What if I don t want to break up with him after more than three years of dating?

Women sometimes think that when a man loves him, he can really live a lifetime. So I often do things that are vexatious. But I never thought that even if the man who loves you again, he will feel that love is slowly disappearing when he faces you often being vexatious.

What you think is nothing, nothing may be big in his eyes.

I have to say that your boyfriend is more mature than you, and he knows that a girl like you who can quarrel over a little thing is really not suitable for him to get married and live in the future, so he simply let you live, and at the same time let him live for himself.

I hope you can follow his example, let him live, and at the same time give yourself a way to live.

As the saying goes, couples who have been together for a long time are more likely to separate, and my girlfriend and I are also like this, quarrelling, dividing and merging, but also finding that there are incompatible personalities, too many differences of opinion, etc., but to believe that two people are together, they must understand each other, otherwise, there is no one who can be together for a long time.

I also broke up with my beloved girlfriend. I'm also having a hard time. It's not that I don't love her anymore and don't want to save it.

I keep telling myself that I have loved, I have worked hard, and I will not regret it, but that she is no longer yours. Now that she's determined to break up with you. You don't accept it, it's only going to make the two of you sadder.

Let it go! There's nothing to be afraid of. The shadow of broken love can soon come out.

If you really don't want to give up, just talk to him, cherish it together if there is a possibility of redemption, and don't let go if there is no hope, after all, the happiness that comes from force is not real happiness.

If you can, go on, it's not easy for two people to meet in this life, not to mention that they have been in love for three years, time can resolve all difficulties, two people will inevitably have contradictions together, cherish this love, there are few such loves in the world that can be missed!

If you break up, you will break up, if you get married or divorced, what is yours is yours, if it is not yours, it is not you, it is useless for you to force it, you have to live for yourself, you have to live better, at least show him, you can't let him look down on him.

He may still love you, but he has long wanted to break up with you, no redemption, girl, wake up early, turn around in style, and give yourself happiness is the real way out.

Actually, your situation is very similar to that of a friend of mine.

It feels like your personality and plot are the same.

But now they're all reconciled.

Girl, don't worry about face.

Try to really communicate with him with a heart to change for him.

Think of this as a last chance, if it doesn't work out in the end.

Then at least you won't regret it.

Let's be free and easy, the twisted melon is not sweet, so if it's not suitable, just divide it.

I also faced the same problem, he used to spoil me too much, and now I feel that I have no strength to live, and I can't get rid of the pain in my heart by myself.

It's a couple who often quarrel, and I'm also annoyed by this, and he also told me to think clearly, whether to continue, and don't quarrel anymore if you want to continue, but quarrels, sometimes it's really hard to control... Faint!

Fate is over, and you force it again, and it is you who are hurt.

It is indeed fate that two people know each other, two people have been in love for three years, and the boyfriend does not mention marriage or breakup, maybe he also has his reasons. Sometimes he may feel that he does not want to marry you when he does not have the financial means, because he does not want you to suffer with him after marriage and wants to give you a good life.

If the other person does not propose to marry or break up, if you feel insecure.

If you can, you can try to test his words, ask him if he has any plans to get married, ask him if he doesn't mention marriage or break up, we can't guess blindly, we can't think wildly, some things need to be understood clearly, in order to give yourself a satisfactory answer, blindly break up, blindly leave, maybe you will miss your hard-won fate.

If he loves you deeply in the past three years, has not let you suffer any grievances, and has not quarreled with you, it means that he loves you, and he does not mention marriage or breakup because he is afraid of hurting you. If you have been in a state of quarrel for the past three years, and he has always ignored you, then you can leave him without hesitation, because this is not true love.

We have to think deeply about everything we do, don't just look at the present, sometimes we don't understand clearly, we don't ask clearly, we can't know what is in his heart. As the saying goes, if you love each other, you must be together, if you don't love each other, please let go, only people who truly love each other will be happy together, and the twisted melon is not sweet, so you must understand whether you are true love with each other and whether it is suitable to be together. In fact, many women will always be cranky, and women's cranky thinking also makes men feel disgusted.

If you really reach the age of talking about marriage, if two people have been in love with each other for several years, trust each other and tolerate each other, then it means that your love is worth cherishing.

There may be many reasons why he doesn't mention it, but if he doesn't mention it, you can mention it! You can bring it up with him directly, on the one hand, you can see what kind of attitude he has, and on the other hand, you can get a deeper understanding of his thoughts and plans. It can be described as "killing two birds with one stone" (not only solving the doubts in your heart, but also giving you a clear result in the affairs of the two of you)! ~

One situation: he has a good relationship with you, and he may feel that his current situation and financial situation are not suitable for marriage, which is not enough to give you a better married life.

The second situation: maybe he thinks that you are not suitable for marriage, and he does not break up because he has not yet found a suitable one for him.

The third case: his family does not agree to marry you.

If both of you have good economic conditions, to put it bluntly, you will get married, then if he doesn't get married, he will be riding a donkey and looking for a horse. If you really can't get married, it depends on the usual relationship between the two of you, and if you have a good relationship, you may not dare to get married If you have a bad relationship, you may be treated as a partner.

If it is career-oriented, it is for the sake of the career and do not want to get married too early, otherwise it is necessary to have enough time with you to get to know each other.

I've been in love with a guy for three years, and he hasn't been willing to marry you, and he doesn't mention breaking up, I feel like he's using you as a spare tire, and the guy who really likes you won't be in love for so long without getting married.

He just prostitutes you for free, and the fact that he has been in love for so long and doesn't mention marriage is the best proof.

Maybe this man doesn't really want to be with you, just to fill the void in his life, and I suggest you don't waste time with him.

I think so.

