I m worried about the language of others, and I m afraid that I won t be able to continue the conver

Conversation is not a debate after all. Everybody has their own ideas, maybe everybody will think they're right like you, and if everybody can't back down, it's going to be deadlocked. When I say back down, I don't mean that you must think that his opinion is right, but wouldn't it be better if you could stand up to your own opinion but respect the opinion of others.

Or maybe you didn't find anyone like-minded.

If you encounter the above situation again, I personally suggest that you can tactfully say that the other party's opinion is wrong, so that there will be no more deadlock. You won't have to worry about discussing issues with others anymore.

You can just go around the bend or just accommodate others. Some people are more sensitive to other people's objections to their opinions, while others are more open and willing to discuss.

Don't argue with others, keep your own ideas, and always say I completely agree No, it's okay, can you earn an extra pound of meat, or an extra dollar? Why bother.

Just like a girl buying clothes, you see that she likes the clothes in her hands very much, you can clearly see that she likes it, because everyone's aesthetics are different, at this time she asks you, is this dress good-looking, at this time you only need to identify with her, she will feel that you and her taste are the same, there are common topics, there are common hobbies, people have vanity.

If at this time, you say that it is not good-looking, and then you choose one for her that she does not like, she will feel that she has a separation from you and is difficult to get along with.

The sense of identity is very important when getting along with people, the most important thing is to be happy in conversation, no one cares about right or wrong, whether it is gossip or right or wrong. There's no need to be serious.

This is not good, it is easy to develop autism, this is a very serious problem, in fact, speaking itself is a person's right, don't worry about saying wrong, be good at chatting with friends around you, even if it's a joke, it's normal to say wrong, but you can correct it if you say it wrong, if you always don't speak because you're afraid of saying the wrong thing, then you can't do it in the future, you have to learn a process of continuous learning when you speak, you must slowly use your own personality language ability, speak out generously and boldly, no one will laugh at you. That's communication. So, if you think of anything, be brave enough to say it, hehe

As a result, you will become less and less willing to talk!! However, it is recommended that he often go to some industries that he is interested in, which can cause common topics to speak, so that it will be good to talk for a long time!!

I've also tried, the second year of junior high school transfer, they not only can't speak but also can't understand the broken words (it's strange to understand), whenever this happens, I shout: Please speak Mandarin! ”

Over time, they didn't speak their hometown dialect in front of me (hehe, I led the trend of Mandarin progress in our class.) Proud).

In fact, you can ask them to teach you to speak their native dialect, you don't have to learn everything, you can use common words, and the rest is guessed. Surely everyone is willing to teach you, kids, they are all enthusiastic, and you give them a chance to show themselves. Besides, I guess what you learn is plausible, it's funny, they think it's fun, and they'll teach you if it's okay.

As long as you can understand and guess, and then you speak Mandarin, they will understand it too, and that's fine

Well, try it, and if you have any questions, you can send me a message.

I think you are from Beijing, and how difficult it is to easily let everyone understand your words, you are trying to do a very important thing!

I think you're thinking too much, and you treat what you say as your hometown.

It's nothing, Mandarin is relatively easy to understand, and it is more convenient to communicate by speaking Mandarin.

It's nothing, think too much, I'm in Beijing, isn't there still a lot of people who speak hometown.

Let it be.

Actually, it's still going to be popular, maybe.

According to your own way of thinking Be generous and natural I messed up on a blind date last time The reason why I listened to other people's opinions on the ferry I looked for information all night What to pay attention to this Pay attention to that After I met, I was timid, uncomfortable, and very nervous For example; The other party asked me to rate her, and I answered 100 points according to the information I searched, and she said; Full marks for the first contact I replied In my dictionary There are only 0 points and 100 points If you are satisfied, you will get 100 points, and if you are not satisfied, you will get 0 points.

The second time we met, they were basically lovers, right? You can talk about how you feel about the blind date! and each other's family situation!

Get to know each other clearly! That's it for wanting to kiss! If you all agree to this family business!

You can fall in love like a couple! The key is to have fun talking!

Let's talk about what he likes. As for what he likes. It's up to you to inquire about your relationships ...

