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One is the person who loves you and the other is the person you love.

And you have to choose someone who will be with you for the rest of your life.

Hehe, take your pick.

Follow your heart.

Don't regret it. If you really want to give up, or feel that it's really hard to get back that feeling with him.

Just let it go. Love cannot be forced.

Again, life always has to be decided.

I'm not you with emotional problems, and I can't help you.

Only these pieces of advice.

by Little Niko.

Don't heal the scar and forget the pain, punches and kicks are often intensified, and your failure to resist will only hurt yourself. A person's nature is not so easy to change, don't you think it's scary to be nice to you all of a sudden? Do you think it's possible for a man who has always been violent to suddenly become a different person?

Even if his way of treating you has changed, the essence of the person has not changed, he is still a man with violent tendencies and personality problems! Don't you kick this kind of person away and regret it later? If you don't be ruthless now, you are cruel to yourself, and there is pain when you are separated, just get through this time, and you can meet a better one by throwing away a rotten peach blossom.

Of course, you have broken his heart, or rather, he is completely disappointed in you, but your body, maybe his last obsession, or compensation for him to endure you for so long, in other words, to other girls, he may be a good man, but for you, he will not have any guilt for hurting you, because he has given so much, endured so much, hurt you or something, just a little reward. In short, he may have loved you very much and was a good warm man before, but now, he has been changed by you and become, a bad man, at least for you.

Judging from your previous interactions, you were indeed very headstrong before, especially you. But if you want to reconcile, he will still agree. At this time, you actually like each other.

But when you get to college, your situation is still bad, his personal situation has changed to a certain extent, there are some people chasing her, and there are many beautiful ones, note that this is a turning point, this man he has capital. It's no longer your only one. I don't like you as much as I used to, but I'm still a little unwilling to you, because he hasn't talked to you for so long.

Very unwilling, chatting with you is not serious, perfunctory attitude. This shows that he wants to completely end this unpleasant relationship with you and find a new love, but you still have feelings for him, and the girl's feelings are easy to accumulate, but I advise you to break it directly. Really, you don't have to rely on him anymore.

Judging from his various words, he doesn't value you anymore, and has other intentions.

I have personally experienced this situation, my ex-girlfriend and I have also supported the rate for three years, and then we broke up peacefully, although we were reluctant, but for the sake of each other's happiness or separated! You belong to personality incompatibility, probably because of cultural background, family education is too different, and you don't get along well in the process of getting along, or you don't have the will to run in with each other! This is a very sadistic relationship, if you can't get through it, I suggest you break up slowly!

If you can stay the course, you will be very happy!

You guys are really not suitable, you are two cars running on two roads, break up quickly, no one will delay anyone.

I want to say if you have ever thought about the overall situation, you may just be caught in the emotional whirlpool between you and him, many things you are already stupid and can't tell the difference, normal, feelings.

Happy love should be based on mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual support, and correct treatment, have you done it? It's better to study hard, time will tell you how the road of love has passed.

Yes, now you only have a body for him, and after you open the room, you will not be with you after you play.

It's better to give up, there is no emotion.

You're ready to start a new relationship.

I think women often say that they break up out of temperament, hoping that their boyfriends will coax them. When a man says he breaks up, he usually really has no feelings. There are several possibilities for your ex-boyfriend to do this:

1. There is no new partner for the time being, so I will pass the time with you. 2. I feel that you still have feelings for him, similar to chicken ribs, tasteless food, and it is a pity to abandon it. 3. He doesn't want to have any results with you, but he wants to treat you as a spare tire in case of emergency.

If you want to get away with it, this is it, in fact, this method is more suitable for both parties are bored, so you can temporarily stop contacting and act as if you don't care about him. I'll give you my own example. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and it is inevitable that we will be tired of each other and even hate to break up.

Generally after a quarrel no one is willing to admit defeat, usually at this time I will not contact him, once 10 days or no contact, everything is as usual, he on QQ I don't look for him, and he is very happy, and then 10 days that day he came directly to my house to find me, but I still ignored him, he left. In the evening, we chatted, and he also came to indulge him, saying that if I really don't want to be with him, I will divide it. I said yes.

Then I hung up ** I cried to death and texted him and said: After so many years of relationship, it was really in vain. This text message shows that I care about him, but it was the breakup he mentioned, so I was very helpless.

Then he panicked. That's what you want to do!

It's very rational for a man to take the initiative to break up, and he is now separated from you, maybe he just enjoys the feeling of being cared for.

He can divide when he wants, and he can merge when he wants, and it seems that you are quite easy-going.

Relationships that don't seek results, when you're an ordinary friend.

I have a favorite goal.,I want to chase each other as a single.,I didn't catch it.,I'm back looking for you again.,Sister paper.,Wake up.。

Procrastination is not good for anyone. Ignore him.

If you want to divide it thoroughly, don't have a connection in the end, forgive once and there will be a second time, and finally leave him.

Seriously calm down and think carefully about whether he really loves you and wants to be with you??

Love is so short, forgetting is so long.

He should want to get back together with you, but he can't save face.

He's either obscene or likes to show off.

Do you have an opinion, if one day he tells you to die, will you go? Do you need someone else to persuade you for this kind of thing? Others persuaded you, and you still come here to ask why?

Are you brainless? Are you so rotten that no one wants it? But your boyfriend didn't plan to ask for you, you said he went to find the person he loved.

Women must have wisdom and dignity in the face of love to be attractive. People have already said that they want to find the person he loves, which means that he doesn't love you. Even if you love you, even if he doesn't go to the person he loves, he leaves because of work.

