My boyfriend and I don t know what to do now, and we got into an argument every few days5

Relatives are unreasonable, familiar are unreasonable".Solution: 1 It is better for two people not to work together. 2. Find your own problems and respect each other.

Men are careless animals, and if your heart is too careful, they will be endlessly worried about everything with you, so are you still considered a man? I think it's good for men to be a little bigger, but your boyfriend may be too face-saving, so the dish says so.

Make yourself better and better

First of all, you don't have to think about how to get along with him every day.

Spend all your time taking care of yourself.

Be a beautiful woman.

Even if one day he really doesn't want you anymore

At least you didn't become a yellow-faced woman because of him at that time.

And don't keep telling him "you're leaving".

It doesn't make sense to say too much.

Because he knows and knows you too well as a person.

Know that you can't leave at all.

Even if you leave, you will come back by yourself.

That's what he caught you.

That's why I ignore you

Make your life fuller

Spend more time with friends

Let him do whatever he wants

Anyway, in the end, he will understand if he loses himself.

than you nagging in his ear all day long.

This effect is much better.

Don't let him think that you can't live without him

You have to let him know

Without you, I would still be alive and well!

And of course, while doing this, you have to at least learn to be sensible and respectful.

Maybe it was wrong to get old from the beginning.

If it's not good, leave him, get married and divorced.

Hello, if two people quarrel halfway through the quarrel and find out that the boyfriend is right and you are wrong, then don't quarrel anymore. Because he is not right, if he continues to quarrel, it means that he does not understand the reason at all. In this way, the boyfriend will feel that he has found a girlfriend who is so ignorant, and he is obviously wrong, and he keeps quarreling with himself.

In this case, you should choose to stop, stop quarreling, and when you want to communicate with your boyfriend about your mistakes, you should admit your mistakes, and the two people should be honest with each other. Wrong is wrong. Because no one is perfect, there will be shortcomings, since you choose to be together, you must know how to understand and tolerate each other, whether you are wrong or he is wrong, you must tolerate each other's shortcomings.

If you're wrong, you should say it and let your boyfriend know that you're wrong and you're sorry. Whoever is wrong must admit their own mistakes and their own shortcomings. Two people should be considerate of each other when they are together.

Learn to empathize. Relationships last.

If you find that your boyfriend is right in the middle of a quarrel, shut up immediately, stop arguing with him, arouse his anger, let him calm down slowly, and then you can apologize to him carefully.

Hello, as a girl who is still in love, when she quarrels with her boyfriend halfway through, she finds that her boyfriend is right, and she must continue to quarrel, during the relationship, girls are not allowed to admit their mistakes to their boyfriends!

I've also encountered such a situation, arguing and arguing, and suddenly found that what he said was so reasonable, as if I was a little unreasonable.

I'll start to cry a little bit. The purpose is twofold, the first is to attract his attention, and stop being immersed in the state of convincing me with logic. The second is also a kind of atmosphere transformation.

From the previous tension and intensity, switch to a slow-paced and sensual environment. When couples quarrel, it shouldn't be a debate competition, but about feelings.

I have to make myself a little weaker, let him change from the identity of the opponent of the debate to the identity of the boyfriend, and arouse the desire to protect, so that he will care about my feelings and admit that he may also be wrong. At the same time, they must also express their grievances and their own thoughts, and the two of them should explain their thoughts openly and honestly.

This kind of quarrel will not hurt feelings, everyone can also straighten out the logic of the quarrel to avoid similar things from happening next time, and the other party also knows that you are a girl who is willing to admit mistakes, be reasonable, and have cuteness.

Half of the quarrel can find that you are wrong, which means that you are a clear and open person, not a person who stirs up unreasonably, and finds that your boyfriend is right and you are wrong, you should relieve the atmosphere of the scene in time and give him the next step, such as"Oh, I was wrong, I didn't think it ,... way"。This will not only not hurt the relationship between the two, but also often enhance the depth of mutual understanding and make them more heart-to-heart.

My friend Lin Lin is a very rational girl on weekdays, and when she was in college, she used to be the leader of the school debate team, and she was very organized in her speech and deeds.

