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I don't think this man is rational or irrational anymore, I feel like he doesn't love you very much. Rationality does not mean indifference, rational people are just very calm and comprehensive in their analysis, and they will unconsciously see through the essence of the problem when they are thinking. At the beginning of love, I think the biggest difference between rational and irrational people is the assessment of risk.
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That's because he loves himself more than he loves others! The foundation of his love for anyone is based on what the other person can bring him! If the other party can meet all his needs from all angles, then he will definitely love each other very much, sorry, I have never believed that you are such a person.
However, time has passed and I really have to admit this fact.
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To say that a man is rational depends on his attitude towards work. Work hard, be good at observing, summarizing and analyzing problems, not rash or even a little conservative, not easily draw conclusions, don't say much, don't complain, but have a clear heart, such a man can be said to be more or less rational. If the love that this man has received from his mother since he was a child is healthy, then he will most likely maintain this rationality at work in love, even if the woman in front of him is his first love, he loves very, very much, he will never be carried away by the fiery love, and tell her that he wants to get married at an inappropriate time.
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A man who treats love as a job rationally, can do this, he must have experienced love before, know what love is all about, and all the events that men use to express romance, he has done some of them, and then he is unwilling to do it again. Why, because rational people always look at things from the perspective of solving problems, that is, they don't need to do anything deliberately when there is no problem.
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Now, we're married. After 7 years together, such a rational and calm person, when my stomach hurts, he will not ask me to drink almighty hot water, he will not leave me alone when he plays games, and flowers and gifts will be given on special days. Then you will understand how precious these things are from a man who has principles at heart.
When his flowers can be sent to thousands of people, what is there to be moved by when you hold one of the thousands of flowers? Be brave to love, and you won't be crushed if you fail. You've loved, you've understood, you've become more beautiful and better in the process, you've perfected yourself, and what kind of man is there for you in the end, who cares?
How good you are in the end, how good the person you get will be, you know what I mean?
Eventually, you will understand that, after all, there are no unearned feelings or even anything else in this world.
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In high school, when my autonomy was not yet fully established, I could still love, cry and laugh with my weak emotions, and I was fortunate to meet someone I will never forget for the rest of my life. She has accompanied me through the years of youth and ignorance and such beauty, which will become a rich and profound memory of my ignorant love. And now, with the establishment of his own values and the landing of his life direction, there is more and more a feeling of losing the ability to love.
I can still easily catch up with girls, but it's hard for me to keep myself motivated.
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There are still personality differences between men and women, for example, men are relatively rational, while women are relatively emotional. Therefore, in a relationship, men are relatively more rational than emotional, and in some major matters, men will have more ideas. Therefore, I personally think that a man's rationality in his relationship is a manifestation of maturity and stability, which is a good phenomenon.
Therefore, if your boyfriend is very rational in a relationship, then it is not necessarily a bad thing.
You can't conclude that your boyfriend doesn't love you just because he's very rational. A man's love is an interweaving of sensuality and reason, but it is ultimately rational. If a couple is too emotional in their relationship, I believe the relationship will not last long.
Let's say you've been in a relationship for three years, you're about to get married, and your boyfriend is going to start preparing for a house, a car, and so on in order to marry you.
At this time, you are still asking for luxury gifts, and your boyfriend will most likely not satisfy you as before. The reason why he can't satisfy you all is naturally because he wants to use his money wisely. Marriage seems to be very simple in the eyes of women, and only the man will understand that all aspects of it need to be supported by money.
What is love? True love is to think from the other person's point of view, I think you should not think of your boyfriend's rationality as he doesn't love you anymore, but as he has grown up, and he wants your love to enter a new stage. If a man has always been sensual and has always been a big boy, this man can give you romantic love, but he can't give you a lifetime of stay, because you will gradually feel that he is too naïve.
Development in love should also be seen from the perspective of development, when you understand that love also has stages, and you must continue to make progress in each stage, then, you will develop a man rationally, there is nothing wrong with it!
