Why is it bad to tell the truth? Why is the truth always hard to hear?

It is said that white lies are the truth, and sometimes we don't want to listen to the truth, because human vanity is at work.

One. Sometimes, no matter what the occasion, if you tell the truth, the other party will feel that he can't get off the stage, and he will feel that he has no face, although you may say some hypocritical words, or superficial words, but the other party will feel very face-saving, and he is willing to listen to it even if he knows it is fake.

Two. The main thing is that people themselves have a good face attitude, but also a kind of vanity, he hopes that others are not as good as him, or a little more high-profile than others, which is worth paying attention to, which is a normal social attitude of a person. If he always hears the truth or belittles him, of course he will feel that he is very unqualified.

People who speak too straight are people who tell the truth, and generally can't make friends. There are also few real friends, and the leader does not like it.

Three. Including some people who are sick, then you must not tell the truth, the so-called white lie, if you tell the truth, it may not be so serious, and you will be scared to death. So some things can tell the truth, and some things can't.

This is also a kind of respect for others, and it is also an attitude towards others! Same as I thought, so be it!

It's not bad, but it depends on what occasion and when you tell the truth, for example, in the intensive care unit, there are only a few days left to live, whether to let the family go happily, or finally go in fear, and many people don't want to listen to the truth, they just want to listen to what they want to hear, so when you tell the truth, you may inadvertently offend people.

Because the truth is often hurtful. In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why remove the factor of emotional harm. When you say what you think is the "truth", others may just think about "why you can tell it without worrying about my emotions", and what he cares about is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take into account his emotions.

And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not lose the formal question itself.

Most of the people in our lives are actually hermit crabs who rely on self-irony and struggle to find out what to do.

Shrink yourself into someone else's shell. Only by constantly complaining about yourself every day to find some self-confidence, and at this time you have to pry open the shell of the ant land, and then tell others that this is the real you, others are unwilling or even disgusted with your so-called "truth", but you are asking, why they are not willing to listen to your truth.

Because I don't want to face it, I want to escape, and I don't realize my own problems, I deceive myself by imitating the chain, or I feel that hearing the truth makes me shameless, but in this world, how much is face worth? If you don't accept it with an open mind and sincerely correct the blank answers, then it will be difficult to hear any truth. Prepare for the grandson.

There is nothing inherently wrong with telling the truth, but in some cases, telling the truth can lead to unnecessary trouble. As an example, if a person is asked about their age, this can lead to other people being biased against some of their behaviors and abilities if they are telling the truth. In addition, in some occasions where it is not appropriate to tell the truth, such as asking the bride at a wedding if she wants to marry the groom, if the bride does not want to marry, telling the truth may cause negative consequences and even cause conflict.

In addition, it is also necessary to pay attention to the way you speak in the workplace. Some words, even if they are true, are not suitable for being widely disseminated in public. If an employee is dissatisfied for a reason and complains publicly at a company meeting, it can damage their image and career prospects.

In short, there is nothing inherently wrong with telling the truth, but it is important to speak at the right time and in the right situation.

Because the premise of telling the truth is that he can listen to it.

To borrow a lyric from you: Sometimes the truth is too sharp, and someone has to tell a lie.

Because the truth is harsh, depending on the situation, the truth often makes people realize their own shortcomings. If it is denied by others, it is because the shortcomings are not acknowledged, and the truth is often honest advice that is taken as praise.

Sometimes the truth is too sharp, and some big men like to be coaxed. Be sure to cherish those who will show their true feelings to them, and sometimes you will get unexpected results.

The truth is the big truth, as the saying goes, the truth is not good, depending on the understanding of each other.

Some people think it's good, some people think it's bad, and this is also a divide.