What kind of crisis did you encounter in middle age?

People to the crisis of middle age in the countryside people have the most experience, this age group of people get married, build a house has been in debt, children get married and go out to work to earn money to pay off the debt, mother-in-law with little grandchildren, father-in-law also has to earn money to supplement the family, there are both sides of the elderly with limited mobility, there are children who need to be taken care of at all times, and their own body parts in the middle are also repaired, either suffering from three highs or constant pain, busy with a day of tiredness to death, but also to maintain and balance the relationship between the elderly and children, the mother-in-law in the middle is difficult to be! Middle age is already going downhill, the economic pressure is huge, and the four generations of the old and young are the most in need of money, and it is also the time when they are most physically and mentally tired. At this time, I better understand what is difficult to do and difficult to be a person, and I am happy to face the crisis and live every day happily.

The so-called people are middle-aged and everything is off, and the way is that people are forty-four, peeing and dripping wet pants are talking about a mid-life crisis! The mid-life crisis is a double crisis from psychology and physiology, not only in the face of the intuitive decline of the bald and greasy body, but also the serious pressure of family and society, if you are still looking for a job at this time, it is not easy to find middle-aged, and at this time there will be an unprecedented loneliness, as if the desolation of the village and the store is full of hearts, if the heart is not strong enough, it will become more and more helpless How to resolve the midlife crisis? Be kind to time, be kind to your loved ones, be kind to yourself, and be kind to all living things!

Be open-minded, what to fear!

The essence of a midlife crisis is to blindly put leverage, and leverage is the root cause of all disasters. The leverage mentioned here includes three aspects: On the one hand, there is the birth of a second child, and after the birth of a second child, all the derivative problems come.

On the other hand, it is to blindly carry out unnecessary consumption, such as buying a house in other places, buying a car, luxury goods, etc., meaningless consumption. Another aspect is the school district housing, many families used to live in abundance, but because of the school district housing has become stressful.

The typhoon period of life is the five years before and after the age of fifty, evolution and sudden have not yet consolidated and adapted, and after passing this hurdle, it is not that there is no problem, but the disease and the human body have formed a period of relative balance and stability! The body's blood sugar, blood pressure, and blood lipids have suddenly come out in the past few years! This is also directly related to the long-term obesity, irregular life, and emotional variation of the human body.

If there are some detection methods, the body is between 60 and 70 kilograms, the three highs are normal, the mood is cheerful, and it is basically not easy to get sick.

In terms of work, there are leaders in charge, and young people chase after them, and if they don't advance, they will retreat. If you do not have any skills or abilities after the age of 35, you may be in danger of losing your job.

Midlife crisis, also known as "gray middle age", is a psychological term that generally occurs in men between the ages of 40 and 65, so it is also known as the "man forty syndrome". Midlife crisis refers to the various hurdles and crises that may be experienced at this stage of life, such as career, health, family and marriage.

In terms of family, there are elderly people who need to be taken care of, and if they are not in good health, it will cost a lot of energy. It takes a lot of energy and money to have children to go to school and raise them. So, it's a lot of pressure.

In terms of finance, middle-aged people are the pillars of the economy, housing loans, car loans, daily expenses, the elderly and children and other aspects have to be spended, and the balance of each month is not much, and the ability to resist risks is limited. It is important to start investing early to alleviate the financial pressure of middle age.

The real crisis is learning efficiency, the ability to accept new things! You can't be as energetic as young people, draw inferences from others, and you can't be as motivated and potential as young people. The sense of crisis is **, I feel that I can't keep up!

I am 40 years old this year, and I have worked hard for most of my life and accumulated some wealth, which can be regarded as a success. I left an Internet company some time ago and was going to take a break to look for a job.

Almost at the same time, my father died, my own car accident, my son failed the high school entrance examination, my wife had major heart surgery, my mother-in-law was defrauded, my father-in-law had two strokes, the company was defrauded, and my mother had high blood pressure... At that time, there was a ** tear every night, and the next day I continued to face and deal with it one by one... It's been 6 years now, and it's getting better and better.

So, persistence is victory ...

I have been working for more than 20 years, I feel very tired, I quit my job and stay at home, take a break for a year or two, and be kind to myself.

Everyone is the best version of you, unique! The world is impermanent, and grievances are uncertain. Life must experience birth, old age, sickness and death, and there is no time to waste, especially a woman's youth.

People, not things. Only by truly knowing impermanence can we harness our own mind and be truly happy. The Four Dharma Seals preached by Khenpo Yeshe Phuntsok are worth studying.

There are also "Cruelty is Youth", "Bitterness is Life", "Theory of Entering the Industry", and the "Light of the Wisdom Lantern" series by Cicheng Luo Zhu Khenpo is also great [agree].

Any departure is the result of a certain amount of accumulation. There is a cause for coming and going. Even if you lose it, you don't have to worry about it, because the gathering will be scattered. I wish you a happy life [Blessings] [God of Wealth] [2019].

Middle-aged people encounter a marriage addiction crisis.