After the breakup, I still hope that the other party is doing well

After the breakup, you still hope that the other party is doing well, you can see that you are really really in love, I am the same as you, I broke up with my him, but I still hope that he is happy, maybe we all know how to cherish it because of the loss, only to know how important he is to himself, but it is impossible to go back to the past, you can bless him like this is also very good, after all, the other party has loved each other, I believe he will also live a happy life, let us bless each other for each of us, I hope he has a good life.

You really love each other! It's a pity that true love doesn't always end well! Because many people only know how important it is to themselves when they lose, and most people only learn to cherish it after they lose!

In our emotional experience, the ex is a more awkward existence. Because two people came together because they fell in love and finally separated for various reasons, this process of finally getting together is definitely not particularly smooth, and after the breakup, everyone is more sad and will be hurt to a certain extent, so it is said that especially on the side with serious injuries is more dissatisfied with the ex. Therefore, it is often the one who expects the ex to live as well as himself, and the one who is often hurt more seriously in this relationship.

In the case of friends and me, we don't want our ex to be better off than we are. If it was just a scene or the two of us were just together because of some hormones, and then slowly separated, in fact, it didn't delay each other, and there was no real relationship between the two of us. Later separation, it will not have much impact on later life.

At this time, it has nothing to do with you whether your ex is doing well or not, and you don't care. So many times, if we still care a lot about whether our ex is doing well or not, it is actually a reaction in our hearts, that is, you don't really let go of him.

And for most people, it is not easy to come out of a relationship, and even if you really come out of this relationship in the end, you will actually have such a bad impression. You can't do much to bless him. So the reality, in fact, sometimes it is also very cruel, you will definitely be hurt when a relationship ends, no matter how much, there will definitely be such a situation.

When you look back, you must think of this person, and you will not be so free-spirited. This is also the reason why many people often don't want their exes to have a better life than themselves. And this kind of is an indescribable and inexplicable for more people

That's right. It's so hard that you want the other party to live rather than die.

I know you're thinking about the other person because you love him.

You can't let go and hope he can do that to you.

If that's the case, go to him and tell him you still love him.

I want to be together.

The reason why the other party treats you very well, but still wants to break up, and the words are getting less and less:

1. In the cold period.

When couples have passed the period of passionate love.

After that, there will inevitably be a period of indifference, and the two of them don't have much to say at this time.

2. There is a gap.

There is a gap between the couple because of some things, and at this time, both of them are a little uncomfortable in their hearts, so there are fewer and fewer topics.

3. Generate thoughts of breaking up.

When couples have the idea of breaking up because of something, they are thinking about their future lives, and the two of them don't have much to say.

4. Not having enough sense of security.

Couples can't see a happy future for two people in their lives, so they don't have enough security at this time, and two people don't have much to say.

5. There is no common topic.

Couples have no common interests and hobbies in life, and they are very different from each other, so they have no common topics to talk about.

6. Busy work.

Couples are particularly busy at work, and neither of them has much time to argue, so the two of them talk less and less.

The development of a couple needs to work together with each other, not only to maintain a good relationship between two people, but also to make each other have enough confidence in life, so that they can reap happiness.

However, in real life, some couples are not taken seriously after problems, so the relationship between the two people is getting weaker and weaker, and eventually there is a certain crisis.

Therefore, when couples have some emotional problems, they should solve them when they are blind, so as to maintain the relationship between each other and allow two people to finally enter the palace of marriage.

Transition period. A lot of couples are like that. There was a period of time during the relationship when I felt that I didn't feel anything.

It's because I'm a little tired of staying in the front skin for too long. This period is important. After getting through it, you'll be fine.

If you break up with a little heart. Then it's hard to go back. It is recommended that you use other regrets to take things to distract slightly, think more about the other party's goodness, and persevere.

I wish you all happiness.

The question asked by the landlord was particularly delicate. The pain at that time when I broke up was really a little painful, and it really hurt to death. I remember that when I just broke up, I was drunk and dreamed of death every day, like the walking dead, and even had autism and depression.

At that time, I had a vicious mind, hoping that he would die, that his family would be ruined, that he would cut off his children and grandchildren, and all the vicious thoughts were spinning around in my mind, of course, more of a return. Those days were really difficult, and every day my thinking and consciousness were all around him.

Later, accompanied by my parents and girlfriends, I slowly walked out of that shadow and slowly began to regain my social circle. But from time to time, I still think of the sweetness of love, his ruthlessness, the hurt he has suffered, and the fact that his efforts have not been reciprocated, I hope that he will not have a good life at that time. Although I have been separated for a long time, I seem to have a fear of falling in love, and I will be quite disgusted by the approach of a man, and I am at a loss.

