How to further win his favor with you

First of all: show that you don't hate him, but you don't like him very much, this trick is called wanting to get away with it!

Secondly, of course, you can give him your mobile phone number, but at the beginning he gave you a short note, you don't want to reply to all of them, let him feel anxious, will it make him feel that your heart may not be here with him (at least he has to work hard), but pay attention to the key text messages must be returned!

And last but not least, he offered to ask you out, and you must say: Another day, I don't have time right now.

And then wait for the next time to say yes, it's not too late!

But you have to show that you care about him once in a while! For example, when chatting with your classmates, you can protect them properly!

Tell me when you succeed!

Don't go around like that.

He's going to take it well.

It's better to vaguely let him know that you are also a little interesting to him.

Feelings are sometimes very simple, if you like it, you can grasp it, since you like it, why don't you want the other party to know? Can't get over face? Is face or love important? It's up to you to decide.

If you are a woman, your words and topics are especially important when chatting with the opposite sex. After all, when men don't understand you, your conversations tend to reflect emotional intelligence. So, saying these four sentences in the process of chatting with a man will make the man feel more good about you and hope it will help you.

The first sentence: You seem approachable on the surface, but it is difficult for ordinary people to enter your heart is the key to unlocking the topic of conversation with men, which will make men feel that you are lonely with him. A person will naturally get tired after pretending for a long time, and if you say this to a man, he will have a reason to take off his mask.

Because your words are telling a man that you are willing to be a woman who walks into his heart. Naturally, he will not refuse to continue talking to you. You don't know how hard it can be for someone who closes their hearts :

They may no longer believe in love because of their lover's betrayal; They may be afraid to establish contact with the outside world because of the damage caused by their families; Or perhaps they tried to open up to others, only to be met with ruthless deception and betrayal. So, when talking to a man, don't open his scars and let him know that you mean it.

Sentence 2: You are a person who knows how to be content, but you still feel that your life is not happy enough. However, this does not affect the man's affection for you, but will add points to your conversation.

Why? Because there's nothing wrong with making men feel like you understand their inner desire for perfection, but if it's presented on the outside, it will inevitably give people a sense of pressure. This is not the kind of grandchild that men want.

So, your words will aptly express a man's ambition: self-motivated, hard-working, wanting to succeed......There is no discomfort and it also creates a harmonious atmosphere for talking to each other.

Sentence 3: I think you have a lot of ideas, you don't conform easily, but you always like to get into the horns of the bull At this point, I think you have had a more in-depth conversation with the man, and then you can point out the man's shortcomings in a reasonable way. Of course, first of all I agree that a man is a person with his own opinions, and then I point out the small shortcomings of his "like to get into the corner", which will make him feel that you are trying to understand with your heart in a short time, like a confidant who hates to meet late.

Because not everyone will point out your shortcomings, praise will feel too deliberate, and this is not the effect that social networking should achieve. When saying this, don't worry about men who will have an opinion about you. After all, their hearts are more tolerant than women's.

On the contrary, their generosity can be shown by chatting with you, and it is too late for them to be happy.

Sentence 4: Although you always pretend to be strong, I know that you also want to be taken care ofThe last sentence naturally rises to the level of caring for men. No matter who you are, you have a fragile child in your heart, but some are not awakened.

When you see through a man's strength and say this in a caring tone, the man will be moved. Because under the influence of this social environment, the outside world only cares about whether men fly high or not, and few people care about whether men are tired or not. Your words hit the nail on the head and speak to a man's need for love.

Men will naturally have a crush on you, how can they refuse you to continue chatting?

Of course, it is necessary to be more considerate of the other party and talk more about topics that everyone is interested in, so as to double the favorability of the other party.

I am so messy, I personally think that if you want the other party to instantly increase your favorability, at this time you must make yourself better, become more independent, and let the other party learn to appreciate your friend's early file.

The first point is that you must have a very temperamental and sharp charm, so that the source base belt can make the other party have a good impression of you, the second point is that you must look very individual, have characteristics, hail is so particularly perfect, the third point is that you must have that kind of beautiful moment, so that the other party can like you.

I want to make him instantly feel good about you. I think it's more that he sees that you are very kind, and you know how to understand others, and you know how to think about things from other people's standpoints.

You must show your best side, and you must be blind or do more things and talk less, and you must understand good luck and be thoughtful when you speak, so as to leave a good friend Liang Xiang to the other party.

When you go on a date with him, you must dress very nicely, and when you can't hold something, you must ask him to help you carry it.

<> "Make the "scales" in your heart smaller, and you can be appreciated by others.

Hot and cold water effect: A glass of warm water, keeping the temperature constant. There is also a glass of cold water, a cup of hot water.

When you put your hands in cold water and then warm water, you will feel warm water; When you put your hands in hot water and then warm water, you will feel the warm water cool. With the same glass of warm water, two different sensations appear, which is the hot and cold water effect.

Joe Girard, known as "the world's greatest salesman", sells almost 100 cars a month, and is deeply appreciated by his boss. For a while, due to the economic crisis, Joe Girard expected to sell only 60 cars next month, so he told his boss: "The market has been sluggish recently, and I estimate that I will only be able to sell 40 cars this month."

The boss was not satisfied, but agreed. A month later, Joe Girard sold 70 cars, much to the surprise of his boss.

Through the "hot and cold water effect", we can know.

1. In interpersonal communication, we should be good at using this hot and cold water effect to improve our interpersonal relationships and smart our lives.

2. When you encounter something bad, you might as well tell others the worst situation in advance.

3. When you accidentally hurt someone, you may want to apologize more than you should.

4. When we can't control the objective environment, we can adjust the size of the "scale" in our hearts and let ourselves live happily.