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I think it's okay if it's a lottery. Of course, if you ask for more money, then it is inappropriate.
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When getting married, it is a very good custom for relatives and friends to ask for money. It's a joyous process, but it's just a ritual. If it is malicious, it should be outlawed.
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I think it's very normal to be happy, and a lot of people want to be happy, and it's a traditional idea.
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Henan man stopped the wedding car to please the money and was directly taken away by the best man, how to evaluate the practice of pleasing people?
When we Chinese get married, we often encounter people who stop the car and please people, because everyone feels that this can express the blessing to the newlyweds and make the newlyweds' lives more satisfying, but sometimes some people will do the same as robbery, there is a couple in Xinyang, Henan Province who encountered a man in red when they got married, only to see the man in red blocking the bridge dates in front of the wedding car, not giving in at all, although the driver of the wedding car has been reminding the man to get out of the way, But the other party didn't pay attention to it at all, at this time, a groomsman rushed up directly and took the man away, the man kept struggling, wanting to continue to stop the car to please, but the best man did not let him succeed, and some other uncles and aunts who came to please were still guarding the wedding car at the scene, I have to say, these people are really very annoying, just like scoundrels.
Most of the pleasing people will leave quickly after the groom gives a pack of cigarettes or a red envelope, because their purpose is to bless the bride to make a good fortune for the newlyweds, but there are some people who specialize in pleasing work, in order to seek benefits for themselves, there have been news reports before, there are some aunts and uncles who usually intercept the wedding car on the road, such as the groom, the bride begging, red envelopes, cigarettes, etc., as long as they do not give, they will lie in front of the wedding car and do not leave, In the end, the newcomers had no choice but to give them red envelopes and cigarettes, so these pleasing practices were no different from blocking the road and robbing them.
If the pleasing person understands the sense of proportion and reason, then this kind of practice that can make the wedding of the newlyweds more lively is worthy of praise, and everyone will not feel disgusted, but if it is said that the pleasing person, such a custom, as a means of coercing others, this is an illegal and criminal act, this pleasing practice should be completely canceled, if you encounter this kind of special stop car pleasing person in life, you can choose to call the police to deal with it, because this behavior has been suspected of violating the law.
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I feel that the practice of pleasing people is outdated, and that pleasing money is a bad habit and should be eliminated.
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This kind of behavior of the elderly has corrupted the social atmosphere and has become a stumbling block to the construction of rural civilization to a certain extent. This kind of behavior of the old Chabi people seriously affects the safety of vehicles and the order of public transportation, and the search has been suspected of violating the law.
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I think that the behavior of the pleasing person should be in moderation, not overly exaggerated, and not excessively feudal, which will lead to chaos in the wedding scene.
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The man's actions can be regarded as extortion in the law, but in fact, he is really excessive.
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According to the relevant provisions of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law, extortion is subject to administrative liabilities such as "detention" and "fine". If it is "multiple extortions" or "large amounts", it may enter the criminal field and constitute the crime of extortion under the Criminal Law.
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It is considered extortion, maliciously disturbing public order, etc., and stopping the wedding car, which is a bit of moral kidnapping.
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I think if it's not too much, as long as a little candy or something can be understood, I just want to get a little joy, if it's the kind of very excessive, how many red envelopes do you want, then it's not good, that kind of should really be dealt with by the police.
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Anyway, I think it's just appropriate, there's no need to force people to give you red envelopes, and you have nothing to do with them.
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If this happens very badly, then at this time we can also rob their guardians and hold them accountable. That's what we can all understand. At the same time, we can understand that the behavior that the elderly sometimes behave in a way that makes it difficult for all of us to understand and understand.
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An elderly man stopped the wedding car and begged for money. Mr. Xiong, an eyewitness, said he stopped the main wedding car for 20 minutes. Someone on the groom's side discussed giving a red envelope, but he didn't want to be small.
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The same. This old man is very unreasonable and selfish, and if I were to be in this situation, I would be very angry, and I would probably accuse her.
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Behind this is a reflection of a number of social problems, such as connivance with feudal bad customs, weak legal awareness, and lack of effective management.
