Why do you have so much etiquette in life, I don t like it

And there is no way to do it when you don't like it! Actually, I don't like those etiquettes, sometimes those things make me feel hypocritical, but we have to do it! It's like we don't want to grow up, but snails can't avoid growing up!

I don't think there's any need to care too much about etiquette when you're with people you know, but if you're outside, I think it's better to pay attention, you don't see those as expressions of human sophistication and hypocrisy, you can take it as a sign of cultivation and politeness, so that you won't get bored of this kind of thing! Don't think about it so much! Everyone has to grow up, they have to integrate into this society, don't care too much about things outside of their bodies, just be happy!

If you don't like it. In private, you can be casual. But on the right occasions. You still have to talk about the number of etiquette.

Because it's a matter of politeness. You have to respect people.

If you don't. Others will hate it.

If you have something to trouble people in the future. People won't help you.

Pay attention.。。 The number of etiquette is to be taught.

Because this represents the degree of civilization of a society, although there are not as many etiquettes in modern times as in ancient times, but at least the etiquette has to be talked about, we are a civilized country.

If you don't like it, you die, and if you die, there's nothing you don't like. Go, God is waiting for you ahead. Oh my child, lost? Come, I'll take you.

It's not the environment that has to adapt to you, it's the environment that you have to adapt. There will always be some etiquette in life, or it will be all messed up.

In order to create a civilized and harmonious society.

1. When others pour water, don't look at it dryly, but support it with your hands to show politeness.

2. When others talk to you, you must at least be able to answer, and you can't say the last sentence, you don't have the next sentence, or blindly say ahhhh

3. Don't look directly at each other when someone is staring at you, and pretend not to notice.

4. If you are in a bad mood, no matter how good skin care products and cosmetics are, you can't remedy it.

5. Poor sleep will make people speak incoherently, react slowly, and have prominent dark circles.

6. When others release "toxic gases", they can't avoid them in disgust or take a hand fan and pretend that nothing happened.

8. A woman can't ask a man for money with her palms up all her life.

9. When you leave the table after eating, you say, "I'm done eating, you eat slowly." ”

10. Handing water and food to people must be hands.

11.Don't tilt up the chair.

12.Serve the bowl when eating, don't pick and choose from the plate.

13.Remember to close the door when you enter the last one.

14.To send someone away, say, "Go slowly." ”

15.Don't shake your hands after washing your hands, it's rude to throw water on people.

There are a lot of etiquette in life, and now it is elaborated from four aspects: clothing, food, housing and transportation

1.Dress appropriately, preferably in formal attire, and be spotless from top to bottom.

2.When eating, don't make a sound. Don't eat nonsense, sit upright, don't spit or blow your nose, and cover your mouth and nose with a handkerchief when coughing.

3.The house should be ventilated frequently, lit with sanitary incense if necessary, and cleaned frequently without leaving stains.

3.When walking, you should be upright, not swaying, and stretching your head and neck.

There are a lot of them! For example, table etiquette to pay attention to when eating with colleagues, friends, and strangers, social etiquette when meeting friends and relatives, and business etiquette at work.

There are four aspects of speech and demeanor.

Be polite when you speak.

Speak appropriately.

The action is not exaggerated.

Be in good shape.

Some simple ones are fine, not as complicated as business etiquette, simple politeness is fine.

The country is still courteous, the family is big, the body is still self-cultivation, and the heart is polite.

Say hello to leaders, want to say hello to neighbors, say hello to friends!

Conversation etiquette, ** etiquette, dress etiquette.

The most basic polite language.

1. When you see your elders, whether the relationship is good or not, whether you are familiar with it or not, you must call your uncle and aunt, it doesn't matter if you don't remember your surname, but you can call it when you go home or enter the door, and you should use the voice that the other party can hear, and your eyes should have a short exchange.

2. Visit the door, even if you are looking for peers, you can go straight to the room, but you have to go to the living room to say hello to the elders, and call uncle, aunt and the like.

3. Regardless of whether you know a friend or not, do not call someone else's nickname, unless the nickname has been approved by me.

Generally speaking, as long as parents and elders see and hear young people greeting, they generally think that the child is good, and will say that they know how to call people, and if they are dressed cleanly and do not make loud noises when greeting, parents will feel good. Peers can get along casually, but don't keep joking about other people's shortcomings, mistakes, or even gossip, most of them are still easier to get along with.

In addition to the civilization used in , please say the word in the front and thank the word in the back, and carry forward the Chinese virtues.

Knives, forks, and spoons used in Western food have their own uses, and cannot be substituted or mixed.

1.Knives are used to cut food, don't use a knife to pick up food and send it to your mouth. Remember: Hold a knife in your right hand.

If there are three different sizes of knives at the same time during a meal, the correct way to use them is: the one with small serrations is used to cut meat; The medium size is used to cut large slices of vegetables into small slices; The small, round-tipped knife with a slightly upturned top is used to cut through the bread and then use it to pick some jam and cream to spread on the bread.

2.Fork the left hand with the fork, fork the food to the mouth, the action should be light, pick up the appropriate amount of food and put it in the mouth at one time, do not drag a large piece, take a bite and then put it down, so it is very **. When the fork picks up the food in the mouth, the teeth only touch the food, do not bite the fork, and do not let the knife and fork make a noise on the teeth or in the plate.

