Why is it so hard to meet the right person?

Not proactive enough, not very hard to find.

I didn't look for a love for myself like I did when I was looking for a job.

Saying that he wants to find a partner, he may not really do something in real life, even if he is occasionally trying to meet some new people, but he is more passive than willing to contact more, and he is not willing to take the first step at all.

Lonely. I will only think that if the other party takes the initiative, I will take care of it, contact it, and understand it, if the other party does not take the initiative, then forget it, since the other party is not willing to get close to me, why should I be amorous.

Then, even if the other party really takes the initiative, in fact, they can't treat the other party well at all, and they will only be quite cold.

It's often like the other party is probably not suitable for you, and you don't need to waste time with the other party. It's really very Buddhist, there is not much action, and I am completely unwilling to easily step out of my comfort zone and let anyone into my life.

And when you are always so inactive, but you want to have a very good object, a very good relationship, of course, this is quite unrealistic, you look like you are not lacking in others, and others will not feel that they need you.

Love, that has always been something you need to fight for, just waiting for the other party to fall from the sky, that is not realistic.

If you are lucky enough to meet, you may not be able to recognize each other.

It is also possible that at a certain moment in your life, or at a certain period of time, you have actually met such a person, a person who is really compatible with you in all aspects, especially suitable for you.

You met it, but you didn't necessarily find it just right, <> missed it.

I can't meet the right person all the time because your circle is too small.

For you, your daily life is your company and home, and the occasional meeting with friends is all of the same sex.

Living in an inherent circle and not participating in some social activities of the opposite sex, how can you meet some new people and find your other half?

Love is never waiting for you, no matter how good you are, you have to touch and find it.

You never meet the right person because you haven't taken the time to get to know someone.

You're busy with work every day, busy playing with your phone, too lazy to go out, too lazy to get to know someone.

Sometimes you finally get to know someone, and he has just chatted with you for a few words, and you feel that you can't talk, so you choose to refuse early and keep him out of your world.

A lot of times, it takes a long time to get to people's hearts, and you shouldn't always say no too soon.

I haven't been able to meet the right person, because you haven't taken the initiative to fight for the person you think is good.

There are also times when you meet someone you think is okay.

When it is very difficult for you to meet the person who feels good about yourself, you are unwilling to take the initiative, thinking that what is yours is yours, not what you are forcib, and then you let it go, and as a result, he becomes someone else's family.

In fact, no one really belongs to you, and all happiness must be fought for by yourself.

Fate has not arrived or the requirements are too high, thousands of miles of fate to meet, and the other side has no fate not to know each other.

If you can't meet the right person, it may be that your circle is too small, for you, your daily life is the company and home, occasionally meet with friends, and rarely participate in social activities, so you dare not meet ah.

Love In today's society, it's really, really hard to meet the right person. Nowadays, people are concerned about power, money, status, and so on. It's like a very rich family, if that person likes a person of a breed, it's not that they can't be together, they pay attention to equality of status.

And now people are addicted to the Internet, addicted to games, **want to fall in love** want to get married. What's more, I can't meet the right person.

What kind of talent is suitable? How much to have a standard, to yourself also to do what you can, no one is perfect, no gold is enough, if you pursue perfection excessively, then the eyes are cured, useless, you know, maybe the other party is also choosing the right person! Maybe he is also the object of selection, in contrast, compared with the above, more than the bottom, the public talent is healthy and virtuous, and the wisdom and sunshine can be .......

Because many beautiful things can only be achieved through a lot of hard work, which is the law of the world, and the things that are easy to achieve are not so happy and cherished.

It's because your standards don't fit most people.

Each other is the only one in the world, and it is not difficult to meet each other with such a low probability.

When fate arrives, the right person comes.

It's hard to come by, take your time.

In the vast sea of people, how can it be so easy to encounter.

It is difficult to meet a suitable person in the relationship, on the one hand, because we have higher requirements and higher standards for looking at people and things, and on the other hand, it is likely to be affected by personality, and we are unwilling to contact too many people and things, and we are not willing to understand other people too much.

There are thousands of people in the world, and it is indeed difficult to find someone with a personality like yours. So from this point of view, it is indeed more difficult to find a suitable person for yourself, but there is always a person in the world who is more suitable, and it depends on whether you can find the most important person who has not met the right person. The right person is very difficult to meet, and the remaining men and women have different requirements for the right person, and these requirements may lead to fewer suitable people.

In love, it is difficult to find someone who is very suitable for you, and it is even more difficult for men and women to find the right person, because they no longer have an advantage in age, which causes them to be not as active in love as they were when they were younger, so young, they will think more about things, to consider more aspects of life.

1. Age is the main issue.

The age of the leftover men and women is getting older and older, and at this age, it is difficult to find someone who matches them. So age has become a major issue. They are not as relaxed and lively as when they were young, they will have more things to consider, and they have to consider whether they are suitable for each other, there are not too many people who are originally suitable, plus more consideration, then there are very few people who are more suitable.

And nowadays, many people don't go to older people to get married.