I feel that this state of my own is due to him, as if only when I see him not doing well, I will feel a little more comfortable in my heart. Although I know that my thinking is wrong, I am slowly adjusting.

In this way, two or three years have passed, and I have less and less time to recall the past, and I want to open it, just as if I had raised a white-eyed wolf, separated for so long, and divided it, he lived his, I lived mine, and each lived a wonderful life with their own abilities. Love, his good or bad has nothing to do with him. If he is doing well, he will not envy him, and if he is not doing well, he will not fall into the well, and it is the best result to be like a stranger.

Of course, if I knew that he was doing a particularly bad time, I would have secretly refreshed myself in my heart. It's a joke, I just hope I don't meet again in the future, never again.

Most of them hope that the other party will have a bad time. There are 3 reasons, first, he can't see people who have loved him, been good to himself, and good to others, because the other party has given his kindness and love to another person, and he can't enjoy it, so he has resentment. (I can no longer enjoy that kind of love and reconciliation, and I am resentful and dissatisfied).

Second, he once received some harm from his own efforts, so he also wanted to break up, the other party was not doing well, and he was also hurt, and he wanted the other party to understand that you were just dating another person, and you were doing well when you didn't have a relationship with me. (He hurt you once, and after the breakup, you want him to hurt to understand how you felt at the time.) )

Third, if you break up with the other party and the other party is not doing well, it shows that you are better off than him, and you have a sense of superiority in your heart. You'll feel like you're not doing well without me, and that's it. (After breaking up, as long as the other party is not doing well, you will feel that you are better than him, and you have a sense of superiority in your heart, and after you leave me, you will not have a good life.)

In fact, you love her so much, how can you let your former lover have a bad time? If you choose her to have a bad life, to prove that you are better than him, it means that you are not doing very well, your pattern is too low, your personal height is not enough, and your heart is not relaxed.

But in fact, after the breakup, whether he is doing well or not, you have to think about how to make yourself well. I was a stranger, but I had nothing to do with him having a bad time. If I'm lucky enough to be friends and have a handful, I'll consider it.

It's my duty to help him, and it's my duty not to help him, I don't have to help. You can consider helping.

After the breakup, he just told you that he really didn't love you very much. And he's especially annoying to you. I don't think you should go to him anymore, love on the one hand will not work.

Turn your concern for him into him saying it's a form of harassment. With his tone, I think you should give up. He's no better off than you.

After the breakup, he just told you that he really didn't love you very much. And he's especially annoying to you. I don't think you should go to him anymore, love on the one hand will not work.

Turn your concern for him into him saying it's a form of harassment. With his tone, I think you should give up. He's no better off than you.

After the breakup, he just told you that he really didn't love you very much. And he's especially annoying to you. I don't think you should go to him anymore, love on the one hand will not work.

Turn your concern for him into him saying it's a form of harassment. With his tone, I think you should give up. He's no better off than you.

have already broken up, does it have anything to do with you whether she is doing well or not, if you really love her, you should know whether she is saying the opposite or the truth, maybe she is deliberately angry with you, maybe it is really better than being with you.

When you broke up with your girlfriend, he said that he is doing well now, very good, because he is still angry, you have only broken up for ten days, you have to ask him if he misses you? Now you miss him, you want to get back together with him, I hope he can change his mind, and if you don't want to be with him anymore, don't ask him, don't bother him.

It's nothing more than two possibilities. Because I once loved, I had hatred in my heart. It's just to be angry with each other. There is also the fact that I am sure to let go, and I hope that everyone will be safe and there will be no more emotional entanglements.

She said it very well, very well. I don't think it's like she said, because the more people who talk about it, the worse their actual life is. The feelings of two people. Can you forget it? She is a very strong girl, and she doesn't want to expose her negative feelings to you.

It is because you don't care about her feelings that she chooses to break up with you. Now that she has found her true love, you will never go back to the past!

Hello, these words spoken by my girlfriend are angry with you in another way by showing off his current good life, which is a normal psychology as a woman.

She told you that you are doing very well now, and it is possible that she said this on purpose, just to let you know what it is like to be with you.

, say that if you are still in love, your heart hurts, it hurts so much that if you let it go, you won't feel anything special

It's really good to break up with you, please don't bother her anymore, you can see that she really doesn't like you anymore.

I hope that others are not as good as him (her), love and hate deeply, and have not completely let go of each other.

After the breakup, I am living very well now, what kind of psychology is it, he wants to live well, and his heart is very high.

Now that they are separated, they are all right.

I don't love it, it's naïve to say that I really love you and elope with you, and I'll be with you, those are just the reasons for him to give up. And that sentence, maybe just out of guilt.

Of course, the person you have loved wants you to have a good life, don't you want your parents to have a good life? The same reason, love is like family affection.

A remembrance of the past, a blessing for the future.