If a man is very rational in love, love or not you need your comprehensive judgment, and male rationality in my opinion is a sign of maturity, stability and responsibility.
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It may be that they really love you, or they may not love you, because there are some boys who are very rational when they are in love, but they must be irrational occasionally, and if they are particularly rational all the time, they must not like you.
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Of course, it's love, because everyone behaves differently in love, and if he is such a rational person, then he will be with you, which means that he really likes you very much, and will also consider your life together to set up a good guarantee for your future.
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is really in love with you, because a person's rationality or not is related to his character, maybe his character has been like this since childhood.
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If a man is too rational in the process of falling in love, it actually means that he does not love the girl enough. It's really painful to face this kind of love experience, and this kind of thing happens all around us. Looking at their strong hearts, we also know how to love ourselves, and we don't need others to cherish ourselves at all.
There are a lot of rational people in life. There are many such rational people in life, and seeing these people is really unbearable, and I feel very excessive. I think you don't have to have someone to love, but you must know how to love her.
Reason is not something that people are born with. It's a skill that we acquire after going through something. Rational does not mean irrational.
Boys analyze problems and solve problems from the perspective of the essence of things, maybe they are not as satisfied as she is. Being too rational may even make the girl feel like she doesn't love him enough, like this one. But girls should not easily doubt whether a guy loves you because he chose you.
A man who is too rational about love does not necessarily mean that he does not love a girl enough. For some guys who have been through many relationships, it is impossible for them to put the same amount of energy into every similar relationship. Usually when the other person makes him more interested and makes him feel more challenging, he shows great care.
Many girls will feel that when their boyfriend is too rational, they always feel that he does not love themselves very much. In fact, it is true that most boys are overly rational because they don't love each other enough, but there are some exceptions.
People tend to see decisions made out of love as irrational results, and the loved ones come to conclusions that are completely different from their own interests. Obviously, what people tirelessly pursue is not the maximization of their own interests, but the maximization of the interests of others, because the values of others are contrary to the daily work of ordinary people. Under the appeal of self-sacrifice, you cannot know whether it is justified without looking at other people's tricks and plans.
Based on the criterion that man does not destroy heaven and earth for himself, it is natural to find that all stages of the self-sacrificing program are irrational.
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Yes. If this man is very rational in love, it means that he doesn't love deeply enough, it means that he doesn't love this girl enough, if it's true love, he will lose his mind, and he won't be particularly rational.
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No, because men's sanity is stronger than women's, and men are especially rational when they are in love, in order to give us a better love experience.
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It's not because this boy doesn't love him, but because this boy is a very scheming person who thinks a lot about a lot of things.
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It doesn't mean that there is not enough love, but because men are very rational in love, and they also like to think logically. So it's a common problem for men.
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I think yes, if a boy is very rational in love, it means that he doesn't love you enough, otherwise he will divide you and interests very clearly.
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No, this kind of performance is still based on the personality of the man, some men are naturally physiological, even if they are in love, they will not be impulsive, so it is not not enough to love.
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No, if a man is rational in love, it means that the man himself is a rational person.
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No, it's because they've been through a lot, so they've become very rational, which shows that they also want to have a better future with you.
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No, it's the nature of men, most men are still very rational and know what they want, so the goal is clearer.
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No, it's because men are rational at all times. They will weigh the pros and cons as well as the pros and cons when they do things.
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Yes, in fact, if a person is too rational, it means that they are not particularly in love in this relationship, so reason prevails.
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Indeed it is. Because if a man really loves this girl, he will be particularly impulsive.
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Yes, if you really love someone, he can't help but care about you and like you.
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If a man is too rational in the process of love, it means that he has never loved you from the beginning, because a person will only be extraordinarily rational when he is not in love, and it is impossible for anyone who falls in love with the other person to completely keep his mind in a rational state.
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It's just that he is sober-minded, very calm, not jealous, and not showing his thoughts, so that people can't guess.
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It means that a man is very rational about his feelings, they will not hurt any woman, they will not cheat on any girl, and they will always reason with them.