2. Some leftover men and women have higher requirements.

In fact, if there are no big requirements, then as long as there is some charm and some advantages, it is easy to find the right person. Leftover men and women definitely have their advantages and charms, but some leftover men and women often have particularly high requirements for each other, which leads to very few people who can fit these requirements, which is why they can't find the right person. The requirements are relatively high, causing the other party to not fit the requirements, and then they leave.

First, there are too few ways to meet strangers.

Many people go to work after graduating from university. The scope of social interaction will be limited to the scope of work. Want to meet someone of the opposite sex who is your age?

There may not be many opportunities. Especially people who are not good at socializing on the web. Now there is also a term called social phobia.

That is to say, you can live well by yourself, clock in to work when you go to work, go home after work, take care of your own life, and develop your own interests and hobbies. In this way, it is difficult to find new ways to meet the right person of the opposite sex. If you make friends on the Internet, the risk is also greater.

What's more, it is even more difficult to screen out suitable people from the people you know.

The second person's life is too busy.

We also all know that the pressure of people's lives is relatively high now, and many young people are working in the 996 work system, and they have no time and leisure to make new friends or fall in love. Even if you meet someone new, it takes time to get along. In particular, people get to know each other, mainly by chatting and communicating, or experiencing some things together.

If you don't have time to do these things, you don't know if your new acquaintance is right for you. Being too busy is also a big obstacle for young people to choose the right partner.

It is rare for people nowadays to get a job with money and leisure at a young age. I am already very tired at work, how can I still be in the mood to meet new people and understand other people's lives after work? If you want to meet the right person, you still need to adjust your state and mentality, be positive, optimistic and cheerful to explore new ways to recognize the opposite sex, so that you are more likely to meet the right person.

Why is it so difficult to meet someone who likes each other? In fact, it is not difficult to meet, the difficulty is to meet the right person at the right time, if in a wrong time, even if you think the other party is right, you will miss it because it is not the right time. Therefore, any emotional foundation should be built on the right time, maybe everyone hopes to meet their destiny, but there is no way to meet alone, or there needs to be a certain fate.

Therefore, don't sigh how difficult it is to meet, maybe you have already met, but you haven't found it yet, and you haven't caught the tail of the opportunity, if you can grasp every opportunity, perhaps, you don't have much time to sigh the difficulty of meeting.

People get along with each other, basically from strange to familiar step by step, if you want to meet those who can fall in love with each other at first sight, you may need to have the luck of winning the lottery. Otherwise, most of the cases develop from long-term love. Long-term affection is one of our most common emotional development models, which can stand the test of time and are not afraid of any setbacks and tribulations.

Because it has been established on the basis of mutual understanding, it is already clear about each other's feelings, lifestyles, and personal personalities. Therefore, no matter how noisy it is, it is easy to establish a mutual understanding of the emotional foundation, and get the recognition and empathy of the other party.

However, some people will always be slow to react, one person silently likes another person for a long time, but the person who is liked does not know for a long time, which leads to the other person has been trying to affect the other person's life. gradually affected each other's lives imperceptibly, until one day they realized that their fate had already been around them, but they still had to toss those expectations that they had not. Therefore, when you still have expectations for your feelings, you still have to observe the people around you, whether you also have a hidden love in your heart, if there is a good opportunity, if you miss it, you may really have no chance.

In fact, many times the reason does not come from the outside, but from oneself, and the problem may lie here.

For love, you are not proactive enough.

For love, if you are not particularly good and not so proactive, then even if you are lucky enough to meet the most suitable person, you will only miss it and become a passerby on the road of life.

Because I don't really know what kind of person I need, I don't know how capable I am, and I can't see the true face of the other party, and the circle I enter also has a lot to do with it.

For love, some people always like to wait, thinking that fate is wonderful, and it will come to the door by itself.

But in fact, from the perspective of probability theory, it is difficult to meet a suitable person in life, which is the law of nature. It's lucky to meet it, and it's normal not to meet it.

The standard of mate selection is not high, but it is the real high demand. There is no standard standard, and it is often the highest standardThe world is too big, our circle is too small, there is no absolutely suitable person, and when we encounter love, we will always weigh the pros and cons, calculate the gains and losses, and give up too easily.

The world is too big, and our own circle is too small. clocks in at work every day, and after work, I either go home to lie down and watch dramas, or go out shopping and eating with my girlfriends. In this way, I will only fall into a dead loop, and I have never thought of expanding my social circle and getting to know more valuable and moral friends of the opposite sex.

In this world, there is no absolutely suitable person. They believe that there is a perfect lover waiting for them in the near future. They ignore that all couples who have a tacit understanding are only achieved through running-in and communication day after day.

When facing love, we will always weigh the pros and cons, and consider the gains and losses. So much so that love slipped away quietly, and we couldn't catch it at all.

When faced with a rift in a relationship, what we think about is not repairing, but giving up. Sometimes, in love, you also need to persevere. If you don't insist, you still won't get a good relationship and a suitable partner after all.

Let's think about the problem differently and change our view of love, maybe that love will meet you unexpectedly in the next second.