1. It's only been three months of dating, and there is no real affection between you. Three months of dating is not three or 30 years of dating, and it is normal to propose a breakup in this case. Because when I first met someone and dated her, I may have been fascinated by the beauty of the other party, but when I was with the other party, I found that the other party had such and such shortcomings.

When these shortcomings in the other party are unacceptable to him, he can naturally propose to break up. And you've only been dating for three months, and your relationship isn't very sincere, so it's normal to break up, and he can't talk about true love for you.

Second, if you break up after three months of dating, it shows that he can't stand some of your shortcomings and doesn't love you that much. I think that after three months of dating, some weaknesses in people will gradually appear. For example, when you eat, you are very ungraceful, you use rude words when you speak, or when you are shopping with you on the road, you see some weak people who do not show sympathy, or you have some different ideas from him, etc.

When he finds that he can't accept these concepts in you, he will propose to break up, which is a very normal thing, and he really doesn't love you anymore, so he will propose to break up, otherwise he can continue to put up with you.

It's only been three months of dating, and there is no real relationship between you, and you're still in the stage of understanding, so it's normal for him to break up at this time, and it's normal for him to really not love you. You don't have to dwell on this anymore, and you don't have to try to get him back. Besides, it's only a three-month relationship, and I haven't invested too much in it, so end it as soon as possible and let myself adjust my state as soon as possible, and meet the next relationship as soon as possible, so that I can have the opportunity to find a more suitable person and meet a better love.

Maybe it's really not love, if you still love, you definitely won't mention breaking up, and it wasn't necessarily because of love at the beginning, maybe it was just because of good feelings, but now that the good feelings are gone, they naturally broke up.

Generally, three months of dating is a transition period, 1 2 months is a period of love, a fresh period, if he proposes to break up in the third month, then he definitely doesn't really love you. At the beginning you were together, and you didn't expose all your strengths and weaknesses, but in the 3rd month, you also knew about it, and then he felt that you were not the person he was looking for, so he would break up with you, since he didn't love you, you should also break up early, find someone who really loves you.

It's really not in love anymore. Usually a relationship can go through 4 months smoothly even if it is a hurdle, if you propose to break up in less than 4 months, it is really inappropriate.

No, child, breaking up is often willful, if there is no principled mistake, most of them are momentary angry words, you can't miss a precious relationship because of a momentary mood, don't listen to others' nonsense, follow your heart, love her or he will cherish him (her)!

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<> talked about it for three years and wanted to break up and was reluctant to give each other a cooling-off period first, thinking about whether it was just a temporary unpleasantness or if they really wanted to separate.

After talking about it for three years, what should I do if I want to break up and am reluctant.

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After talking for three years and wanting to break up, you can give each other a cooling-off period first, thinking about whether this sleepiness is temporary unpleasantness, or if you really want to separate. Wang scum.

Dear, I talked for three years, if you don't have a place for him in your heart, let it go if you want to leave, don't force yourself, the days will be long, you have to think about yourself. If it's just a temporary quarrel, disagreement and other reasons, you can communicate well, after all, you have known and loved each other for so long, and you have already regarded each other as important people, and you will still be reluctant. If you still love to call him and have an unrelenting relationship with him, then cherish each other's fate.

I met a boy who opened a shop, and he was kind to me, and I don't know if he really liked me.

Dear, will he care about your life and want to be with you all the time, he only has you in his eyes.

I do not know. Dear, what do you think his kindness to you is indicating?

Willing to spend money on me.

Dear, if a man is willing to spend money for you, it means that he still cares about you, and it means that your position in his heart is also more important.

So what do I do now.

Dear, do you like him.

I want to open a store myself, and now the object is still paying off the car loan, and the family has a building, but we want to buy a house in the city, he is from a different family from He Qingzai, and their stepmother doesn't like to miss me, saying that I am young and can't cook, I am also from another province, and my mother Zen Wang's mother is not willing to let me marry so far, and I have been together for a long time without a topic, and often do not chat, and the two of them sleep at night to do errands, is it because I don't like him? I didn't feel anything.

Dear, you must like someone like this.

When I have sex at night, I can't even raise my interest, what kind of thing I don't interest in, is it because I don't like to look at him, and I am like this? I don't feel it, every time I do something, I think he is annoyed.

Dear, how long have you been together?

Dear, you have to think about whether his kindness to you can last.

Do you have a temporary interest or will you choose him firmly?

The boyfriend who has been talking for 3 years wants to break up, but he is reluctant, because you should communicate well when you are lonely, and the relationship needs to be managed, not because the other party likes you, you can do whatever you want; Otherwise, the only warmth in your life may leave you again.

How to keep when you break up: adjust your mentality.

Many people who want to save their love by disconnecting from each other, it can be said that the vast majority of them are not willing to take this method. This approach is usually taken at the suggestion of a friend, or under the guidance of some professionals. Therefore, it is important to adjust the mentality after entering the disconnection.

Many lovelorn people will not be in a calm mood after disconnection, either resentful of each other in their hearts, blaming each other for their ruthlessness, or regretting that they did not grasp love well and lost each other. Otherwise, I look forward to reconciling with each other as soon as possible.

Having these mentalities, in fact, can only prove that you have not let go of the past, nor have you let go of the other party, these mentalities are all negative, and will only make your mood worse and worse, immersed in the pain of falling out of love.

Therefore, if you want to adjust your mentality as soon as possible, and let yourself really enter a state of disconnection, you must control yourself not to have any form of contact with the other party, and do not peep into the other party's social interaction and inquire about the other party's situation.

These behaviors will interfere with your mood and make you unable to calm down, since you are disconnected, you must calm down your heart and say goodbye to your past self and the past.