Does not being in a relationship in high school have an impact on my life in college and beyond?

Uh, this, I don't know what kind of mentality the subject has, do you think it will have any impact? Hahaha.

But when it comes to the current trend, I'm very unconvinced! Do you have to be in love? Are you proud to have been in a relationship for a lot?

Could it be that I can't keep up with the times anymore? When are people who haven't been in love often ridiculed, while those love masters always think they are proud to show off everywhere? Falling in love is not about fighting monsters, the more there are, the better ......

First of all, you shouldn't fall in love in high school, right? This is early love, and it was immature at that time, as the saying goes, early flowers can't bear fruit, if you hurt each other because of early love, it will have an impact on your future life.

Secondly, I think it's better to have less experience in love, and now everyone prefers cute and stupid simple feelings, so don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, only when you meet the person you really like, and then work hard to love, I think this is a meaningful love.

In the end, not being in a relationship in high school really has no impact on college and later life! People won't look at you differently just because you've been in a relationship in high school, and they won't think you're okay just because you haven't been in high school. In college, you can still find your own love, or you can start over.

Anyway, the past is gone, and whatever it is, it should not be carried forward to the present or the future. Every day that passes is a new beginning. Especially in love, whether you have been in love or not, this is in the past, the important thing is that the last person who can accompany you is not the one who has accompanied you for a while, isn't it?

Most people's first love is concentrated in their high school years, junior high school is too young, and the flower season age is just the flower season age of young boys and girls, people who are in love can't avoid having a good impression of each other during this period, so there may be a lot of people who have not been in love seriously in high school, but almost all people's love should be in high school!

Although high school is the best time for first love, in the era of exam-oriented education in China, all things related to learning should be banned, so the vast majority of high school students have never tried this thing! It just so happens that I'm one of the vast majority of poor single dogs. High school has been suppressed in the study and college entrance examination, no intention to pay attention to the people around them, even the better relationship of the girl was also sued by the head teacher, to affect the study as a warning to us far away, helpless to say goodbye to high school life as a single dog, so come to the university, when you come to the university you will find that the study skills you emphasize in high school do not seem to be so important, at this time you need to relearn the skills of communication and getting along with people!

The most important thing is that I don't know how to pursue the girl I like, and get along with the person I like, and whenever I see those popular compatriots, I always think for myself, should studying really be the whole of high school life?

The love experience in high school can expose you to the skills of getting along with people too early, integrate into the society faster, and enjoy life at the same age, rather than being full of study exams at the same age! And the purity of first love is everyone's only chance, if you miss it, you will lose a lot in life, so I still advocate doing the right thing at the right age!

It is not recommended, because the two have different knowledge, especially for high school students, it is unfair to be in ignorance with an old expired bacon who is about to step into society, and it is possible that the formation of your three views will be affected by him.

secondly, high school students fall in love, do not advocate or object, love is based on the premise that it does not affect their studies, and secondly, it is best to help each other in their studies; College students fall in love, this goes without saying! follow your heart！Don't say that the family doesn't give anything, and chase bravely when you meet someone you like (under the premise that the other party is single), but you must also understand the truth that it is better to lack than to abuse.

Love in high school is pure and does not be mixed with many impurities. Because it's you, I love you.

College love began to become impure, money, wealth, character, status began to dominate.

The difference between high school and college love is ideal and reality.

Love in high school may be more pure, there are few factors that affect it, there may only be time with company and time together and time thinking about him. and the attitude between you. All I can think about is how to be good to her and how to maintain this relationship.

College love may have added to the elements, but it was also more colorful. If you make an analogy, high school love is a piece of rock candy pure sweetness, and college love is like a piece of rainbow candy is colorful, but only you know the taste of each. It may be a financial burden, a psychological pressure, a pressure from parents, a social pressure, and all kinds of pressure may be on the heads of two people, just like the moment they are together.

It is to be the enemy of the whole world. But the sweetness of the heart may always support them, but there are really too many obstacles. I hope that a lover will eventually become a family.

Schoolmate. Hello! If let me say. High school and college students. are likely to fall in love. But this kind of love. Generally, it can only be the first love. It's hard to negotiate. In fact, it was negotiated. Half of college graduates are going to break up.

The reason is. None of my high school and college classmates are adults. I don't understand the situation in society.

When you are about to part; When you enter the social arena, you immediately realize it. None of this is realistic. It's easy to break emotionally.

Gone their separate ways.

Because you can't live without separation. It can only be found separately. Even if you find a job together, the possibilities are few and far between. So. First love is okay and unforgettable.

If you're happy with mine, be it.

It's all during the study period, and it's best to wait until the college entrance examination is over before starting to fall in love.

When you fall in love, you will take up a lot of your good time. Before the college entrance examination, time is precious! Take care of your studies, and this life is in the process of climbing in the college entrance examination learning stage. Spend your time in the month before you spend it, and after a few years, you'll feel like you're not worth the loss. ’

One is in college, the other is in high school, and it's not too late to talk after both of them enter college.

What do you think when someone gets an admission letter to a good university? Good results are accumulated slowly bit by bit.

Hope for yourself!

1. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.

