Broke up and became friends I said yes I still like her very much Do I still have a chance

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't think there's much of a chance. I also broke up with my boyfriend, and I would love to reconcile with him. He dumped me, he said that he still had someone in his heart, he said that he couldn't let go of that person, and said that it was better to be friends.

    After he said that, I was stunned, and after a while I said, well, then be friends, I can't help if you don't like me. He said he liked me, but he had people he couldn't let go. And that's how we broke up.

    Now we talk when we meet, and I don't pretend to be sad in front of him, because I don't think I can let others see that I am sad, since we have all broken up, what is the use of me crying or being sad in front of him, he may sometimes feel annoyed. It's better to be happy in front of him. Maybe he'll think I don't really care about breaking up with him.

    But it doesn't matter, it's good to be friends with him. Although I still like him, I still want to reconcile with him. But everything went according to its course.

    It's good to lose a lover and have a friend. Sometimes I think of the feeling that he is inexplicably sad and wants to be with him. But I'm probably going to forget about him slowly.

    Together, we try to forget the people we like.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'd rather not have this kind of love! Although there will be a period of time when I can't let go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think, people still have to be able to afford it and put it low, there is no one in this world who can't do without anyone, why did you break up, I think you already know very well, even if you really have a chance to get back together, then I want to ask you, will you last long, do you think you and her will last long, I don't think. I'm sure she'll tell you another reason to break up. Don't expect more, expecting too much will only bring more disappointment, too much disappointment will only bring more pain to yourself, be free and easy, I believe you will be able to.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After the breakup, if the ex tells you to be friends, in fact, it is not the behavior of being friends at all, and it is more that they don't want to hurt you, but they are reluctant to break off the contact, and there is no emotion to drive you on. After a breakup, two people are not lovers, you can no longer claim to be an ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend with each other, do not accept the fact of breakup, and hope that the other party will take into account their own feelings. In fact, the current ex is helpless, and after breaking up, he hopes that each other will live well, no one owes anyone, and he is not resolute enough to break up with you and he doesn't want to have a little good for each other.

    The ex said that he would be friends with you after the breakup, and secretly he was also giving you the last chance, depending on whether you grasp it or not. If you are wandering, waiting, hoping to find a chance to get back together directly, it is impossible, you are still you. After the breakup, many people want to directly change the other party's decision, but they don't think about reflecting on themselves, but they don't change themselves to affect the other party, so they will make a mess of their own recovery.

    We must understand that most of the people who propose to continue to be friends after the breakup are the party who voluntarily breaks up, and it is often the party who is broken up who does not accept it. The initiative party offers to be friends only to comfort the other party, and it is rare for them to become friends. Of course, most of the above is the majority, there will also be some broken up parties will take the initiative to ask to be friends, this is to get the opportunity to get back together in the future, the second is that they may not love each other so much, and they feel that it is not appropriate, so they will be willing to accept the breakup, and the third is that although they still love each other very much, but because it is no longer possible, they have to let go and be friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think this is to avoid embarrassment, say polite words, after all, two people have had so many good memories, if they break up unhappily, it will be very embarrassing to meet in the future, so saying that sentence also means that two people break up peacefully.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friends are only contacted when they are in trouble, and they rarely contact each other in daily life. So being friends with you after a breakup is not a chance to give you a chance, it may just be to avoid embarrassment.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, since they have all broken up, they are destined to be the most familiar strangers, although there are also examples of being friends after a breakup and getting back together, but I don't believe this will happen to me, don't fall twice in the same place.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may just be the last scene, there are many people who say that they will be ordinary friends after breaking up, and there will be no further contact. I won't, because being an ordinary friend is a break from the previous relationship, why should you be friends after you have broken up, my friend is not short of you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think I should agree, since you really decided to break up, don't leave any thoughts for yourself, if you really love, there is really no way to be friends after breaking up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't agree to be friends because I feel that since we have broken up, it means that we can never go back to each other, and it is better not to contact each other again, being friends will only make each other more uncomfortable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think it's about giving me a chance, I think it's a sign of disrespect for my feelings, since we're all separated. So why continue to be together?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why did you break up?

    There are two possibilities:

    You hurt your girlfriend very badly, but your girlfriend still loves you very much, but I hope you can change it, depending on your situation, and then decide whether to continue with you. Then you can change it first and then mention the reconciliation with her.

    There is no major mistake, and she broke up inexplicably, then she doesn't love you at all, but she is sometimes empty and lonely and cold, and there is a person who comes and goes at the moment, and no one will lose it.

    I guess you are in the second case, if you are young, then even if you guard her so silently, or try to chase her, she will not be moved. You might as well cool her down for a while, try to pretend to be chasing other girls, and see how she reacts.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To put it bluntly, you are the spare tire. The identity of the boyfriend is left to someone else. Tell you not to think about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Break up, just cut off contact, remember that it is impossible to be friends with your ex-girlfriend, it will be unfair to your future girlfriend, and she also has friends, there is no need for you to comfort or whatever, the breakup must be clean!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    She wants to drop you, and she knows that she will find another one, so she will not contact you at all.

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