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In today's society, there are fewer and fewer people who dare to face the truth, and as for whether it is good or bad to tell the truth, it is up to the wise to see the wise.

In fact, it is very good to tell the truth, very good, but sometimes it is inconvenient and undesirable;

What to say depends on what relationship and what occasion;

However, from an early age, teachers will teach us to tell the truth and not lie and deceive others, but in the face of today's society, sometimes we really need to be flexible;

But I can tell you that it's important to keep a sincere heart!

If you are in the workplace, often telling the truth depends on the person you are facing or the things you are facing, but often inappropriate language will cause colleagues and even superiors to be disgusted.

If you dare to tell the truth in the face of the person you love in life, although you are trying to make him better, but often harsh language will hurt the other party and destroy your relationship with this person, then it will be worth the loss, so it is better to speak tactfully and sincerely.

Of course, personally, I like to be friends with people who tell the truth and treat each other with my heart; Tell the truth or lie it.

It depends on what kind of heart you have, and it also depends on what kind of situation, but you can't lose your true credibility.

Personally, I think that it is important to tell the truth, but it is better to tell the truth very technically, because in this way the obedient person can not only receive, but you will not lose anything, the best of both worlds! So speaking is an art. To tell the truth and to speak beautifully, this is learning.

As the saying goes, illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth. Telling the truth doesn't mean you can say anything, but you have to think about who you're dealing with, what you are doing, and how you should tell the truth. This requires us to know what we know in our hearts, instead of using one lie after another to protect ourselves, we should use sincerity and sincerity to euphemistically say, we can be very frank and calm, and others can also gladly accept what you will do, this is the master.

At any time, if you want to speak the truth with your heart, if you want to say it without offending others, but also to achieve yourself, then consider your speaking skills.

If you don't have a good life, always telling the truth will make others exclude you very much, and you may lose your job and be prone to depression.

It is easy to get along with people who understand you, and people who don't understand you may be close to you, because some things cannot tell the truth, similar to white lies. In the workplace, leaders need a person who dares to speak the truth, but most of them will be arranged in executive positions, not easily arranged in management.

That's definitely not good, because they are too straightforward, they may be discriminated against by others, and they will also be said by others to be too white.

If "truth" is assumed to be optional, can you imagine what kind of world this would be?

Lying erodes trust between people. You don't know who to trust anymore. You will have to question and investigate all "truth claims" on your own;

When we lie, we are actually hiding the truth from the other person, expecting them to accept what we say at face value and order their actions or reactions accordingly. This is deceptive and disrespectful. It uses others as a means to an end; Not an end in itself;

Lying corrupts**. When a person lies, he or she often needs to add more lies to cover up the first lie, then cover up the second lie again, and so on. Soon, ** will no longer be able to distinguish between the real and the fake. And.

Community life will become unbearable. Language is essential for human society and the necessary cooperation required to function as a well-functioning, productive, and civilized society. But this only works if people seeking to live together and work together in a community can rely on what they say to each other.

Bottom line: Telling the truth is a noble, near-absolute moral virtue. In all our dealings, operational assumptions should always be truth-telling; Exceptions, very few.

1. Telling the truth avoids using one lie to cover up another. Life is open and the mood is comfortable.

2. If you don't want the other party to know, you can not say it, everyone can have their own privacy space, but don't lie.

3. If you tell a lie, you will have a lot of negative reactions.

4. The advantage of telling the truth is that you can forget what you said after you finish speaking, and you don't have to remember it all the time, how easy it is.

Tell lies. The disadvantage is that you may have to continue to tell countless falsehoods, in order to maintain that the first false story will not be exposed, how tiring!

In life, we all say that we like truth and reject hypocrisy. But many times, it is often the lies that make us feel comfortable and happy. Those truths that are contrary to the ear are precisely the ones that bring us discomfort.

Your chubby figure wears a dress that shows off your waist. Looking at the particularly bumpy body in the mirror, the feeling of tightness is actually a little uncomfortable. But the freshness of a new dress still prompts you to wear it out the door.

The first colleague saw you and began to praise you exaggeratedly, "Wow, so beautiful, you fit so well in this dress, you look so beautiful!" After hearing this, you feel beautiful in your heart, completely dispelling your previous doubts about whether this dress is perfect, and convinced that you are really beautiful when you wear it.

The second colleague also noticed that you had changed into a new outfit, but she didn't praise you like the previous one. Instead, they give you a direct opinion that the dress doesn't suit you because the skirt is too tight and the hem is too small, and you have to walk in small steps, which makes you look very artificial. Although, this is the truth, because you do feel that you can't let go of walking, but you still inadvertently change your face and feel uncomfortable when you hear it, and you feel that she is too disappointed to speak.

What if you can't let go, the small broken steps are also elegant and beautiful.

Why don't you like to hear the truth, because sometimes when a person is intoxicated with a certain feeling that he identifies himself, he feels that his feeling is the truth. Everything that breaks the sense of self, even if it is real, is just the opposite of the self. He assumes that his feelings are correct, and all other information is wrong.

Online training courses, training camps. In all kinds of writing classes, most of them convey a message that if you go to your own class, in the near future, you will be able to read 100,000+ readers, and you will be able to monetize your writing tomorrow. As a senior professional writer, you can't get used to these exaggerated propaganda, and you are afraid that those former and successive whites will believe it and end up being beaten in the head by reality.

You stand up with righteous indignation and accuse those who advertise for not being sincere enough. How can writing be enlightened because of short-term training, practice over time, persist for decades, and may not be able to change when you put pen to paper.

You warn those eager novices not to be whimsical and daydreaming. You use your own experience to tell them not to have naïve ideas, and in the end, they end up with a sea of dreams. You think that your sharp words and real cases will awaken those young people with lofty ideals who are full of enthusiasm and have beautiful dreams.

Because, everything you say is the truth.

But the truth does not make others feel that you are an angel on earth, saving the public from fantasy. No one buys your account, but complains that you are bitter and mean, and you poured a basin of cold water on you before the dream began. Just like a toddler baby, no matter how ugly the gait is, you don't need to be reasonable repeatedly, because reasoning is useless, ugly falls, and after a long time, he naturally learns to walk steadily and learn to walk around the stones.

Why don't you love to listen to the truth, because there are some things that you can only experience yourself, and you have fallen a lot, and the lessons you have summed up are the truth. Your experience or truth is important.

Because the truth is often hurtful. In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why remove the factor of emotional harm. When you say what you think is the "truth", others may just think about "why you can tell it without worrying about my emotions", and what he cares about is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take into account his emotions.

And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not to the formal question itself.

Most of us in our lives are hermit crabs who live a difficult life by self-irony, shrinking themselves into the shells of others. Only by constantly complaining about yourself every day to find some self-confidence, and at this time you have to pry open this shell, and then tell others that this is the real you, others are unwilling or even disgusted with your so-called "truth" You are asking, why they are not willing to listen to your truth.

1. Telling the truth avoids using one lie to cover up another. Life is open and the mood is comfortable.

2. If you don't want the other party to know, you can not say it, and everyone can have their own privacy space, but don't lie.

3. If you tell a lie, you will have a lot of negative reactions.

4. The advantage of telling the truth is that you can forget what you said after you finish speaking.

The disadvantage of telling a lie is that you may have to continue to tell 1,000 lies, in order to maintain that the first lie is not exposed, how tiring!