The college period is the best period of human development, and in this period it is also a period when students should work hard to learn professional knowledge, and college students should focus on their studies, because learning is the main purpose of college students, and they must distinguish which is more important. But don't think that love is a stumbling block to your career, if handled well, love can also play a catalytic role in your career.

2. Be rational at all times in the process of falling in love.

Although college life is relatively relaxed, there is more free time, and it also provides college students with the convenience of making friends, so during this period, we must seize the opportunity to understand how to love in the right way to love, and at the same time learn to refuse when necessary, so that you can become more mature, but this does not mean that you have to do something out of the ordinary in the process of love, many girls give each other the first time in their lives, I don't think this is a wise choice, in reality there are still a lot of scumbags, Always remember this saying, "Online dating is risky, and investment needs to be cautious".

3. Have the courage to take responsibility and face reality.

In a relationship, both parties should understand each other, respect each other, take the initiative to take responsibility when encountering problems, and do not escape the difficulties of the relationship, the more you try to escape the problems in the relationship, it will lead to the accumulation of more and more problems, and finally the relationship will break down, so to solve it in time, if the other party does not take the initiative, you must dare to take responsibility, under your initiative, the other party will also be infected by you.

High school students still focus on the college entrance examination and study, and other lives are not impossible to have, but they all have to be postponed later, and your college life will be more exciting in the future.

What I want to express is that as long as this relationship is in place, college students do not delay the study time of high school students, and also give them positive energy to encourage and tutor their studies.

At the same time, under the premise of self-esteem and self-love on both sides, there is nothing wrong with falling in love, this is not early love, I think what everyone opposes and criticizes is not "early love" but the adverse consequences of most early love, delaying learning, not wanting to forge ahead, and some high school students are deceived, resulting in no self-esteem and self-love, which affects physical and mental health!

I personally support it, but the premise is the above, feel the beauty of love in advance, yes, after all, in adolescence, there are ignorant thoughts and longings for love, a correct and beautiful love, but it helps to learn and grow!

I envy a couple in my high school class, who walked together from the classroom to the cafeteria to eat together since the beginning of high school; They meet together to share the sweetness in the romantic place of cherry blossoms; They went on a tour of the mountains and rivers together after the holiday; They have a record of love growth every day......They are the men and women in love in each of our minds. Until graduation, they still loved the same as before, that year, the boy chose a junior college, the girl wanted to go to tutoring, and so they were in a different place. But it can be seen from their circle of friends that the two of them traveled together during the National Day holiday to enjoy the food and beautiful scenery.

In the second year, the boy was a sophomore, and the girl was also admitted to the second book, although they were in a different place, they still insisted on loving each other, not giving up, and not separating. It is said that on weekends, either boys travel across provinces to see girls, or girls cross provinces to find boys. It's been 5 years, who doesn't envy such a long-lasting and undegenerated love?

I envy, but when love really beckons to me, I am a little afraid to face it, when I was a freshman, I received a confession from a boy, he was from the next class, he added my WeChat through my classmates, and made a confession to me, I thought to myself, "I went to college, but can I really be in love?" Should I say yes? Breakups are common!

In this way, I did not trust him; And just like that, I refused; In this way, I temporarily drew an end to love. That's what happened to me.

College students are indeed mature and understandable. But you started falling in love in high school? We were all secretly going out on dates at that time! And it's too fast to break up after more than two years together, so the emotional foundation has not been laid.

Falling in love makes people feel happy and happy, and one of them goes to college, and the other must study hard and be admitted to the same university, so as not to waste their studies, learn from each other, and supervise each other.

You still have to study hard in high school, so that you can find your own value and find your like-minded other half in college!

If you are a high school student, I think you have to put your studies first and go to university first, so that no matter what your relationship is, you will not regret it in the future.

If you're a boy, I think you'll be in charge of this.

Actually, I don't regret that I didn't fall in love in high school, because high school is more important to me than this study, and falling in love is still a small thing, so there is nothing to regret, and there is no point in regretting this kind of thing.

I won't regret it, because if we fall in love in high school, then it is possible that we will delay our studies, and it is not too late to fall in love when we go to college, so that our love and learning ability will be improved.

I didn't fall in love in high school, and I don't have anything to regret falling in love, this kind of thing can't be set for a time period, even if you haven't been in love in high school, college can be more mature at this time.

I regret it, because I don't have a boyfriend now, and if I fall in love in high school, I may end up in the end.

Dear, I personally don't regret not falling in love in high school, because high school studies are too intense, there is no time to fall in love, and the success rate of high school romance is too low.

In fact, it's okay to fall in love whenever you want, as long as you don't regret it in your heart, feel very happy, and be happy. Or follow your heart's thoughts.

I don't regret it, because high school is the time to study, and in that environment at that time, I didn't have the time and energy to think about things other than studying.

I regret seeing that many people chose to fall in love in high school and finally went to the palace of marriage, so I also regret that I didn't fall in love at the beginning.

I don't regret it, because falling in love will add a burden to my life, and at the same time, it will delay my studies, so I don't regret not falling in love in high school.

I don't regret that I didn't fall in love in high school because it wasn't good for my academic performance at all.

There is nothing to regret because the main task of high school is to study. It's not advisable to fall in love in high school, because the three years of high school are too short to even study, so how can you still spare your energy to fall in love?