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It's so complicated to say upstairs!
In fact, I don't think you can get good friends by any means! If it's a thousand calculations to win the favor of others and become friends with others, isn't that a bit of a bad taste?
In fact, making friends is not that hard! As long as you follow your own character, you don't have to change yourself in order to make others like you, everyone's personality is different, but everyone always has their own shining side!
To reveal your shining point, don't be too closed, to make friends with life and death, you should first know how to dedicate, don't stick to the form, the real friend is not the friend who usually seems intimate, but the friend who can pull you in the most difficult time, maybe you already have a friend who lives and dies together, but you haven't found it yet!
In short, don't bother about it! Fate is destined, and the friends you are destined to have one day you will become friends in trouble!
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Friends, don't think about it.
I'm sure you've heard the phrase "one confidant in life is enough."
Friends are communicated by heart.
If you are good to others, that person may have a good impression of you and slowly accept you.
But don't force it.
Don't force anything.
It also depends on fate.
If you don't have a friend, I'll be your friend.
I'm also willing to make you a friend, so if you're willing to change your feet, my QQ, don't worry about these things anymore.
Believe that tomorrow will be better.
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Try to be cheerful, don't you think that being introverted can sometimes make you feel depressed? As long as it's not someone you particularly hate, you can give a heartfelt smile and say hello when you meet them; Be sure to let people see your smile and hear your greetings. It's not difficult at all.
And it works great.
You can give it a try, and tomorrow morning, when you go to school, you will say hello or smile at someone you know. When you send your smile, you will get a smile at the same time. Then your day will be happy.
For example: good morning; Early; Did you sleep well yesterday? Don't feel awkward, it's a good habit.
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That's how life was in high school.
It's not that you can't make friends just by sleeping in class.
You have to be good at finding the good in others.
Don't always think that others have one or another flaw but have more friends than you.
And yes. Not everyone likes extroverts.
Friendships are stronger for introverts.
And I think. Introverts are actually more worthy of deep friendship.
Care. Learn to listen and you'll find a good friend.
Friends. It's great to really have one.
I'm also a high school student. But right away, let's say goodbye to high school.
I'm an outgoing. Very frankly. I have a lot of friends.
Many, many and that. But what I really can do is not seem to be able to make friends.
So don't always want to make a lot of friends.
Take it easy. You'll always have friends who know you and you understand you.
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That's because everyone has his own sparkle in him.
There's no secret to making good friends.
As long as you are sincere.
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Maybe they have something in them that you don't have, and that's exactly what they need, so it's strong.
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It seems that you really want to socialize with your classmates, so why not take the initiative to talk to your classmates? It seems that your classmates have their own friends, so if you don't talk to them, they won't pay attention to you, take the initiative and they will find you cute...
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Enter! Help him when he needs it most! Then he will be very impressed! I trust you a lot! You'll be friendlier day by day!
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Help someone when they are in trouble or in a bad mood, even if it is a word of comfort, but be sincere!
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Common language. You and they have not.
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1. Be sincere, treat friends with sincerity, and not be hypocritical, otherwise you will not be able to make good friends and true friends.
3. Contact more, more contact between friends, even the closest friends, if they don't contact each other for a long time, there will be fewer and fewer common topics between each other, and the relationship will become weaker and weaker.
4. Help others, friends should lend a helping hand in time when they are in difficulty, as the saying goes, "adversity sees the truth", at this time as a friend must help each other.
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1。In order to achieve the goal, unscrupulous means.
The so-called gentleman loves money and takes it in the right way, whether it is for the pursuit of wealth or the pursuit of power status, he must sit upright so that he is not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door in the middle of the night. But human desires are endless, and desires are like a bottomless pit, and if you don't control yourself, you can't fill it at all. Some people will do whatever it takes to achieve their own interests, using all means and methods, not hesitating to sacrifice the interests of others, or even hurting others, betraying friends, and unscrupulous means to achieve their goals.
If such a person gives you benefits and benefits, please be sure not to accept such benefits, since he can betray others for interests, he can also betray you for interests, and he will not treat you as a friend, but only use you as a tool to achieve his goals. If you have such a person around you, try not to have deep friendships to avoid getting into trouble.
2.The world is hot and cold, and the treatment of people is like paper.