The Xinyang man came to the wedding car to ask for money and was directly taken away by the best man, because the man opened his mouth widely, and when the groom offered to give him 10 yuan, he was too little, and he had to ask for 50 yuan if he didn't leave, which was tantamount to illegal extortion and blackmail, and was suspected of violating the law. It's just that there have been many such behaviors since ancient times, and people choose to condone this behavior when they get married, causing their money to become more and more arrogant, and the amount of money they ask for is increasing. If people can directly refuse this situation when they get married, there won't be too many similar incidents.
Behind this incident also reflects the problem of weak legal awareness, these people stop the car to ask for money laundering is suspected of violating the law, they do not realize that what they have done has been suspected of violating the law, and think that this is a very normal thing, thinking that the other party should give themselves happy cigarettes and happy money when they get married, in fact, this is blackmail is blackmail, this is an intolerable behavior, if they go too far, they can directly report to the police, the public security organs will criticize and educate these people, if the amount involved is huge, they will be detained, or criminal penalties against them.
Lack of effective management is also a social problem behind this matter, because there is no effective restraint program for these people who stop cars to ask for money, and no one likes to get married, this day to report to the public security to intervene, so these people are more and more indulgent, so that they are more and more arrogant, resulting in more and more money laundering behavior, if effective management can be carried out, and then when encountering similar car stopping behavior, directly call the police to take them away, and serious treatment will hit their arrogance.
In this incident, the man begged for money in front of the wedding car and refused to leave, and the opening of the 14th Congress attracted the groom's dissatisfaction, and the best man was particularly angry about the matter. After the best man got out of the car, he directly took the man who stopped in front of the car away, and let the convoy pass smoothly It is desirable, otherwise the man who stopped the car burst away and did not cause harm to his body, so that after the convoy passed smoothly, the best man can leave directly with the convoy, there is no need to break out more fierce conflicts with the other party, but it is also not possible to indulge the other party is a big open mouth.
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A man in Xinyang stopped the wedding car to please the money and was directly taken away by the best man, behind this incident reflects that people are using marriage to make illegal profits, especially when getting married, some areas will report that some strangers stop the wedding car to ask for money, for the people who are married, on a happy day, if you meet others to please money, this practice will definitely give some happy money, mainly to get lucky, to be happy, but some people don't think so much about these people, Taking advantage of such a thing as marriage to make illegal profits is not only morally condemnable, but also violates the relevant legal provisions in serious cases.
In addition to stopping the wedding car to please the money, many rural areas also appear this kind of marriage trouble, many people take advantage of the happy day to do some obscene women's things, especially during the marriage, many people like to tease the bride, although this behavior is said to be a common behavior, but some people take this behavior as an excuse for their crimes, especially those who have opinions on the newlyweds, when they are newly married, they will take advantage of the wedding troubles to bully the bride and groom, in some reports, There are also many people who have lost their lives because of marriage troubles, so it is absolutely not tolerated for those who deliberately violate the law when they get married.
This kind of malicious behavior is indeed an inevitable thing when getting married, so when we ordinary people encounter these things, we must resist it, don't be overly tolerant, and when we encounter the kind of people who stop the wedding car to ask for money, don't pay attention to them, let alone give them happy money, I believe that when they have eaten a closed door, they will not harass those who are married next time, and I hope that more people will encounter this kind of people who have no morality and no sense of law when they get married. Be sure to resist their behavior, and if you encounter a crowd that seriously disrupts the marriage atmosphere, you must go to the police in time and let ** punish them.
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The reason why the phenomenon of stopping wedding cars to ask for money exists is that these people are familiar with local customs and habits, and use customs and habits to win money from wedding couples.
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First, this kind of behavior seriously affects the safety of vehicles and the order of public transportation, and has been suspected of violating the law.
Second, this kind of behavior has corrupted the social atmosphere and has become a stumbling block to the construction of rural civilization to a certain extent.
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Nowadays, many of these bad habits of strangers pleasing money are really uncomfortable and should be stopped.
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Yes, very arrogant.
A couple of relatives got married, and during the process of driving the wedding car, suddenly a man directly stopped the moving wedding car, forced the wedding car to stop, and asked the people in the wedding car for money. After the groom gave him ten yuan, the old men did not leave, because they disliked too little, so several old men stood in front of the car and tried to surround the car as much as possible, so as not to let the wedding car advance. After some communication, the groom found that he did not let these old people know that he was wrong, and he was still blocked by these old people and missed the good day, so the best man got out of the car directly and took the old man who stopped in front of the wedding car away.
