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There are no friends, it may be that you did not take the initiative to show hello to classmates or people who make you feel that you can make friends, in fact, you can be enthusiastic, usually chat with them or go out shopping with you who are more interested, or team up to play games together, the most important thing is that you have a common love, of course, you have to be enthusiastic, of course, if someone takes the initiative to make friends with you, don't refuse.

Hello——! If you are very good, such as outstanding grades, righteousness, righteousness, any talent, even fighting, no friends, no problem at all. It's very chic to be alone, of course, on the premise of not provoking others. Low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude.

I'm still a student, so I don't think there are too many opportunities to socialize, and it's understandable that I don't have many friends.

But that's not all there is to life, as long as you're willing to make friends, you'll eventually meet like-minded people.

Friends at that time are really good friends.

It's okay to have one or two good plays, because when you're in high school, you're going to meet new people who might not be in touch with your former classmates.

When you are a student, you have to focus on studying, but in fact, there is very little social interaction when you are a student. When the time comes, it is only after entering the university that the current society is slowly exposed to social interaction.

Be sure to be able to socialize, because people with good social skills will be very lucky.

I'm the same as you, I think the same way, I'm also in the third year of junior high school now, I don't have a single friend, I eat alone at school, I take physical education class, no one talks to me, I don't want to talk to them, I study very poorly, they all look down on me and laugh at me, I decided that from now on I won't affect my future because of this negative emotion, I feel really stupid, study together?

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I don't have any friends in the third year of junior high school, so my classmates are working hard, watching ** in and out of class, watching "teacher-student love", "homosexuality"**, taking the initiative to find them will suffer from white eyes, cold words, such an environment is easy to meet true love, so study hard, study well and scumbags ask you to do homework, it seems that you can have a sense of existence, study badly, nothing.

The high school party wanted to say that in fact, when I went to high school, I found that junior high school was really not tired. In junior high school, as long as you study seriously, you should have a correct attitude, cultivate study habits, and then discover your own learning methods. Going to high school is where you work hard and work hard. (Cherish junior high school).

Of course, it is good to have friends, but it is also good to not have friends, you can be alone and wait and think about something. Will be sober and lonely. If you feel lonely, you can write a diary, listen to ** or something.

Friends will definitely have. Be smiling about life.

Hope it helps. Than the heart

Hello this friend. Seeing your situation, I thought of my former self, and I used to be as unsociable as you, and I didn't have a friend around, and I felt very lonely. And what I did at that time was like this, because I liked national musical instruments more, so I bought a flute, and the main purpose of I bought this flute was not to blow, but as a kind of fetters, a kind of spiritual sustenance, although I have no friends, but I don't feel lonely, because the flute in my hand is the best friend, I am with the flute every day, with the flute as a companion, and gradually get used to this kind of life alone, and I am not afraid of loneliness.

In fact, people belong to the group type, and it is normal to be afraid of loneliness, and you don't have to have the idea of suicide friends, and you will get used to it slowly. If you are eager for friends, you might as well take advantage of the time when you don't have friends, work hard to improve your ability, improve your worth, and when the time is right, you will naturally have a lot of friends with you. The above are some of my personal experiences and realizations, I hope it will be helpful to you.

Don't have low self-esteem, you can exercise and cultivate slowly.

Read a book. It is not deliberately made that I can become a real friend with you, but after a long time, and the rhythm of your life'People who are about the same pace naturally become friends.,You don't have to be too deliberate about socializing or something.。。 When I arrived at university, I deliberately met more classmates from other majors, and it was also a good thing to have a wide range of friends.

Learning is just as important as socializing. Socialize in the learning process and learn in the social.

While reading the books of the sages, you should also ask about things outside the window.

Not being able to talk is not a disadvantage, it's just a matter of personality. Doesn't like to talk. As for making friends, I'll give you some advice:

1) Objects are clustered by likeness, and people are divided into groups. Find people who have a similar personality to you.

2) Take the initiative to greet classmates, not necessarily talking, greeting when you meet, nodding, or giving a smile. The main thing is to make the other person feel that you have a desire to date.

3) Pay attention to the interests of the people around you, and see if they have any overlap with your own interests. When there is a common topic, there is something to talk about.

4) Actively participate in group activities, let go of self, and integrate into the group.

5) Character determines fate. If you don't associate for a long time, the people around you will not want to associate with you, and this is a vicious circle. Let's try to change your personality.

Ways to overcome low self-esteem include:1Correctly recognize and evaluate yourself:

Accept your current situation, discover your strengths more, and build self-confidence; 2.Self-encouragement: good at using praise and affirmation to build self-confidence; 3.

Use positive self-suggestion: believe in yourself, which boosts your self-confidence;

You usually have a few friends who can talk to you, and the other classmates are tepid and nothing, and the popularity depends on the personality. The above said that it is too high-sounding, you do something practical, participate in the club student union or something, but it will affect your high school entrance examination, you weigh it yourself, I feel that college needs real socialization, there are more people who don't like to talk in middle school, there is nothing to care about. Why do I suggest you go to the student union of the club, after that, you don't have to force the topic to find a hobby, everyone in the club has the same hobbies, and the student union needs tasks, and it is difficult for you to socialize, it is all forced out.

One of those who came on stage was trembling, and those who came on stage a year later were annoyed.

What if your social skills are weak? Besides, I suggest you take a tutorial class in this area, or buy a few books on social eloquence skills and so on. Learn more about this theory.

Hello, based on your description of your lack of social skills, I think it can be initially considered to be due to a strong suggestion psychology. This is a psychological trait, and it is also a relatively common psychological phenomenon. Because of practical reasons, you have not been able to solve it effectively, and it is easy for you to fall into the troubled state of lack of social skills that you describe and cannot extricate yourself.

Therefore, I suggest that you first convince your parents to give them full understanding and active support for you to seek the services of a professional psychological counselor, and then consider helping yourself to seek professional psychological counseling services in interpersonal relationships and interpersonal communication through online voice, so that you can reconstruct new beliefs in this area and eliminate the psychological factors that cause you to have a strong suggestion psychology, so as to be more conducive to your normal life, study, and Interpersonal and mental state.

Me too, in fact, it's very painful, I want to change, but I can't, I want to socialize, but I can't, I want to make friends, but it's not hypocritical for long.

First of all, don't give up on yourself. You have seen your own shortcomings and advantages, everyone has their own way of life, don't hurt others and yourself, learn to protect yourself, low income has a low way of living, high income has a high way of living, as long as you are happy, you have to go to the society, integrate into the society, contact a variety of characters, this society is still a lot of good people, inspire yourself, happy every day.

Deceived all your life? You've lived your whole life?!

I also read the messenger in the third year of junior high school, and the boys didn't feel anything. But the girl with the slippery core leather edge is really scheming. If you are not good at socializing, then do your best, the most important thing is in the third year of junior high school, you study well and have cultivation, you will naturally have a gap with others, come on.

A best friend is someone who doesn't usually have much contact with you, but stepped up to help you when it matters most of your time.

Do you still need to be afraid?

If you don't go to the same school in high school, then the friendship will gradually fade. If you have a solution, you can ask to come out and play. Or find a reason to connect you, for example, you play League of Legends, and he also plays League of Legends, so that you make an appointment to be together and go black, so that the relationship will not fade.

Because you're "tied" together. You can also find something else to "tie" together.

Write to each other often.