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Anonymous users2024-02-131.An affair.
I have to say that extramarital affairs are the biggest hurdles in marriage, 2The dullness of the days.
3.Economic pressures.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12The more comfortable the day, the more restless thoughts will breed. Extramarital affairs, cheating marriages will never go back to the beginning. In the event of a mid-life crisis, there is a lot of pressure in life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11After getting married, life was very uneventful, and one party had an extramarital affair. Mid-life crises in middle age are things that will happen after getting married.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Dull days, extramarital affairs and midlife crises. If you can get through these three hurdles smoothly, the two of you will be together for the rest of your life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09The first hurdle is the run-in of the newlywed period, the second hurdle is the trivialities of life after having children, and the third hurdle is the bottleneck period in the relationship and the burnout period.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08In this era when feelings are above all else, it seems to be very ironic, but it is worth pondering, in this world, is there really a person who is completely compatible with you without running-in? But in the coexistence of husband and wife, who hasn't thought about divorce? But in the end, there are also people who have honed in their lovers' love skills in marriage.
This is also the plastic art of repentance, and it is all the philosophy of art. It's a pity that there is no course content to teach us, people can only explore around in reality, and the hurdles encountered in getting along with husband and wife have not stepped on the past and they have gone their separate ways.
First of all, before giving birth to children, most of the problems between husband and wife may lie in each other's living habits and other small things, before marriage, each other is to present the best side to the other party, and after marriage, all the good and not so good side of each other will gradually show in front of others, this is a big hurdle, how many marriages are due to the small things in life can not last, and even get married today, tomorrow divorce countless, out of this hurdle, Basically, this marriage is half the battle.
Before marriage, many people don't have enough time to get along, or when they don't buy and leave, everyone still wears masks, and it is not easy to reveal their truest selves, and it is difficult to discover their real life growth habits. It is true that we live together, how to squeeze whitening toothpaste, who will clean the bathroom, how to throw away the clothes after each bath, and whether the used hair dryer should be stored and organized. Some trivial trivia, which seem inconsequential, will make people explode bit by bit.
Some people say that marriage is a spiritual practice, and there will be all kinds of difficulties on the road, and if the two of them rush through it, they can continue to walk side by side. If you can't get through, you'll go your separate ways here. Although this is cruel, it is also practical enough, because there are indeed many obstacles in married life, and people who can overcome such obstacles together can usually be happy all their lives; And if you don't go to win people, even if you don't get divorced, you are strangers to each other, in the same bed and in different dreams, and your marriage is in name only.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Husbands and wives will encounter a lot of difficulties in their lives, such as in terms of feelings, such as the pain of three years, the itch of 7 years, the traces of money, and the body; The two sides care for each other, understand each other, help each other, trust each other, face difficulties together, and solve them together, so that they can overcome these hurdles.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06After three years of pain, the two sides are familiar with each other, and there is no longer the freshness of Zhengliangxiang, and after five years of separation, there will be various reasons for the marriage to move, and they will re-examine each other, and they will have differences with each other, and the seven-year itch will be tired of the psychology and aesthetic fatigue after a long time; Husband and wife should communicate and exchange more, understand each other more, love each other more, and give each other more care.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Three years of pain, five years of separation, seven years of itching; We have to take care of the family, enhance the emotional communication between the two people, often go out for a meeting, eat and go shopping, so that both people have some freshness, even if the work is busy, but also to create the warmth of the shed model in life and the wave pants and bucket man, we must maintain an optimistic and positive attitude, both sides work together, put each other in mind.
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The key to the happiness of a middle-aged couple in marriage mainly depends on whether the two people can care enough and understand each other during this period, and can also make life full of freshness, and then the two people can understand and put themselves in the shoes of the object, so that they can be truly happy.
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People to the crisis of middle age in the countryside people have the most experience, this age group of people get married, build a house has been in debt, children get married and go out to work to earn money to pay off the debt, mother-in-law with little grandchildren, father-in-law also has to earn money to supplement the family, there are both sides of the elderly with limited mobility, there are children who need to be taken care of at all times, and their own body parts in the middle are also repaired, either suffering from three highs or constant pain, busy with a day of tiredness to death, but also to maintain and balance the relationship between the elderly and children, the mother-in-law in the middle is difficult to be! Middle age is already going downhill, the economic pressure is huge, and the four generations of the old and young are the most in need of money, and it is also the time when they are most physically and mentally tired. At this time, I better understand what is difficult to do and difficult to be a person, and I am happy to face the crisis and live every day happily.
I know how you feel, because I used to be quite introverted......My classmates and friends also make fun of me, and although the content of the jokes is different from yours, it is also a ...... that I don't like or I won't doThat feels bad......However, this is rarely the case these days. Actually, there are some things you don't need to care too much about, it's good after a long time......Go with them when you're in a good mood, and stay silent if you don't want to participate or have nothing to say; If you have too many times or really can't accept it, you will get angry at them and warn them; Sometimes you can also reply to them more ruthlessly (if you don't make a sound, it's a blockbuster), then they naturally don't dare to make fun of you ......