Is it normal for a man to ask his girlfriend like this?

This may be the general psychology of the masses. The original intention of the idea is very normal, but the society is complicated, and after a long time, I know that it is basically impossible for a girlfriend to have these at the same time. Maybe when you really find the other half who is close to your heart, you don't care about those conditions anymore.

It's not normal, he just wants to find something that will give him a long face!

Hehe. I guess this man is either two B or brain-dead.

I really think of myself as a flower.

Well, even if he's a flower.

There has to be a woman like that.

Even if there is such a woman.

That has long been covered by the rich.

Forget about being covered by rich people.

It depends on whether others look at him or not.

Even if others have taken a fancy to him.

It depends on whether he catches it or not, don't run away with someone in two days.

If he succeeds in his career, it's okay, but if he doesn't succeed, it's a bit ......

He demanded so many high standards from his girlfriend, and it wouldn't hurt you if you did it, if it wasn't for him, for the sake of making yourself better? Looking at the problem from a different perspective? Isn't it a little different?

He wasn't in a position to ask for that.

Normal, is there a problem? I feel like I fit the ...... in every single one

In fact, the ex will more or less affect their mate selection criteria, especially those who have been hurt by their ex.

The past is unmentionable for everyone, if you can, please don't miss that failed relationship too much, let yourself get out as soon as possible, and naturally there will be a different life.

To experience a good relationship, unless you are particularly lucky, you must be prepared for psychological growth, because many people, the first love is ignorant and naïve, and often becomes the one who is hurt in feeling.

For example, as the relationship develops, your expectations of the relationship may not be aligned, which can also become contradictory**. Some people feel that their other half is perfect at first, and they also want to have a beautiful relationship in their fantasy, but after experiencing many conflicts and even breaking up.

It is reasonable that he will have much lower expectations for his next relationship. Sometimes when you meet an ex who is not good to you, you can also make yourself more vigilant, knowing that no matter what, you should not be too centered on your own feelings, and sometimes reasonable doubts will make you more able to grasp happiness.

The fall of a relationship, for both parties, is a sting that goes deep into the bone marrow.

The past is eroding their hearts all the time.

Walking past the places where we have stayed together, we will stop to remember. Seeing the token of the love he once loved, his thoughts were like cotton threads, entangled with himself.

These once beautiful things have become their own weakness, which cannot be touched, and once touched, tears burst instantly.

A good ex will shape your view of love. It will make you feel that love is what it is, what it was like when you were with him.

You will try to find his shadow in the love afterward.

And in a wounded relationship, you repair your broken heart countless times, wipe away your tears and want to start over, and want to avoid being hurt again in future love.

In fact, everyone will have their own criteria in their hearts, but this criterion is not fixed and will change chemically, and the factor that depends on the change is nothing more than your emotional expression of that person.

You are willing, and hope to be able to get close to each other, feel the enthusiasm of the other party, and also feel the warmth and emotion brought by the other party. That's the best criterion for choosing a mate.

The first is to be of good character, and the heart trembles and returns to kindness; secondly, respect the old and love the young, and be good at housekeeping; The third has a relatively stable job; The fourth is to have a gentle personality and treat others generously.

Different men have different requirements. Anyway, my request is to be like-minded. In the future, if you live together, you can't have nothing to say.

As a guy, I think it's a feeling to like someone, and if I have feelings for a girl, it doesn't matter if she's good or bad, if he's wrong, or whatever, I think she's still the best.

Women have come to do it with water, and the so-called goodness is like water. Because of this, the first bai should be gentle. Water represents Du Cai, so there is the appearance of a prosperous man;

Women must know etiquette, be clear and courteous, and play a good wife, daughter-in-law, and mother;

I am faithful to women, and faith is the foundation, and there must be trustworthiness.

Women should have ideas, not stubbornness. Listen to opinions, but ultimately be decisive.

At the same time, it should be loud, up the hall and down to the kitchen. Only when there is a degree of relaxation can everything be carried out.

The above seems easy, but in fact, it needs bits and pieces of life, such as: women's appearance, women's appearance, and women's morality. We have to practice it in our lives.

Beautiful, gentle, considerate, sophisticated, and so on.

Be filial to your parents. Gentle. Virtuous. Lovely.

What a girl asks of the boy she likes is nothing more than to love her, to have the ability to protect her, to respect her, like that.

