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I know how you feel, because I used to be quite introverted......My classmates and friends also make fun of me, and although the content of the jokes is different from yours, it is also a ...... that I don't like or I won't doThat feels bad......However, this is rarely the case these days. Actually, there are some things you don't need to care too much about, it's good after a long time......Go with them when you're in a good mood, and stay silent if you don't want to participate or have nothing to say; If you have too many times or really can't accept it, you will get angry at them and warn them; Sometimes you can also reply to them more ruthlessly (if you don't make a sound, it's a blockbuster), then they naturally don't dare to make fun of you ......
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Everyone is drunk and I am sober, everyone is turbid, I am alone If you are different from others, you have to pay the price, the most important thing in this group society is to be gregarious, otherwise you are an alternative in the eyes of others If you don't want to change yourself, you have to change the attitude of others towards you, you can warn first, and you must not show weakness. We also treat the more honest people in the dormitory in the dormitory, but that was only before, after being warned by the bullied person, in fact, everyone was not malicious, but they didn't take other people's feelings to heart, everyone made it clear, and the problem was solved.
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It's not a big joke, it means that they haven't treated you as a completely different person, otherwise, they won't pay attention to you.
It's not true to joke, you should be easy-going, and of course it doesn't mean doing bad things with them.
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It's normal, because it's strange, so it's brave, and after getting along for a long time, I get to know each other, and I want to know more about each other's behavior, because I feel the same way.
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Go someone else's way and let others have no way out!
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Introversion refers to a person who has relatively weak communication skills, likes to think alone and express himself in his heart, and is less willing to express himself through social activities and interpersonal methods. There are many reasons for introverted personality, such as genes, upbringing, social experience, etc. Here are some common reasons:
1.Genes: Studies have shown that an individual's personality traits are influenced to some extent by genes. If there are some small differences in a person's physical and brain structure development, it may cause him or her to be more likely to be an introverted individual.
2.Growing up: Your child's upbringing may also have an impact on introverted personality. For example, experiences such as strained relationships between family members and being constrained by parents may cause children to become accustomed to interpersonal interactions, which can lead to feelings of loneliness and ultimately affect their personality development.
3.Social experience: Lack of social experience can also lead to introversion. For example, in adolescence, if you can't fit in with the people around you for a period of time or meet peers with bad attitudes, these may produce feelings of withdrawal and loneliness, and gradually form an introverted personality.
While understanding the causes of introverted personality, we also need to learn how to deal with it. Here are some methods and suggestions:
1.Accept yourself: First of all, we need to accept our introverted personality and gradually get rid of emotions such as anxiety, anxiety and low self-esteem from the bottom of our hearts, such as "interpersonal communication" and "poor social skills".
2.Expand your social circle: Although it is not the strong point of introverts, we should also gradually find friends who share our interests through activities such as sports, public welfare activities, reading and reading books, etc., through some activities such as specific physical goals and interests.
3.Improve self-management skills: Introverts are also recommended to gradually become an effective time and emotion manager, such as gradually understanding their goals and pursuits, and learning how to manage their time and emotions.
4.Skills: You need to improve your skills in a targeted manner, such as: taking the initiative to greet people when they meet them for the first time, learning to listen to nuanced skills, learning to establish good communication with others, etc.
In short, introverts are able to adjust and adapt to life by understanding their own relevant situations, and establish a wider network of interpersonal relationships, so that they can better integrate into social activities, improve themselves, and become more confident, healthy and different people.
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Extroverts are strong, introverts are weak, and strong people always look down on weak people. Unless an introvert can make a difference.
Introverts, on the other hand, are always so closed off to interact with others. People are always selfish, if you don't interact with others, others will not get any benefit from you, and they will reject you.
Introverts like to think quietly and like to immerse themselves in their own world. So introverts are very good at learning. Introverts are not used to unfamiliar environments, like to close themselves off, and prefer quiet environments.
I shouldn't have gone out to study that year, I was too introverted to adapt to the dormitory environment. And it's not a question of learning to be rough at all.
I'm an introvert, closed off and a bit selfish. I like to be alone, and I like to be alone. I was able to spend the whole day alone in my room.
These are the habits of introverts, and these habits further exacerbate the formation of introverts. So repeatedly, the introverted personality is deeply ingrained.
People with an extroverted personality are strong, and they can clearly feel that they have a strong desire to express and express themselves. In a group they tend to have a strong sense of presence, while introverts say nothing and have a very weak presence, almost zero. Unless they are strong and have a good job in work and study, almost no one notices introverts.
Why are you so introverted? Timid or not confident? I think it has a lot to do with homeschooling.
When I was a child, I slept late in separate beds, and my parents did everything, so my independence was poor. And he doesn't go out very often, and he lacks the skills to get along with people. It's all about the parents' lack of educational experience.
Of course, I have my own responsibilities. Fear of making mistakes, caring too much about other people's opinions, so that their words and deeds are submissive.
Since it is difficult for introverts to coexist with extroverts, they do not have to coexist. Wronging oneself to please others is even more despised.
Introverts are introverts. What's wrong with introversions. Introverts don't like to talk, so they become strong in action. Since extroverts look down on introverts, they don't have to coexist. Introverts wronged themselves to please extroverts, and it is they who are embarrassed.
Introverts can also live very well, what's wrong with me being introverted.
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This actually depends on the individual, some people even if they have low self-esteem, they will not show any such thoughts, because in fact, they are so inferior that they dare not let others know that I am inferior, and some people are happy all day long, and they will take the initiative to communicate with others, and they will not resist community activities or anything, and even have the courage to laugh at themselves, and then generously admit their shortcomings, saying that I really can't do this, in fact, I know more clearly in my heart that it is better to admit it frankly, Maybe this will cause a little less objection, just take the example of a school I changed before, there is a friend who is not particularly familiar, but his behavior is obvious. I don't know if it's counted.,I'm nominated in class.,Always standing.,Just stumble or simply stare at the book.,I don't often take the initiative to participate in group activities.,And then others look for him or something very cautious.,The first kind of person I said.,It's probably more to be accommodated with society.,It's easier to be accepted.,But in private, it's actually equivalent to torturing yourself.,Because others won't know that you're probably an inferiority person.,So talk., Maybe not so much attention, but it's just such a person who is very sensitive, so there are a lot of things to think, sometimes I want to express and I'm scared, I will be said to be too unatmospheric, the second kind is probably the opposite, although many people say that the people around them should accept more, to get along more, but to be honest, people are not more willing to stay with the people they want to stay with, so they are more willing to fit in with their own more intimate circle, I don't know the second kind so well, but I'm the first kind of person, let me confess, Even from the tone of my voice, you can see that what I said is more neutral and hopeful, and it is less likely to be talked about by everyone, so...Actually, it's quite tiring.
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