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You tell her, this is the principle, tell her well!! Don't be like this in the future, if you can't do it, you won't take her with you in the future, respect each other's feelings, whatever you want at home, you must give your husband face outside, no matter what, happy or unhappy, right or wrong can't damage your husband's face.
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When she is at home, she should be taught more what to say and what not to say. A man needs self-esteem and face outside, he would rather you go home and punish him for what to do, but in front of his friends, you can't not give him face anyway, if even his wife doesn't give him face, his friends will say this: What kind of man is he who can't even manage his wife!
He's too much of a failure!
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For this question, I personally think that for whatever reason, I don't think he loves you enough. The people who love you will definitely respect you and the people you love. However, everyone may think differently, and your husband may just not notice some of his actions or disrespectful behaviorHere are a few things you can try to see if you can change the situation:
Talk to your husband about this。If you think his behavior is disrespectful to you, you can bring it up to him in person, ask him why he is doing it or say something like that, and directly point out to him that his behavior is already disrespectful.
Think about whether there is something on your side that you don't live with him or don't respect him. In fact, if it is not a person who is so natural, there must be a certain reason why he does this, respect is mutual, and everyone should respect others when they want to be respected.
Communication is very important in marriage, and after marriage, it is not just between the two of you, but between two families. If you think that the other party is inappropriate, you should bring it up with the other party in time, and don't figure it out yourself. In this case, you communicate directly with him, say your thoughts, and let him put forward his opinions, and finally hope that you can solve this problem in time and go on happily together.
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Outside, in other people's homes, in front of other friends, the wife needs to give face to her husband.
Marriage is not easy, it is easy for two people to love each other, but it is difficult to get along. Two people in love are good at camouflage, maybe when they are in love, dopamine secretion is flourishing, and their eyes are already blind, and they automatically see through the shortcomings, and after marriage, they are with a magnifying glass, which can magnify small shortcomings by 10 times, 20 times, and even more, it becomes a microscope; -
Men feel that outside, their wives must give themselves face and don't talk about their shortcomings or mistakes.
As for women, when they want to talk, when they are depressed, when they are in a bad mood, in front of people they know very well, they inevitably complain about their men.
What about you? Xiaoyi basically only says good things, not that he likes to tell, and he thinks that if he thinks that Lao Rotten Min Gong ** has a problem, it is good to communicate with him privately, and life still has to live. Talking about his shortcomings will not solve the problem at all, but will increase the laughing stock.
This is uncertain, and everyone's opinion is different.
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