The relationship between her and her boyfriend has always been very good, but sometimes the two of them will quarrel because of disagreements, and every time they quarrel, Lin Lin will rely on her strong output to make her boyfriend speechless.

Until one time, she encountered Waterloo and quarreled, and she suddenly realized that this time her boyfriend's idea was right.

At that moment, she was in a hurry and said to her boyfriend:

I'm sorry, I'm angry right now, but I'm angry with myself, I think you're right, why didn't I think of that? It's true that you're more thoughtful, and I've been arguing with you for so long. ”

After this set of combinations, her boyfriend will apologize to her, reflect on the fact that he didn't make it clear just now, and then the two of them happily reconcile.

At this time, you should laugh, touch his head when you are done, thank you for being by my side, even if I am wrong, you still haven't left.

Hold the man's ticket and ask for forgiveness, and kiss him, have the courage to admit his mistakes, and think it through. Cook something for him in the evening.

It's okay to apologize. Respecting each other is not love, love is heartache, it is petty, it is undisguised, it is unreasonable, it is soaking water and laughter.

If two people have different views, they will have disputes and quarrels, even if they know that their views are not right and they can't put it down, they can say that they are tired of arguing, and they can talk about it later when they are calm.

Then take the initiative to admit your mistakes, it is normal for two people to have disputes, but it is not normal to know your mistakes and not change them.

coquettishly said to him: I'm sorry, I didn't understand it comprehensively, or you're right, don't be angry.

Then lie coquettishly, say the grievances, at this time, the man will naturally not care about you.

You can say why you're angry, then explain your misunderstanding of him and apologize to him.

Then go and apologize, cherish, and coax him.

Just give him a staircase down.

Since you know that it is wrong for you to do this, why not admit your mistake and lower your tough posture.

Then I didn't understand it just now, but now I understand what you say.

If you are a coquette, it's almost fine.

He's angry and you're angry, perfect, the person who coaxes you loves you, the person who doesn't coax you, hurry up, you don't run, I shovel the forklift, you run, poof, haha.

Say something nice and coax.

This is because the other person is in a bad mood, or because the other person no longer loves you, or because the other person already has a new love.

Because there is a problem with the way the two of you get along, and you rarely communicate and don't get along, you always quarrel.

It may be because two people have different personalities, so there will be a lot of contradictions.

Summary. Hello, dear. Your boyfriend ignores you for ten days because your boyfriend doesn't think it's his fault, he thinks it's your fault, so he won't apologize.

If you really like him, you can't wait for him to come to you so passively, otherwise you may lose him after a long time. Sometimes you can't be too willful, and you have to take the initiative to reconcile with him.

Hello, dear. Your boyfriend ignored you for ten days because your boyfriend didn't think it was his fault, and he didn't apologize because he thought it was your fault, and he didn't look for you for so long, which also means that he is still angry with you. If you really like him, you can't wait for him to come to you so passively, otherwise you may lose him after a long time.

Sometimes you can't be too willful, and you have to take the initiative to reconcile with him.

But I don't want to bow my head, is there a way to let him come to the teacher, hello, I don't want to bow my head, is there no way to let him come to me.

Hello, dear. You can ask his friends for help to persuade him.

He doesn't care about me that much.

Hello, dear. The fact that your boyfriend didn't take the initiative to contact you after a quarrel doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore, maybe he just pretends to be still angry, and in his heart, he hasn't turned the corner yet, so he won't take the initiative to defend you.

I don't know how long he will be angry, whether he will break up with me like this.

Hello, dear. The two of you should have incompatible personalities, and your temper is strong, and no one is willing to deal with anyone after a quarrel, and the wrong party will not admit that it is wrong.

Teacher, I'm not sure if he's angry or breaking up right now.

Hello, dear. In fact, you are angry with each other now, and you both think that the other party can take the initiative to take the first step out of the nuclear disturbance and bow your head to each other, but this is actually not a good model for the Xiangbian clan. You can try to find him and give him a staircase to go down.

The Cold War is a common thing, and not contacting him now can give both sides time to reflect on it, but seeing that he is so busy, I don't know if he will think about it. Regardless of him, let's talk about you, since you have chosen the Cold War, you must stick to it to the end. Don't take the initiative to contact him, as soon as you take the initiative to contact him, he will feel that you can't do without him, and you will be at a disadvantage in love.

