I realized that I didn t have a topic with my classmates

All right! Actually, I think you're too nerdy!

As far as it is now said, universities are all mixed diplomas!

The main thing is to build relationships!

Relationships in college are important!

Maybe I can help you in the future!

You can try this to learn more about what they are interested in, depending on whether you are willing to do it, if you don't want to do it, it will be difficult for you to get along with everyone. Whether you dare to be interested or not, I think you have to try to understand something. It's not that you should write it down deeply, but you need to get a general idea!

At that time, there will be no embarrassing scene where people don't know how to mention the topic, people are not interested in the topic you bring up, and you can't find the topic when you don't have a topic!

Regarding communication, especially the people around us, my point of view is that first of all, we must remember that everyone has their own aspirations, and we must not force ourselves to do what we do, and at the same time we should pay attention to what the people around us are thinking, as well as their ways of dealing with people and considering problems, so that we can "know ourselves and know the other" and prescribe the right medicine. When chatting with others, try to report the topic around others, people like to be noticed! If you are not familiar with him and want to have a good relationship, you must find the opportunity to extend an olive branch, that is, to lose no time in helping him when he needs help!

Usually meet someone appropriate to say hello, greetings, to show that he cares about him very much, so that people will feel that he has a place in your heart, and will pay attention to you......It's all a mutual process! Being good to others will not be in vain!

Personally, I don't think this can be said to be the reason for this, it's a matter of time, as long as you have been in contact with your classmates for a long time, you will slowly find that you have a common language, and of course, you can't wait for other students to communicate with you first, communicate with them before communicating with them, everything in college is about taking the initiative. We must have a good grasp of proportion.

You should now learn about interpersonal communication in your spare time, and you should be in contact with any kind of person!

You can also go to the library and check out books on communication.

You can also look for humorous and funny topics!!

It's also relaxing, find something that interests you, cultivate a hobby, and you can find like-minded people.

You can induce them to talk about what you're good at.

It means that you don't know each other well enough so it will feel a little awkward, and you can take the initiative to talk to him about some hobbies and hobbies, in case you have a common hobby.

I feel that your academic performance may not be very good, you should change your own concepts, focus on your studies and the difficulties encountered in learning with your classmates, so that you can improve.

If there is no other topic, then you can choose to listen to others first, in daily life, listening is also very important, over time, many people will be willing to share their inner thoughts with you.

Same question!! Like you, it may be that you inadvertently turn others off, or you don't do anything that others think too much.

Details, what kind of person are you, how do you get along with your classmates, what grade are you in?

Either you're too long-winded like an adult, or you're too introverted, or you can't find common topics.

Me too, in fact, you are not cheerful and unsociable.

Everyone has their own opinions, and they may not know how to appreciate it.

Hehe, after I studied in college for a year, the girls in the class couldn't even name them, in fact, the main time was spent on weekends with high school classmates, and the boys, everyone lived in the dormitory, that is, they didn't usually play together much, but there were times when they chatted or borrowed things at night, so they naturally became familiar with it faster, and then gradually became familiar with the classmates, including girls, and I think the reason for this is inseparable from participating in more class activities.

There is a causal relationship here, because it is very unfamiliar, so it feels like there is no topic, so I don't go to contact, then it will definitely be very unfamiliar all the time, but on the contrary, it is very strange at first, but if you communicate with everyone more, participate in more class activities, whether it is playing or some more serious activities, as long as everyone is together, you will always get familiar with it faster, others will know your personality, will understand your strengths, and at the same time, you will be the same with your classmates, and you will naturally have a topic. In fact, this also involves the problem of a class atmosphere, if most of the students in the class can be integrated, advance and retreat together, the relationship between classmates to build an atmosphere will make you quickly integrate into this circle, otherwise everyone usually does not care about anyone, naturally everyone will feel strange, this is everyone's contribution, if the atmosphere of your class can be quickly established, then your college life will feel very warm.

What you have to do now is to actively participate in and even organize class activities on a regular basis, this is an opportunity for people to get to know you, and it is also the beginning of your understanding of everyone, of course, these are based on your willingness to mingle with everyone, but now that you ask this question, it is obvious that you have this desire. However, in general, as the above said, don't be in a hurry, take your time, go with the flow, if someone in the class proposes to go to which class to go on the weekend, raise your hand in favor first, don't care if you have time that day, if there is a basketball game or badminton game in the class this week, you can participate, don't care if you are good at it.

Can't? There's nothing you don't dare, it's just that you don't do it.

It's okay to look at a joke, it's okay to call a joke, everyone never recognizes it, and everything is difficult at the beginning. I'm also a bit of an introvert, so it's good to talk a lot.

It's okay, there are more activities with everyone, and I will gradually get familiar with it, so it will take time. Don't be anxious, don't be too high if you can't let go of yourself, just be yourself.

Love everyone as turnip and cabbage.