Why are the people I meet online so gentle, but the real people are indifferent?

In the online world, everyone wants to pursue a kind of perfection, and they all try to show their best side to others, covering up their shortcomings and shortcomings.

The Internet is inherently a virtual world, and many people feel that this is the real self. Here, you can say a lot of things that you would not dare to say in real life. In real life, you can really listen to their words, watch their deeds, and see each other's facial expressions, and it is difficult for many people to show their true side.

Everyone has a warm place, some people dare not express in their current life, they are not good at expressing, in the virtual world of the Internet, they can show their soft side.

My friend is a very introverted boy, and in real life, he doesn't want to communicate with people, and his family is worried that he can't find a girlfriend like this. Soon after, I found out that he already had a very good girlfriend, it turned out that he was a girl he met on the Internet, in fact, he was just unwilling to express his emotions in real life, and he dared to say what he wanted to say on the Internet.

On the Internet, we will imagine each other as what we like, and we would rather be gentle with each other, so we always feel that the people we meet on the Internet are very gentle.

When many people chat online, after the first few words of chatting, we will imagine the other party as what we like, and the person in our ideal will unconsciously show our gentle side, a humble gentleman. In fact, we just idealized each other on the Internet.

In real life, we see each other's looks at first sight, and if they don't look what we imagined, our attitude will be indifferent, and we will not be so enthusiastic to talk to each other.

The Internet is just a place for you to express your emotions, an ideal environment for yourself, and there is no pressure to live and work.

Many of our emotions are reluctant to talk to family and friends, so they will express them on the Internet, and on the other side of the online world, when others listen to our troubles, they will comfort them, and we will suddenly feel that we have received psychological comfort, and we will feel particularly warm and moved. In real life, when we complain about our emotions, our relatives and friends may think that we have not handled it well.

The people we meet on the Internet are so gentle, and they are very indifferent in real life, in fact, it's just that we idealize the people on the Internet, first of all, we treat each other gently in this book, so we have the feeling that the Internet is gentler than reality.

I think it's mainly because everyone on the Internet has a good sense of hiding, so they are more gentle with strangers at this time, while in real life, most people are afraid that they will be hurt by others, so they show a very indifferent look.

Because people on the Internet are very good at disguising themselves and making themselves look gentle and kind, but in real life, these people are relatively indifferent, they don't care about other people's feelings, and only think about themselves.

Because it is very cruel in reality, it will bring a lot of personal emotions and environmental factors, and if you don't want to socialize with others, you will be very indifferent.

It may be because people in reality wear masks, so they will be more indifferent.

Because people online can disguise themselves, but people in reality are very difficult to disguise.

In real life, in fact, everyone does not show a full version of themselves. In a certain environment, people who look like gods and horses can better integrate into the environment. Blowing water casually online, but not motivated in real life.

After a busy day, I was physically and mentally exhausted, and coupled with the season, I felt like my lungs were going to cough out. How can you still have the strength to talk and laugh with the people around you. In fact, the only thing that is false on the Internet is the name and appearance, and everything else is real.

You are who you are in reality, but how you feel from the heart are not true. Any unbearable, unsatisfactory, and melancholy can be told to people on the Internet, and they will also give you good advice, of course, there is no shortage of ridicule. And in reality there are only those who look at your jokes.

Your question can be understood in two ways, that is, people with gentle personalities are more likely to use the Internet, which may be that people with gentle personalities and soft-spoken people are generally relatively introverted, and they are more suitable for showing themselves through online communication, while people with cheerful and lively personalities are more inclined to actually communicate face-to-face.

Another understanding is that no matter what your actual personality is, you are relatively gentle when you are online. This may be because most of the Internet is also to meet people's dating needs, so people are always relatively gentle in the face of strangers, and only in the face of familiar people will show their true selves, in addition, there is no cost of online dating, and everyone is still relatively polite without involving interests; Once it comes to self-interest, it won't be very gentle online.

Such a gentle person often appears on the Internet, because the Internet is virtual, and he does not repair any bonds, such as real life wealth, rice, oil and salt, and human feelings, so that they only need to pay tenderness.

Because the network is all virtual. On the surface, it looks like a gentle person, but in reality, it is not necessarily what kind of person, so there is such an idea of you.

Because there is not much pressure online, and there is a lot of pressure in real life that we need to face.