3.Spoon. In formal settings, there are many kinds of spoons, the smaller ones are used for coffee and desserts; Flat ones are used for buttering and serving cakes; Relatively large ones, used to drink soup or hold small food; The largest is the one that is used for sharing soups, which are commonly found in buffets. Make no mistake.

Step 3: Tableware arrangement.

The tableware is placed from the outside to the inside according to the order in which the dishes are served. Some dishes are removed after use. The direction and position of the cutlery are particular.

The knife and fork are placed on the mat plate in a figure-eight shape, with the knife edge facing inward, and the tip of the fork pointing downwards indicates that you are going to continue eating; The cutlery is placed parallel to the mat with the knife edge facing upwards to indicate that you do not want to eat. The spoon is placed horizontally in the soup plate, with the center of the spoon facing up, which also means that the soup tableware can be taken away.

(1) Handshake ceremony.

Handshake is a very common etiquette, which is generally used in the context of mutual meeting, parting, congratulations, condolences, etc. The handshake posture in the sense of pure etiquette is: stretch out your right hand, hold the opponent's palm with your fingers slightly for 1-3 seconds, look at each other with both eyes, smile, lean forward slightly, and lower your head slightly.

2) Bow your hand.

The bow ceremony, also known as the bow ceremony, has a history of at least 2,000 years in our country, and is one of the traditional etiquettes in our country, which is often used when people meet. That is, the two hands are clenched into fists, and the right hand is held in the left hand. When saluting, regardless of respect and inferiority, arch your hands and eyebrows, shake up and down a few times, and bow after bowing.

At present, it is mainly used for festive group worship activities, mutual congratulations on New Year's Day and Spring Festival and other festivals. It is also sometimes used in business meetings such as order meetings and product appraisal meetings, and the factory manager gives his hand.

3) Bow down.

Bowing means to bow down, and it is a form of etiquette to show respect for others. "Three bows"Called the most salutation. In our country, bowing is often used for subordinates to superiors, students to teachers, juniors to elders, and also for service staff to greet guests, and actors to applaud the audience to thank them.

4) Hug ceremony.

Hugging is a popular etiquette in Europe and the United States, usually performed at the same time as kissing ceremony. Hug salute method: two people stand opposite each other, right arm up, left arm down; The right hand is on the opponent's left shoulder, and the left hand is on the opponent's right waist.

Hold each other's positions, and both sides hug each other with their heads and upper bodies to the left, then to the right, and finally to the left again.

5) Kiss ceremony.

Kiss the hand. When a man meets an upper-class aristocratic woman, if the woman first stretches out her hand to make a drooping pose, the man can gently lift his fingertips and kiss her; But if the woman does not stretch out her hand to show it, she will not kiss. If the woman has a higher status, the man should bend one knee and kiss her. This gift is most popular in England and France.

Kissing ceremony. It is mostly seen in the West, Eastern Europe, and Arab countries, and is a kind of gift between relatives and close friends to express affection, condolences, and caresses, usually on the face or forehead of the recipient. The kissing methods are: face kiss between parents and children, kiss the forehead; Brothers and sisters, relatives and friends are close to the cheeks; Relatives and acquaintances are hugging, kissing faces, and kissing cheeks, in public, women who are close to each other are kissing faces, men and women are kissing cheeks, elders are generally kissing the forehead to younger generations, and only lovers or husbands and wives kiss each other.

6) Namaste.

Namaste, also known as gassho, is popular in Buddhism-believing countries in South and Southeast Asia. The method of salutation is as follows: the two palms are together in front of the chest, the tips of the palms and the tips of the nose are basically opposite, the palms are tilted outward, the head is slightly lowered, and the face is smiling.

The new book "June Tells You" is to teach people how to pay attention to etiquette in life, if you don't have time to read books, there are many articles about etiquette in daily life in the library. Hope it helps!

Learn to smile, learn to listen. Be sure to remember the name and information about the other person when you meet for the first time, and don't stick chopsticks in the bowl when eating.

Respecting others is not only respecting oneself, but also the basic etiquette of life.

Say hello and know how to respect.

Be confident, respect others and respect yourself. Pay attention to honesty and benevolence, and know basic politeness.

The most important thing is to be humble and smile at all times.

I said something bad to hear

You're afraid. du。Afraid of what?? I'm afraid of accidents. What is the meaning of zhiwai.

I think you should. DAOs should be clear.

It's protective. Edition. I'm afraid he'll be bullied. I'm afraid he's tired...

And so on and so forth.

But love, like marriage, is to be managed.

You also liked her personality to stay with him.

Then let him do it.

There's a lot of time.

If he really does everything you want.

Then you're bored.,When the time comes, maybe you'll wonder why he's not as good as he was when he first met.。。

The two of them still have their own favor, ask him to fix it, let him do it.

There is also the benefit of experiencing more.

Others say that suffering is a blessing.

You're worried about delaying your time. But as the old saying goes, it's good. Distance begets beauty, and if you don't have much time together.

Then that's okay too. Regular spiritual care is on the line.

Don't be so nervous...

Wishing you all happiness ...

You should rest assured to support your girlfriend's career, after all, it is better for a woman to be independent. Respect for her ideas is the most important, of course. You can also try to communicate with her well and share your thoughts.

She chose them all, which means that she wants to do it, and she has the ability If you don't give it to her, it's not very good

Everyone has their own dreams and ...... what they want to doDistance produces beauty!

Watching Professor Kim Jong-kun's explanation can solve most of your confusion.