How to be a wise and interesting wise person?

Make a friend who can talk. We usually have one or more friends around us who can talk. You can definitely find that the way they speak is different from your own, and when you talk to them, they will always have special ideas, and what we need to learn from them is their ability to respond to certain words.

Learn their speaking skills unconsciously, extract the essence from them, and condense them into your own way of speaking. Saying the wrong thing. After talking too much, it is likely that the wrong words will be said due to gaffes, which will make others unhappy, and these are inevitable, so we must apologize as soon as we say the wrong thing, and at the same time remember the lesson of this time, so as to reduce the same mistakes in life in the future.

Silent but not in a daze. Whether we are at a wine table or a daily gathering of friends, we can see several people chatting happily together. At this time, we don't need to interject, just listen quietly to what they say, think more about their speaking skills, after a long time, you have learned their skills, and you will be like a fish in water when you encounter this situation in the future, practice.

The advantage here is that over time, your habit of being ashamed to express yourself in front of others will gradually change, and you can make more changes to some of your own bad words, saying your own style and humor.

Talking is indeed an art, and Chinese Chinese are broad and profound. The same defeated battles can be written as repeated defeats and repeated defeats. Repeated defeats and repeated defeats have different meanings.

There are some basic skills and traits that can speak. Generally, you can praise the behavior rather than the individual, you can express praise through a third party, and you can just smile and say thank you in the face of others' praise. A good attitude determines a good future, learn to observe carefully, learn to summarize, learn to listen, so that you can become a successful man who can speak alive and wise.

In relationships, if you know exactly what to say on what occasions, if you make others happy and not embarrassed yourself, and if you reject others appropriately without hurting your feelings, then you will win the respect and admiration of others. In the workplace, if you know how to seek support from your superiors without being humble or arrogant, skillfully urge reports, persuade colleagues to participate in events, and skillfully communicate sensitive office topics, then you will be able to navigate the workplace with ease. In a relationship, if you can understand the meaning of the other party's words, empathize, resolve the conflict in various relatively satisfactory ways, and say good things to make the angry other party happy, then you will reap a happy love.

If you want to practice "Zhang Yi's tongue and Su Qin's mouth", you usually have to work hard to exercise. The first thing is to read more, learn in many aspects, accumulate knowledge, increase insight, and improve one's own quality. With knowledge, the level of speech can be improved, and only then can speech have gold content.

At the same time, watch more first-class competitions related to speech and debate, observe and learn speech skills and experience, and accumulate what you have learned for use. Finally, it is necessary to create opportunities to talk to people, make more friends, and practice the ability to speak in an environment where you can get along with people.

Communication between people is inseparable, communication can make the relationship between people heat up quickly, and communication can change a person's destiny. Some people may understand "good at communication" as "sleek, flattering, and flattering", but in fact, people who can really communicate are not sleek and sophisticated, but know how to make everyone decent. For men:

What kind of words you can say will determine your future height and what kind of destiny you have. Around us, the most lucrative ones tend not to be those who know the most about core skills, but those who have the core skills to express themselves effectively, and to lead and inspire others.

As for whether the speech is humorous, it depends on the personality of the individual, some people do not talk much, and some people speak interestingly, but the gag taste is average, there are reasons for knowledge, there are also personality reasons, people who don't like to talk more don't have to deliberately change themselves, read more books and naturally accumulate thick and thin.

Don't speak in a slippery tone. A person who likes to speak in a smooth tone will give people the impression that he is dishonest, unreliable, often deceives others, does not keep promises, and is good at using words to quibble. Therefore, when we speak, we should say what we should say, and do not say what we should not say, especially for the words that involve others, we must be cautious, you must know that the wall has ears, maybe one day because of some words you say will reach the ears of others, which will affect you.

The one thing I didn't think about the most was when I turned in my papers early and walked out of the classroom during the exam.

Therefore, I think that we must remain rational in everything we do, and we must seriously consider it before making a decision, so that we will not make inappropriate choices because of impulse, and we must learn to study hard to improve ourselves, let ourselves do everything with a plan, stay calm and wise, improve ourselves, and we must learn hard to grow.

Learning is very important in life, it can broaden our cognition and horizons, and can allow us to increase more knowledge, on the road to growth, there will always be many difficulties and choices, we often feel lost, do not know how to face it, when faced with choices, we can try to learn, enlighten wisdom with learning, and find answers.

Learning can help us clarify our goals and find the direction that suits us in life. Learning should not only strive to learn more new knowledge, but also pay attention to continuous improvement and self-improvement.

Learning gives us the opportunity to reflect on and summarize ourselves at all times, so that we can know ourselves without knowing and making progress.

Learning can improve our connotation, improve our comprehensive quality and cultural literacy, and then promote our all-round development. When we have our own clear goals in life, we can study hard, have the motivation to learn, and be self-disciplined and focus on learning; The more practical experience you have, the better you can learn; Only with a firm will can we persevere in learning.

When we accumulate more knowledge, we will be able to express our thoughts in simple words, be able to communicate with others in a humble and polite manner, and be able to understand the different points of view of others, which is the greatest positive meaning of learning.

Strive to master the basic knowledge, can continue to improve our ability to deal with problems, the ability to communicate, the ability to cooperate with others, the state can also be true to understand and respect others, but also can learn to apply, the professional knowledge learned to guide our own future development and practice, to solve the practical difficulties in life, and then more active efforts to work, self-growth continues to push forward.

Hello, being well-read can make you wise, but it's not a matter of a day or two.

It is recommended that you read history books and learn wisdom from historical figures.

A wise life needs to do these things, and answer the letter in the dry hole.