I don t have any money, so let my girlfriend pay for it, why do others dislike me?

<> tell me about the most stingy man you've ever seen, and I've seen one, and he's my ex-boyfriend.

My name is Li Chunyan, I am 28 years old this year, and I am from Taiyuan City. Recently I got a boyfriend, but this man is bothering me.

I met him on February 9, 2016, and he was a friend of mine. In fact, the first time I saw him, I felt quite disappointed, his height was too different from what I had in mind. I am 1.68 meters and he is 1.72 meters, but I have 160 pounds, the kind of ...... that looks thick and fatI wanted to slip away immediately, but in the way of my friend's face, we sang together once.

Everyone had a good time that day. A few days later, a group of their friends agreed to go hiking, and he insisted that I go with him, and I reluctantly agreed. It is said that traveling together is the most testing person, that is, this time, I agreed to let him hold my hand and become my boyfriend.

He and I were both born in 1988. He is now studying cooking at a culinary school. I don't have a regular job myself, I drive my own little **.

After dating him for more than a month, I gradually discovered some very bad things about him. Once, I made a business online and made more than 700 dollars.

My friend asked me to have a treat, and I said let's call him too, and he was very nervous, considering who would pay for it. Then I said, you just have to eat with your mouth, you don't have to bring anything. He asked again and again, really you don't have to bring anything?

I said yes. As a result, he really sat there after eating, waiting for me to pay, and I was really speechless.

My parents have always wanted to meet him after they knew I was a friend. We made an appointment to have dinner in a hotel that day, and the meal was quite pleasant, and my parents were very kind and polite to him. But after eating, when I was about to go to the checkout, I found that he was actually standing next to me and watching, in fact, I invited this meal, but I also want to see that after all, it is the first time he has seen my parents, and you should let me let it, and I will definitely not let you pay, at least you also have this action, which makes me think a little better.

It turned out that he was really honest, and he really brought a mouth to eat.

With such a precedent, I feel that between us, we have escalated from "who pays for going out to eat" to "who pays for living together", and I am really distressed. I don't know when, he used to having no money on him, but he pretended to have nothing to do. Ask me where I'm going to eat, so much so that when it's time to check out, look at me and wait for me to pay.

I now drive my own **, and my income is about 5,000 yuan a month, which seems to have become the reason why he can spend my money all the time. He always said: "Wife, you support me before marriage, and I will support you after marriage."

He often said this, and every time I heard such words, I felt sorry for him, and I didn't know if I should continue to live like this!

Then it's up to you.

If you just don't have any money, you work hard to make money, you want to be nice to her, you never beat and scold, and most of the things depend on her, that's good.

But if you are poor and poor, and think that you are poor and you should be supported by her, and you have to be invited by girls for every meal, then I'm sorry, you are really a scumbag.

A man who is reluctant to spend money for you still doesn't love you enough. Of course, not breaking up if you don't love enough, this is a sign of irresponsibility.

He's not suitable for you, if you don't have money, forget it, and you won't be a man.

I would say quite the opposite. My boyfriend will give me money to spend. But I don't feel love. Busy today, busy at any time. Busy twenty-four hours a day. I just don't have time to spend time with me.

So what do you like about him? How can he call him good to you?