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If a boy who is too objective and rational can fully consider the general needs and psychological activities of ladies and even personal behaviors when falling in love, and create small cares and small attention that he feels unnecessary in a timely manner, that is to say, some ladies love to listen to words, so that women can clarify the affection of men for her, then rationality and sensibility can be extremely integrated.
The advantage of most objective and rational men in a relationship is that they are not easy to force you to have sex, and they are not easy to ignore bread for love. Objective and rational boys are very objective in everything they do, even in love. A man can balance emotions and other things very well and objectively and rationally, and he is very worthy of relying on!
Therefore, objective and rational men are very suitable for girls to get married, because they deal with feelings or work and other various things, they are generally an objective mentality, and the sense of mission is also stronger!
In fact, objectivity is a rare ability, because of objectivity, boys may not be easy to smoke and drink, not easy to play games and indifferent you; Because of objectivity, boys may be coaxing people to take leisure and plan everyone's future very early; Because of objectivity, men are not easy to speak ill of others when they have disagreements with you, and will take into account your differences with him and deal with them effectively.
But also because of objectivity, after a boy stops his loss in time one day, he will quietly leave his delicate girlfriend, and then find a girlfriend who is more suitable for his temperament.
Objectivity does not mean that they are ignorant of the world, and boys who will deal with objects can also be sober-minded and objective.
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Being too rational You will often quarrel with the person you like, and you don't think it's necessary, but the whole thing is that you are too straight to make the other person feel uncomfortable, even if you are acting out of a good attitude towards the other person.
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A man in love who is too rational will make people feel the existence of feelings, not quite like they are in a state of love.
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Fate is too shallow, so it is true that the gains outweigh the losses.
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Love cannot be rational, regardless of men and women. If you are too ideal, you will lose interest.
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A man is too rational about being in love, are you saying that he doesn't love a woman enough. This perception is, of course, wrong. Because planning for others and thinking about others is a very rational behavior in itself.
Providing service to others requires a whole process that includes observation, thinking, implementing, reflecting, enduring misunderstandings, taking credit, not boasting, admitting mistakes, forgiving, and providing service again. Each step in this requires a high degree of observation, a high degree of analytical ability, a firm will not to forget the original intention, and insight into the Mandarin scratches of your own hole.
would rather die and never change love, who can use such ruthless rationality to themselves. Even if the opposite sex almost has a crooked hand, it's not enough to catch the one in my heart I'm really at a loss, you end up losing my poisonous dragon. The poisonous dragon dyes his beloved the dirtiest, most vicious color, and is free enough to become the most hateful, damned person in the world, torn to a million pieces.
Love without reason is hard to imagine. Solve equations compared to the rationality required for love.
and the ability to calculate the mathematical deduction of the differential is not worth mentioning at all.
People tend to see decisions made out of love as the result of irrationality, and the loved ones come to very different conclusions from their own interests. Make it clear that what people diligently pursue is not to maximize their own interests, but to maximize the interests of others, because the values of others are themselves the opposite of the daily work of ordinary people. Under that call for self-sacrifice, you look at other people's tricks and plans, and you know whether you are rational or not.
By the criterion that man will not destroy heaven and earth for himself, it is natural to find all stages of the self-sacrificing plan irrational.
It's just that it is expressed in the evidence of being too rational and unloving, which means the basic way of thinking of man himself.
Still standing rational. i.e. rationality, i.e. self-management on the standard standpoint. Is this actually that the other party is too selfish and plans too well for himself, and doesn't love me enough.
Because if you love, isn't it beneficial to the original, why does the other person have self-interest everywhere, and it is a problem to plan well for yourself, because it becomes a problem, it means that you don't love. Since you don't love, regardless of whether the other person ultimately proves to love you, you'd better not stick to the relationship.
No, men don't like women who have never been in a relationship because they think they may be ignorant and inconsiderate, if you are a good girl, whether you have been in love or not will not stop them from pursuing you.
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