Am I right to treat my best friend like this? Is it good for a friend of mine to do this to me?

It can be seen that you care about him a lot, but I think your "cool words" may be taken seriously by her, and maybe this is the main reason for your breakup. Sometimes when we want to be noticed, we do things that others don't understand or don't understand, but your purpose is very simple.

Here I think you have two things to do at the moment

First: Don't say anything cool. Talk to him, but you can't involve his feelings, after all, this is still his personal private matter, but you must talk to find out the reason for the misunderstanding or estrangement between you.

Second: If, after you have done the first thing, you have not reverted to your previous relationship, then it is possible that he does not value you to such an extent, then I suggest that it is not a bad choice to go on with the stalemate.

If it's the former, then you talk to her calmly, and believe that she will understand you, if it's the latter, then I can only say that everyone has their own freedom, if it's really a good friend, don't be afraid of being ignored, because everyone tacitly has a good faith in friendship Everyone is a good friend

Suit oneself. Shunqi naturally develops.

Everyone has their own ideas! You just don't care about what he does!

Although you have been playing for a long time, it feels like you are no longer friends everywhere, so please part decisively.

play for a long time", indicating that this friend was still a very good and worthy person to associate with before, so he could "play for a long time".

Now "I feel that the belt is degrading you" means that the person has changed for various reasons. Either because of profits, or because you like the new and hate the old, or because you don't understand one of your mistakes, and so on. Since he no longer respects you, you are not worthy of continuing to associate with him, "there is no grass in the world", and friends who are not sincerely equal to each other but "belittle" are better than not.

I once had a friend who usually had a better relationship than his own brothers. Others envied us and called us "gay". In short, the two often talk about everything together, and often drink and chat together. When he was sick, I was also worried and went to the hospital many times.

But then he moved to another place and made new friends. Once when we were playing together, he was very unfriendly to me in front of others, and even lost his temper, which made me feel unreasonable. Although I did not argue with him on the spot, I have not been in contact with him since that day.

Someone said: "A friend is the person who always protects you in front of others, and a friend is a person who wants to share even a little touch, a little thing." ”

If friends do not treat each other as equals, care for each other, respect and support, but "belittle everywhere", such "friends" are no longer friends.

The acquaintance of people is important in knowing each other; The most important thing for people to know each other is to know each other. In terms of making friends, the ancients paid attention to not going against the heart, so they made friends with each other. Otherwise, break up earlier and find another soulmate.

Friends are the stations in the journey of life, and such platforms connect the ups and downs of our journey. Each station has its own unique scenery, and maybe it can have its own story or the stupid reeds are poignant.