After inquiring, you will find out on the Internet yourself. And then there's something to talk about. Whether the grades are good or not is not the most important thing.

You're talking about him being a man. Men don't pay much attention to learning. As long as you're good.

Loving. Virtuous.. Good to his parents.

I also know how to cook and cook. Basically, there is no problem. It's best to let him know this, and thus get to know you.

That's how it will be.

Don't chat, so that you are not confident, in case it makes him feel that something is not good.

Simply choose entertainment activities, divert the topic, and sometimes use a sense of humor to make a little joke or something.

Entertainment activities can be: watching movies, playgrounds, KTV, board game bars, skating and skiing, self-driving tours or something, if you feel awkward to bring your good friends (with boyfriends) to go out together, so that the atmosphere is more relaxed, and you will not always find topics to chat.

If you don't want to talk about the past, then talk about what happened nearby, you can also listen to what he said, and then break the casserole to ask the end, fully understand him, you just need to be a good listener, and after a long time, there will be a topic to talk about, and your previous things will be sealed.

What matters is how you are now.

Then talk to him about interests, movies, and food.

Show more care and smile more.

Don't be too inhibited, don't be pretentious, be real, be sincere.

If you give such a little point, why should I give you advice...

Then you practice hard at home, face the big mirror, and talk to it! And make psychological hints to encourage yourself to do it!

Maybe it's because you've been at home for too long, your self-confidence has been eroded by you, and now you don't have to worry about anything, you're just experiencing less. Now all we have to do is to go out and walk more, the world is just like this, it is not unusual at all, some things are not as complicated as you think, after all, there are many kind people in the world. Find more things to do for yourself, go grocery shopping, buy things, try to communicate with people in the market, and bargain can also exercise yourself.

Or visit friends, visit relatives, and have a chat. Don't be nervous talking to relatives and friends! In this way, you talk too much and come back with confidence!

I am the same, social phobia, is a psychological disorder caused by some things, serious will cause organic damage to the brain, it is difficult to change, the most important thing is to learn to recognize yourself, learn to accept, the most important and most difficult is to learn to change, and finally I wish you a good life.

"Must" exercise more! Finding a job has something to do with communication!

I said, didn't you go to school? There is only one goal to go out, and the passers-by around are A, B, C, D, afraid because of what shortcomings you have, which is magnified by your own infinity, and another person thinks that talking to the mirror is not conducive to communicative fear, but it may lead to autism.

You can talk to strangers first, they don't know you anyway, so say whatever you want, don't feel ashamed, after a long time you will find that social networking is like this, you can do whatever you want, you can say whatever you want, in fact, no one will call you for performance.

Please calm down, don't think about anything, and concentrate on it: the origin of the Great Dao is Western Gold. These seven words, over time, will give birth to wisdom, and your troubled problems will be solved naturally, so as to welcome a new life. I implore my friends to try it and hope to get rid of their pain as soon as possible.

I am like this sometimes, I have to be bold, believe in myself, and think more for the good.

Take the initiative to speak. Take the initiative to smile. The language is well organized before speaking.

Go out less, talk more with people on the side, and it's okay to take it slowly.

Don't worry, just try talking to the mirror and get used to it.

You must change, you must say more, it doesn't matter if you are wrong. Otherwise you'll be done later.

It's good to be introverted. Mature performance.

This is because of low self-esteem, first find your relatives and best friends and talk to them more In the workplace, it is very bad not to talk A large number of people are not born to be very good at talking, but also to come slowly, read more books, learn more new knowledge, interesting anecdotes.

You care too much about what other people think, don't care about those You have to believe in yourself Eloquence is not born From now on Believe in yourself!!

It's still good to say less and do more.

You can first find someone you know to chat, so that people will not be nervous, slowly increase the number of people chatting, you will become more and more comfortable, slowly you are not afraid of strangers, it doesn't matter if you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, if you encounter any big occasion, you will find a radish and cabbage field in the future, just shout to them every day, your self-confidence will become more and more sufficient, and you will be very comfortable in the speech in the future.

The above is very true, it will be over like this, and I will be like you.

Be at peace and respect.