A girl who has been in love with you for four years suddenly left me.

If she is a more realistic girl who has worked for several years, it is really possible to leave you because of these practical reasons, and she may still have you in her heart. After all, it is very realistic to live in the future, and a 2-hour drive is equivalent to a long-distance relationship, and you will definitely get together less and leave more in the future. And she thinks you're naïve, and the subtext is:

I feel that you are not secure enough, and girls always hope that their other half can give them a certain sense of security materially and emotionally, after all, a family is built on a certain material foundation. As for her saying that she is older than you, it is understandable. In many cases where women are older than men, the man always thinks that he is young, so the woman has to accommodate himself, and the result is that the woman is tantamount to adopting a younger brother or adopting a child.

Many girls want to be pampered, not to be a mother or a sister to someone else.

To sum up, your girlfriend is a more realistic girl; In addition, although she loves you, she is not so much in love that she must be you. If you can show that you can give her a sense of security (that she won't be her brother in the future, and that she can mature and settle) and solve the problem of separation, then she might come back.

These may all be excuses, and there may be other reasons why she doesn't want to say it or she doesn't want to say it. So find these incompatible reasons to prevaricate you. If you think he still loves you, then you should wonder if she has other indescribable reasons, if you really think that he really doesn't care, really doesn't love you anymore, I think it's better to let go early, maybe it's not worth it!!

This kind of thing is not something that we outsiders can solve, the key is still up to you!

Sister and brother love? I don't object to this kind of relationship, love is free, but due to your age gap, it should lead to some different ways of looking at things, which will lead to some contradictions, just like the landlord said every night"I love you", Actually, it's nothing, it reflects your love for her, but her thoughts are different from the landlord's, or her attitude towards things is different. If two people don't have a common topic together, it's really awkward.

However, the four-year relationship is indeed quite long, if there is really no way to recover, it is better to persuade the landlord to give up.

Love crisis! Anyway, there is only one girl who can accompany you to the end in this life, she is definitely not, she is just a passerby!

Has someone said something to him, such as that she is older than you and your parents will not accept him or something, women will never get tired of listening to me love you, unless he really doesn't love you anymore.

Hello, girls have a new life, God talks about how you have in the past, it doesn't matter anymore, don't cherish each other and lose it to know that it's precious, it's too late. All you can do is bless her. Summarize your past bad, eat a trench and grow wise, and learn to cherish it in your later life!

Don't make the same mistake again! Personal opinion, thank you!

This boy deserves it, if he continues not to change, he will either be beaten as a bachelor, or the girl will marry him blindly, and it is estimated that he will be divorced. To be honest, a girl who has been by your side for four years not only does not cherish her, but hurts her. I think the girl should have left her a long time ago.

7.Sixteen times (1-8, 13-16, 25-28), this book says that Cao Xueqin died on "Chinese New Year's Eve." It was first collected by Liu Quanfu, a Daxing bibliophile in the same year of Xian, Hu Shi 1927

Too many excuses to forget many things, forget to eat, forget to sleep, forget to live, forget to tolerate, forget to be considerate, forget to be attentive, forget to listen, forget to tell. We are always stingy with our own words, and the phrase "I miss you" choked in our throats but we can't say anything. If you love someone, you must let him know, because you won't know if he happens to love you.

1 There is someone out there 2 I found out what you are 3 I have long wanted to divide it.

It shouldn't have been sudden, you haven't had a fight with each other, right?

Are you in love with someone else?

After all, you once loved, will revenge give you peace of mind? Isn't there a little bit of your four-year relationship worth remembering? If you remember her well in the future, won't you regret the revenge you once had? , calm, rational, keep moving forward and don't look back.

Let him go, fate is over, there is no revenge, once loved each other, men should be generous!

Do things with your brain, think about the consequences, if you really do it, what will your parents do.

Why bother, if she is willing, no matter what she encounters in the future, it will be her own business, since she doesn't want to be with you, and she didn't do anything wrong, why should she say it if she is alone.

We can't do that, after all, we are men, we should reflect on ourselves, what to retaliate against? Girls have the right to make their own choices!

Love turns into hate, but will you be happy if you take revenge? If you love her, then her happiness is what you want to see, isn't it?

There should be no revenge, a better one can be found.

Don't do things with thought about the consequences.

I want to open a point. Did you do it well yourself. Think about what you often do wrong.

You can't look for it, you may find a better one.

I didn't cherish it once, but it's useless to regret it now.

So it's also good to be a good friend who silently supports her and silently blesses her.

It shows that the girl is not in love with the wrong person.

He insisted on calling you every day for four years? It's really a rarity! There is only one day without a hit**, don't worry! Or it's too busy, or your phone is malfunctioning! Girl, can't be too clingy! It would be better to give your boyfriend a little freedom