And he is busy, you can be busier than him, arrange your own time, exercise or go out with friends, after a long time, he will not have so much weight in your heart. Although the man may feel sluggish, he will feel that you are less dependent on him and a little detached. He loves you and communicates with you.

But the premise of doing all this is that you want to be happy yourself. Don't feel like you're taking revenge on him or anything. As long as you're happy, does it matter if you have him or not?

My boyfriend and I had a long cold war for 10 days, and no one paid attention to anyone. I was very upset, but I put up with it, and eventually he messaged me. At that time, I wanted to think about it and just say a word to you.

Later, we reconciled, it turned out that my boyfriend was also a person who didn't like to talk, and then I was always "reasonable" when we quarreled, and he was forced by me to take the initiative to communicate with me.

Come on, everything will be fine, everything will pass. Set boundaries for yourself, how far you can tolerate him, and how far you can tolerate him. Don't blindly indulge yourself, let alone blindly accommodate him.

It's awkward with my boyfriend, he ignores me, what should I do, about this matter, it may be a thing that we will inevitably encounter in the process of love, this matter is not necessarily a bad thing, because there are opportunities in the risks, right? As long as you can break through the deadlock in the relationship, you can turn the crisis into peace and warm up the relationship, and if you can't see it, you may lose the protection of safety and expose yourself to danger.

Ask if I'm powerless.

Answer: How do you feel at this moment? I suggest that we start with the specifics, shall we? You don't have to label yourself as vexatious as soon as you come up, maybe

If you can, can you tell me the story between you and him? I'll be here to listen to your romance with him

Well, from your story, I will hear that it seems that you will have some sadness and sadness, and then you will feel some self-blame and doubt about whether you have really done something wrong? Is it? Ask the right question.

AnswerSo it seems that we ourselves feel very bad about this, at such a moment, in fact, we say something to our boyfriend that may not be appropriate, maybe it's just that our state and mood are not very good, or something happens that makes us feel bad, and we want the other person to see us, not really want to quarrel or something, right?

Ask the question: Yes. Answer: Well, when we did this in the past, our boyfriend would come to see our emotions and sadness, but it seems that this time, the situation is a little different, and the other party does not meet us and care about us again, so this time, in your opinion, what will be different from those conflicts or quarrels in the past?

Thank you for talking to me so much, it seems that we haven't talked about the specific causes and phenomena yet, so there may be some information about what we need to do next, so, if you will, I think we can continue to explore and help ourselves, okay?

It seems that this conflict between you and your boyfriend is still relatively large, and it has also caused some damage to each other's feelings, if we don't understand and communicate in time, it may not be the best choice for you, or him, so I hope to continue the discussion with you, or, if you want a deeper understanding, you can also use voice services, which may be more helpful

First: bow your head and apologize. It is best not to stay overnight when two people quarrel, no matter who wins the quarrel, it will hurt the feelings, so after the couple quarrels, one party should pull down the neck and apologize in time, or give the other party a hug, a kiss, and the relationship will be reconciled as before. 2/6

Second: Give the other person steps. If you feel embarrassed and don't want to apologize directly, you can cook a delicious meal for the other party, or buy the other party what he is used to, and you can also take the initiative to help the other party wash clothes and other small things to give the other party a step. 3/6

Third: both sides are calm. If the quarrel is more intense and the matter is more complicated, it is recommended that both parties calm down for a while and consider whether the relationship between the two parties is suitable and whether they should continue to move on. 4/6

Fourth: Conduct a cold war. If the quarrel is too much for the boyfriend, you can snub him for a while to see if he cares about you, whether he has you in his heart, whether he cares about you, and if the boyfriend didn't say anything during the Cold War, then consider breaking up. 5/6

Fifth: Friend mediation. You can find friends who know both parties and communicate more on weekdays to enlighten both parties, so that both parties can think of each other's good, realize what they are doing wrong, and better improve themselves. 6/6

Sixth: Consider breaking up. If the quarrel is due to a matter of principle, or if the boyfriend hits someone during the quarrel and says insulting things during the argument, it is better to consider breaking up.