And a girl really loves a boy, and most of the requirements for boys are to treat themselves more and less to girls.

I want my boyfriend to be self-motivated, a must.

Be responsible, confident, affirm yourself, believe in yourself, and strive to be the best version of yourself, like this.

And for me, it's enough for my boyfriend to really love me, and I want boys to take themselves seriously and cherish themselves.

There is only one! Love her and be good to her! You can't do without the world!

I love her, I love her, my personality is compatible, and I look pleasing to the eye.

Self-motivated, enterprising, and responsible.

Honesty and loyalty: I hope that my boyfriend can be honest and sincere with himself, and not cheat or betray himself. Loyalty is a commitment to a relationship, hoping that your boyfriend will be loyal to you.

Respect and consideration: I hope that male friends will respect their feelings and thoughts, and will not insult, hurt or ignore themselves. At the same time, I hope that my boyfriend will have a certain amount of thoughtfulness and care, and take good care of himself.

Maturity and steadiness: I hope that my boyfriend will have a certain degree of maturity and stability, be able to take responsibility for his words and deeds, make wise decisions, and will not hurt his feelings rashly.

Have common interests and hobbies: I hope that my boyfriend can have common interests and values with me, and can do something meaningful together to enhance the relationship between each other.

Responsible and self-motivated: I hope that my boyfriend will be responsible and self-motivated, able to take on his own responsibilities, and Huili will pursue his dreams and goals.

Reliable and supportive: I hope that my boyfriend can give himself support and help when he needs help and support, so that he can feel safe and warm.

I didn't have high requirements for my boyfriend back then, I just hoped that his personality would be better, because my personality was quite impatient, so I found a man with a very docile personality who looked in, of course, he was still passable, but he was a little shorter, and Ye Xuansun's economic conditions were not very good.

It is said that boys' requirements for girlfriends and girlfriends are different, although they can't be generalized, but, indeed, most boys now have two sets of requirements when talking about girlfriends:

One of the requirements is: to have a figure, to play, to be present when the boy needs it, and even some boys think that with their girlfriends, as long as the body is suitable. This set of requirements for boys is completely a requirement for girlfriends who will not develop into marriage partners.

Of course, in addition to this set of requirements for girlfriends, another set of requirements is for those who want to develop into marriage partners. After all, boys have had enough of playing outside, and when they reach the age of marriage, they will begin to find a suitable girlfriend for themselves.

For those who want to find a girlfriend who is suitable for marriage, they will divide the boys into two waves, and one wave of people will calm down and find someone who is really suitable. But another wave of boys is exactly the opposite, and their requirements for a girlfriend are:

"Eight sedan chairs, carried by everyone's ladies, married a wife with a lot of money, married a perfect body, Ming media is marrying, marrying virtuous and virtuous. Dare to ask what kind of girl is occupied? "That's right, in the hearts of this kind of boys, the girls who carry the sedan chair eight times, marry a wife with a lot of money, and marry a girl in the Ming media must meet the three requirements of everyone's beauty, perfect body, and virtuous and virtuous lady.

Only such a girlfriend is worthy of marrying herself.

This kind of thinking also attracted many netizens, who sighed for a while, saying that it is no wonder that they are single, it turns out that boys have such requirements for their girlfriends who want to marry. But one of the comments is really happy:

Everyone is beautiful, married to a scholarly family, with a perfect body, with loyalty, virtuous and virtuous, and Xu is gentle as jade. Dare to ask if the son has a lot of money and can afford to carry eight sedan chairs? Dare to ask the son, but the title of the gold list, is worthy of everyone's beauty?

Dare to ask if the son is gentle and elegant, and it is worth raising his eyebrows? "

It's too much! How can a guy ask for a girlfriend! Just meet your girlfriend's request, don't just ask. Girls just have boys distressed protection! Boys must remember that they must love their girlfriend and cannot bully her!

Whether the boy's requirements for his girlfriend are excessive depends on whether it is within the range that the girl can accept, whether it touches the bottom line of the girlfriend, if the boy's requirements for the girlfriend touch the bottom line of the girl, then the requirement is excessive, in fact, the requirements for others, you have to think about it empathically, whether it is easy to do it for others.

It's not too much, it's not too much to ask your girlfriend not to go to nightclubs and not to get so close to her male girlfriends.

Boys can't be too demanding of girls, and they can't allow other people to contact other members of the opposite sex in the name of liking girls.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.