We should all consider whether it is worth it or not, etc. What's more, he didn't meet any of these conditions. Keeping you waiting three years is just wanting a spare tire.

Or prove to others that he's in demand. Don't wait, don't let him bring back a woman and scold the scumbag again. That's not worthy of sympathy at all, I can only say that you are cheap.

Let's turn back to the shore.

Quite simply, true love will you make you wait? If he finds someone he loves, put you a**? The worst outcome is that he finds a marriage and has children, what do you do? You see, there is still a year left, are you waiting for him to divorce? Don't be stupid, kid, this kind of lied to you.

You can also pay more attention to whether there is a person around you when you wait for him, everyone will not only have a love, don't wait if there is a suitable person, if you don't have a suitable person in the past three years, he doesn't have a suitable one, and you can still walk together Even if it is fate, time can change too many things, it is meaningless to wait, everyone is just looking for it.

Your brain makes the door squeeze! How precious are three years for a girl, do you want to spend three years for this person who doesn't love you? Three years later, 90 percent of the grandchildren will forget about you, don't be stupid.

This man is a piece of trash, he doesn't deserve you to do this for him, do you hear it?

This is obviously treating you as a spare tire, and you don't want to hang yourself from a tree, and then tell him to let him wait for you for three years to try, don't be stupid, marry when you meet the right one,

As long as you don't have brains, you won't wait....You go to your lover and call your boyfriend to wait for you.

You are stupid to the extreme, if he finds the person he loves, then you don't waste 3 years of youth in vain, you have to have a little self-esteem.

He goes to the person he loves, and shows that he doesn't love you, and the person who is always unwilling to let go hurts the most, that is, you, little fool, don't wait.

Nonsense, spend three years with you to find the person he loves, you are stupid.

Is this waiting? To put it very clearly, let you make a spare tire? Are you waiting? Why can he go to someone he loves? Can't? Why wait for him?

I support you, you can wait for him for 30 years, said.

Since your boyfriend has gone to find the person he loves, who are you waiting for?

Because you're stupid! Silly wait! Where is there no grass at the end of the world?

Your boyfriend doesn't want to pick you up in front of her mom because he doesn't want to cause conflict.

Generally, there will be a trouble in order to get married.

The days will pass, and later, you will know that you don't need it at all, just because at that crossing, you can't see what it will be like later, so you have to make a fuss, isn't it just a ceremony?

The key is to live later, but the key is that the ceremony is important, how much bride price is important, face is important, on the one hand, the son who has been raised hard, and on the other hand, the daughter who has been raised hard, can't let yourself owe anything! To put it bluntly, if you are not strong, you should be vindictive! That's it.

As for men, they generally don't want to care about these things, but it is also very difficult to get mixed up between the parents on both sides. There is nothing left, if the wings are not hard at this time, and you have to rely on the old people on both sides, it will be even more difficult.

When you say something to me, it's quite noisy.

The key is actually to live a life, not about this wedding, face or anything. I also want a small couple, and the little couple struggles on their own, and it has nothing to do with anyone. Just have a house to live by, and save the rest by yourself.

It's already like this, what's the point, continue to be entangled! Your husband-to-be is so unhelpful, it's okay to find your own happiness again, isn't there a good man in the world? Why hang yourself from a tree.

First of all, from your point of view, your boyfriend is not good! After going through so many ups and downs, when it was important to achieve positive results, he had to give up. I don't think he loves you enough, it's just a matter of marriage, he can't start from your point of view, do things well, the days after marriage, trivial things will be more, is there more quarrels, chatter quarrels, not only smoothed out your love, but also tormented your marriage.

Now that there is an irreconcilable quarrel, I think it is a good thing, let you calm down and think about your choices, it is better than enduring the unhappiness and hastily getting married, sowing the seeds of uneasiness after marriage. The bottom line of marriage is whether you can tolerate the shortcomings of your other half, if you can, then your marriage is at least not an unhappy marriage, if not, I advise you to give up decisively, otherwise life after marriage will be endless troubles and troubles! Fortunately, one of his shortcomings has been exposed, and you can consider your choice carefully and adopt my advice, which I am absolutely right.

Bless you!

I think it's better for you to sit down and talk slowly, so that if you get married, there may be quarrels in the future, and it will be better to eliminate this knot, I think he is not angry if he doesn't speak, or is he bored, is that you are too strong, so that he can't bear it. Feelings should be understood, tolerant, although it is a common saying, but it is also the truth, talk about it well, it really doesn't work, it's like this88, the twisted melon is not sweet.

Why did you make more than half a year of trouble about getting married? Do you want to marry you? In that case, you need to plan ahead of time.

It shows that he himself is not firm, but everything can be discussed if he has a good relationship, after all, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, and it needs to be managed; Also, don't get too sharp.

May I ask you were there when you hit him **? How can you see the next to him and what he said?

It's okay to get angry, just live a while

Don't think about this, whether he loves you or not, you should be clear, if not, then ask directly! There's no embarrassment in that! If he says he will marry you, you have to believe him, and if you love her, you have to believe him, even if you don't have a reason to believe her.

Don't think about the waste of youth, youth is never in vain, no matter what you do, you have experienced it, this is the harvest of youth, but the value is different in your personal opinion. Don't compare with others, just be happy with yourself, if you want to compare, then compare with ***! Even if you're working hard, your youth is nothing compared to ***'s youth, right?

So, as long as you're happy, do it! Anything can happen! Have an open heart!

Whatever the outcome, remember, there is no end to it!