What to do when a wife looks down on her husband?

As a husband, if you can coax. If you spoil your wife, then you care more about all aspects. Care and considerate her to make up for her own shortcomings, her mouth is sweeter, in short, everything revolves around her wife and she is the center, so that she will definitely be able to get the heart of the old, and she may become gentle and lovely, and make up for her shortcomings with her strengths.

I think in the end the couple will be happily married. Harmonious.

I feel that a woman's strength is the strength of the surface, any woman wants to find an excellent man to rely on, even if a woman can hold up half the sky, wisdom is outstanding, but a woman without a man, her courage is still limited, her heart is still empty, and she can't count on a man, so she feels that she looks down on a man.

Married life is a process in which husband and wife support each other. It is obvious that the strong person can tolerate the faults of outsiders, but cannot tolerate the slightest bit of bad behavior of his own spouse, and the reason for this is a strong dissatisfaction with real life.

The wife is too strong, she is superior to her husband in all aspects, and the husband does not control his strength, so first find his own shortcomings and defects. ‍‍

If this is the case, I think it will make this family conflicted, and it will definitely end up being broken, so as your wife, you must know how to support, believe and encourage your husband, and it will be better.

First of all, you have to understand what is the reason for looking down on you. Find the reason, correct it and solve it.

In married life, any party who is too strong is a cancer of marriage. The comprehensive reason is that the understanding of marriage is too superficial.

First of all, you should adjust your mentality and let yourself improve this ability.

What happens if a wife looks down on her husband? In marriage, the woman is too strong and often looks down on her husband will have a very bad impact, which will lead to a man's inferiority complex, and he will retreat and escape when he encounters a little problem, which will also make the husband more and more afraid of his wife, which is not conducive to the formation of the marital relationship, and even leads to the breakdown of the marriage. Of course, there is also a possibility that the husband is belittled by his wife, driven by a strong heart, and finally makes a difference and goes to the peak of life.

1. Make men more and more inferior, and even slump

In marriage, a man is often disliked by his wife, counted, and looked down upon, and after a long time, the man will wonder if he is really cowardly and incompetent as his wife said, and slowly he will become more and more inferior, and he will choose to escape when he encounters a little setback in life and work. After all, every time I encounter difficulties, my wife's negative words about myself will fill my ears: You coward, you are really useless, you can't do anything well, and you will ......be poor for the rest of your lifeOver time, men can really become sluggish.

Anyone who gets along needs to give each other a little praise and encouragement, and the same is true in marriage, couples should see each other's points more, and help each other when they are in trouble, no one wants to hear some words that deny themselves all day long.

2. Men have worked hard since then and reached the pinnacle of life

The wife often looks down on her husband, and there is also a possibility that the husband takes his wife's words to heart, and the man with strong self-esteem will change himself, live a personal life, and make achievements to impress his wife. Due to the daily supervision of his wife, men work hard to change and improve themselves, pay attention to their image, improve their work ability, get promotions and salary increases, or start a business as a boss, earn a lot of money to give their wives and children a better life, and then become better and better, and since then they have reached the pinnacle of life.

3. Marriage splitting and destroying the relationship between husband and wife

A man is often denied by his wife, and usually can't bear to say anything, but one day it all breaks out and becomes out of control, all his dissatisfaction with his wife is poured out, and even does things that hurt his wife and children, after all, people's patience has a limit, and I don't know when it will break out.

The relationship between husband and wife for many years will also be broken because of the wife's contempt for her husband, so women still have to give their husbands some face, and they can't do too much, especially in front of friends, save some face for their husbands, men are good and dignified, and they can't stand your repeated counts.

4. It has an impact on the child's personality and the formation of three views

The original family has a great influence on the child, if the mother often counts down the father and scolds the father for being a waster, he will feel that the father is really useless in his heart, and the attitude of the wife towards the husband also determines the child's attitude towards the father. It may also be because of the constant quarrels of the parents, the personality becomes untalkative and autistic, which directly affects the child's three views and personality. Only when husband and wife are loving and have a positive outlook can they cultivate a filial and sunny child.

Parents should create a good environment for their children to grow up, pass on positive energy, and do a good job of correct guidance.