Where is the gap between hard work and non work?

There is a thought-provoking saying: The most terrible thing in life is to do nothing in your life, and comfort yourself that the ordinary is precious.

In order to never give up the dream, in order not to be willing to accept the ordinary status quo, and to have a more brilliant future than the past, if you don't work hard in life, the gap is here.

In an interview this year, the top student in the Beijing liberal arts college entrance examination said that he was born in a middle-class home in Beijing, and he obtained education and resources that many children from other places or rural areas could not get.

This led to a hot topic "it is difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family", which has been widely discussed on this topic.

It is undeniable that class differences cause differences in educational resources, and the phenomenon of educational inequality does exist, but the existence of the gap is just a reminder to us: if we don't work hard, this gap will only get bigger and bigger.

In "Odd Numbers", there is a mention of a "10,000-hour rule":

The so-called geniuses in people's eyes are not born superior, they are all through unremitting efforts and hard work, tempering 10,000 hours in an industry, before they change from ordinary to extraordinary!

Kobe Bryant is one of the greatest stars in the history of basketball, and he once said: There is always someone who wants to win, so why can't it be me.

A reporter asked Kobe: "Why are you so successful?" ”

Do you know what it's like to be four o'clock every morning in Los Angeles? Bryant asked rhetorically.

The reporter shook his head: "I don't know." So what does it look like at four o'clock every morning in Los Angeles? ”

Bryant scratched his head and said, "The sky is full of stars, few lights, and there are very few pedestrians." ”

Speaking of this, Kobe Bryant smiled and said:

I don't know exactly how. But it doesn't matter, you say?

Every day at 4 a.m. in Los Angeles, when it was still dark, I would get up and walk the streets of dark Los Angeles.

A day passed, and the darkness of Los Angeles did not change in the slightest; Two days have passed, and the darkness has not changed at all; More than a decade later, the 4 a.m. darkness on the streets of Los Angeles still hasn't changed, but I'm a muscular, physically fit, powerful athlete with a high shooting percentage. ”

Sometimes, we try our best, not to prove our existence or to have anything to do with other people's opinions, just to make our lives more meaningful.

When you are in the prime of life, you don't work hard but enjoy the kind of person who enjoys life, after many years, you will find that the person who was with you before and then worked harder is not on the same level at all. It's too late to regret it then, after all, is there a limited age? You have exhausted all your youth in this life.

Life requires effort. When there is a direction for life to strive for, it will generate inexhaustible motivation for the goal. I saw such a sentence in a certain book, there is no hopeless life in this world, only people who are desperate in the face of life.

What this sentence actually wants to convey is that there is no right or wrong in life, it depends on what kind of attitude you have towards life. If you are optimistic about it, then life is full of excitement and hope; If you face it pessimistically, then life will be overshadowed, like a night without stars. Therefore, we can never despair of life, no matter how big setbacks and ups and downs you encounter, you must face them with optimism and try to live hard.

In real life, there is never a smooth sailing, and each of us will encounter some difficulties and challenges in the process of moving forward. It really makes people feel heavy, they feel depressed, and it becomes difficult to even breathe, as if they are really in a desperate situation, as if life has really come to an end. However, this is often not the case, and life is often born in death, and hope is often born in despair.

It seems that there is no way out, but in fact, the willows and flowers are bright. As soon as you go around this swamp, you will see a wider world ahead. In fact, there is no real "desperate situation" in this world, no matter how cold the winter is, the spring breeze will always bring warmth; No matter how long the night is, the morning sun will always rise again.

For us young, when setbacks beckon, when failures come to us like shadows, when the door of fate is cruelly closed to us, we still don't despair of life. Because there is always a window that will open for you, there will always be a meter of sunlight that will shine for you, and there will always be a chance to stay for you. In fact, life is like this, as long as you are full of hope in life, then no matter how heavy the misfortune from the outside world is, no matter how great the disaster from yourself is, there will always be a new path under your feet.

Those who don't work hard will see obstacles on the road, and only those who work hard can open up a new road. <>

Last month, I was talking about cooperation with a friend, when she was about to give birth, and the twins themselves were a big burden on their bodies, and they were still worrying non-stop. A few days ago, I was talking to her subordinates about cooperation, and in the middle of the group, she stuck her head out to speak. I asked her:

Are you done giving birth? "She showed me the ** of her twin daughters, saying that after giving birth, while taking care of the children, she can work with me in the spare time. I sent them a message, and she wrote me a reply at 4 o'clock in the morning, and I thought about it, and I guess she was breastfeeding the child, and she wrote it to me while breastfeeding.

Think a lot of people think, crazy, why make yourself so tired? Oh, no why, it's just her normal state, it's not desperate at all, and besides, people have long been financially free, and they also run two companies by themselves, which is fun. Many people are particularly worried about others when they see their efforts.

I am afraid that people will die of overwork, I am afraid that everyone will be old, and I am afraid that people will work too hard and be infertile. ActuallyIt's that I'm too leisurely, and in the face of other people's rapid progress and efforts, I don't dare to look at it, and I feel guilty in my heart, so I pretend to admonish others, but in fact, it's just to comfort myself。If you can't do it yourself, you hope others don't do it.

If others have to work hard, it's best to end up in a bad situation, such as getting sick or divorced, so that they feel much better. It's a pity that those people are getting better and better, their lives are getting richer and richer, the world they see is getting bigger and bigger, and the children are getting better and better. Then you go on a different life.

Life is not long, and in just a few decades, some people have created brilliance, and Da Pants State has reached the peak of life; Some people have no achievements and let their lives be dusty.

Why is there such a big difference in fate? In addition to factors such as origin, personal effort also plays a key role. In the same context, doing the same thing, some people go all out and achieve the desired goal; Some people don't work hard and miss out on success.

Liu Qing once said: "There are only a few key steps in life" in these few steps, and the battle will be forever. If you don't go well, you may have to spend a lifetime struggling to make a living.

I remember that there is a very popular saying on Zhihu: If you don't work hard to live the life you want now, then in the future, you will waste a lot of time coping with the life you don't want.

Don't forget that the road that is too comfortable to walk is the downhill road. If he is willful, Hu Wangsha may return to the original point.

Born as a human mausoleum, why not fight!