The netizen who filmed this ** said that he was the person in charge of the wedding company, and every time the wedding car passed by, an old man appeared, stopping the car here to ask for money, and they seemed to be a team crime, and they knew the wedding in advance, so they joined forces to wait. They felt that 10 yuan was too little, and they should give more, and they also wanted a cigarette. Who knew that this time these old people met a ruthless person, they were directly hugged to the side by the groom, and the wedding car drove forward smoothly.
Personally, I think these old people are too arrogant, they are more arrogant than beggars, because beggars are kneeling down and asking for alms, and they are blocking others and forcing others to ask for alms. Forcing the wedding car to stop, begging for money, and not reluctantly rejecting it is not only a moral kidnapping, but also a kind of behavioral kidnapping, so in this case, there is no need to give them too much face, and there is no need to worry that today is a big day, and if you are not afraid of making it so embarrassing, you should call the police directly and catch them, otherwise they will stop other wedding cars next time.
We can also know why they are not beggars, but they are more arrogant than beggars, one is because they are older, so everyone will respect the elderly, give them some face, and are not willing to call the police. Even if the police come, that is, they will not detain and fine them verbally, so these old people are very arrogant. The second is that they know that on the day of the big day, the bride and groom will not care about them in general, and some of the bride and groom give more money, so they have to inch in, thinking that others should launder money for them, and the more they give, the better, so they will not know their mistakes and stop, and their appetite will only get bigger and bigger.
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Yes, beggars nowadays are very arrogant and will deliberately embarrass some people, just to ask for more money.
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The old man stopped the wedding car to please the money and didn't give way, and was taken away directly by the best man! The beggars now are indeed so arrogant, they feel that no one cares about them and they dare not spill what they do.
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If you want to stop this kind of vulgar behavior, you need the police to come forward to deal with it, and the local government cannot condone this kind of "roadblock robbery" behavior. After the groom encounters this kind of situation, his first reaction is to call the police, and after the police receive the police, they should also go to the police in time to persuade these people who stop the wedding car and ask for money. It is best for the other party to be able to leave, and if they do not leave, they can be punished in accordance with relevant laws and regulations.
In addition to strengthening management, it is also necessary to strengthen publicity, and establish a file for these typical examples of blocking roads and asking for money, and the punishment for first-time offenders is different from that of repeat offenders. It is also possible to start with the relatives of those who block the road and ask for money, strengthen their education, and have their relatives persuade them to have a better effect.
At the scene of picking up relatives in Henan, passers-by blocked the road and asked for money. The two sides were in a stalemate for nearly half an hour, and the other party thought that the red envelope was too small and was reluctant to leave for a long time. Faced with this situation, the best man could only carry the man who stopped the car and asked for money to the side of the road.
Seeing such a behavior, it makes people disgusted, and the vulgar behavior of stopping the wedding car and asking for money, if you want to be completely stopped, you need to start from the following two aspects.
On the one hand, this group of people can be punished, and those who repeatedly stop cars and ask for money should be reprimanded and criticized, so that they know that their behavior is incorrect, they have disturbed social order, and if they do not repent, what kind of punishment they will receive.
I believe that after the first punishment, this kind of crowd behavior will slowly begin to converge. In this way, the newcomer who was intercepted also knows how to deal with the situation, providing a traceable method.
On the other hand, it is also possible to strengthen local publicity and education to rectify these low-level customs and behaviors. Publicity and education are wide-ranging, and everyone can see it. If this group of people can't see it, I think their family members will also persuade them to behave and stop them from going out to stop stopping the wedding car and asking for money.
This group of people has grasped the groom's psychology, and because they have not violated the law and committed crimes, they will behave without fear. I believe that by seriously dealing with a few such accidents, more people will be able to take this as a warning and not dare to do such things again.
Vulgar behavior needs to be resisted by the whole people, today intercepted other people's wedding cars, tomorrow their own relatives get married, the wedding car will also be intercepted. Empathy can better understand the groom's mood when he is stopped.
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