you have answered? If you haven't met for a long time, and Liang Liang Dou doesn't know each other very well, don't go to meet his parents, if the two of you have known each other for a long time and know each other a lot, in this case, you should go to meet his parents.