The speed of urbanization is getting faster and faster, and the pace of everyone's life is getting faster and faster, and gradually, we find that there are fewer and fewer friends who can speak, and there are fewer and fewer friends who can make sincere friends, and it is inevitable to be lonely and sad. So many times, we are eager to make friends, to find someone to share joys and sorrows. But don't staggered your sincerity with others, because you may have a pure heart, but others may not care.
Especially when you meet some people, you are very good to him, you can pay for him, but he doesn't think about you, he always only cares about his own interests and feelings, you pay more and more sincerely, and in the end, you will find that others treat you as a monkey. So if you give too much and still can't warm the hearts of others, then don't warm them and love yourself well.
3.is scathing and mean, and never leaves a way back for others.
Many people hurt others, and they kept saying: Don't blame me, I am a knife-mouthed tofu heart, straight heart. How did you feel when you heard that?
When someone hurts you and says with a smile that he is that kind of character, do you want to slap him? Everyone is an adult, if you can talk, you can talk more, and if you can't talk, don't talk.
That kind of deliberately hurting others, and finding words to say that it is because of your own reasons, you don't even have to accept an apology. Some people have a sour smell as soon as they speak, and they do things regardless of the occasion, and they are ruthless and do not leave a way back for others. Often force people to a dead end, as the saying goes, take a step back and leave a back road for others, that is, leave a road for yourself, after all, the future days are not accurate, so behave outside the world, don't block people's back roads.
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Spend more time with positive and optimistic people, spend more time with people who love to laugh, let yourself be tolerant, and be a little calmer.
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People and groups, things gather by like, who looks for whom. If you want to meet good people to be friends, you must first be a noble person, a pure person, a person who is beneficial to everyone. Before we meet a good person, we must be a good person ourselves.
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Make friends with your heart and understand each other
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When we share common interests or goals with others, it is easy to make like-minded friends who can become important companions in our lives. Among these common interests or goals, the most obvious are hobbies and keystrokes. When you share your hobbies or work with your friends, you may find that your interests and goals are similar, and that there is a possibility that you will be a sharer.
In this case, the relationship between friends may change from a simple friendship to a more intimate peer relationship. They may begin to support each other, sharing information, advice, and experiences. They will work together to achieve a common goal and share each other's joy when they succeed.
On the other hand, the relationship can also present challenges. If your friends are progressing faster or more successful than you, you may feel frustrated and jealous, and you may even feel left behind. At this time, you need to adjust your mindset and learn to appreciate and support the success of others, while also maintaining confidence and hard work in yourself.
Finally, it's important to note that it takes time and effort for friends to become co-bearers, and this kind of relationship is not something that everyone will have. Even if you and your friends share common interests or goals, you need to have shared values and trust in order to build a deeper level of companionship.
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Learn to praise the other person at the right time. When all of your friends don't understand one point of view, as a good friend of his, you should encourage him, you can say: It's okay, I believe in you, come on, I will always support you and other words, your cheering, encouragement and support will make him very grateful to you.
When the other person is doing something well, we should praise the other person. For example, in terms of study, I have achieved good results. Won a prize in a competition, etc.
During the relationship, don't play too much, think that it is a blessing to suffer losses and lose pants, and don't always think that I can ask for something from the other person when we are together.
It's about learning to give, and if it's all about taking, it's hard to be friends. A true friend, I don't think about what to ask for from the other party, nor how to use the other person, but a kind of giving without asking for anything in return!
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If you want to make good friends, you should treat each other with sincerity, and excellent people will attract excellent friends.
First of all, don't be too reticent, and secondly, you can take the initiative to find a topic to communicate with others, such as: problems in life, when you can't make up your mind, let him help you.
First of all, you need to improve yourself, don't be sloppy, your hair is messy, your clothes are casually draped on your body, your appearance can not be high, but it must be clean and neat. Usually participate in more activities, make friends, talk more about the girl, and talk about some topics that interest her.
What you need to make a real friend is to use your heart to really open the hearts of others.
Take the initiative yourself, treat it sincerely with your heart, you can definitely make good friends and work hard, contact more if you have nothing to do, don't lose your temper, treat people equally, don't feel that you are noble, I think the best thing to use is to smile every day, and there are more people who are willing to contact you. Pluck up the courage to speak up.