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It varies from person to person, and everyone's situation is different, and for me, mom is the most important thing. If I had to choose, I would give up my lover and brother and sister and choose my mother, even if this choice would make me miserable for the rest of my life, I would choose my mother. In this life, people always owe something to some people!
In the hugging family, I don't know what role the landlord plays, family affection is very precious to everyone. For me, in front of my family, I always compromise and give in, and I feel that a harmonious family is more important.
He is blindly generous to his parents, brothers and sisters, but relatively little care for his wife and his wife's parents. That's definitely not right!!Being married, that means accepting not only your spouse, but also your spouse's loved ones!
He did this to disrespect his wife and her familySelfishness!!Watch out!
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It's all the same, it's all family.
I think the best way is that you are in the middle position, you are left and right, more grievances, in exchange for family harmony, have you seen the good times of your daughter-in-law?It's a very popular TV series, you can learn about it. When there is a conflict, if your daughter-in-law is wrong, tell her in front of your family and go back to your own house to coax herIf the elders are wrong, don't have your own principles too much, you can bear it, can't you still be reasonable if you can't bear it?If the brother and sister are wrong, the direct criticism is, everyone is equal!
Hope it helps!
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Parents are the most important, followed by husband and wife, and then brother and sister.
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In fact, there is no way to compare feelings, and you have to judge which one is more important according to your own feelings
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I think it's important to have a relationship as a husband and wife as well as a sibling relationship.
First of all, it is very important for the wife, after all, she is far away from her parents, and her brothers and sisters follow this man together, if this man does not regard himself as a treasure in the palm of his hand, he thinks that his brothers and sisters are closer. Well, after all, you will suffer.
When a woman discovers that a man thinks her siblings are closer. They will feel particularly chilled in this relationship. After all, I gave my life of happiness to a man, and this man did not love himself as much as he imagined.
In fact, lovers and brothers and sisters are as close by blood.
I calculated that in terms of blood distance, you - parents - brothers and sisters, you and your brothers and sisters are only separated by blood one parent, you - children - lovers.
You and your lover are separated by only one child by blood, and from the perspective of blood distance, your lover and siblings are as close as you.
You may say that this is not right, my brothers and sisters and I have inherited the blood of the same ancestors, but my lover does not, and I think you are narrow-minded about this.
From the perspective of blood inheritance, you and your siblings do have the same blood passed down from our ancestors, but on the other hand, think about it, your descendants and grandchildren all have the blood of you and your lover, and you and your siblings inherit the same ancestor.
You and your lover are inherited by the same descendants, the same is passed down from generation to generation, is the relationship between the descendants and the ancestors exactly positive, if you turn the inheritance of the descendants upside down, is it exactly the same as the inheritance of the ancestors, is the position of the brothers and sisters and the lover exactly the same?
Therefore, it is absolutely wrong to judge that a lover is farther away than a brother or sister by blood.
And what about the emotional comparison?
Siblings may accompany you from childhood to adulthood for more than 20 years, and couples are from adulthood to death for more than 40 years.
So what about the comparison in terms of relationships and interests, well, do you think brothers and sisters can be compared in these points?The succession sequence all over the world is clearly marked.
So what about the comparison in terms of birth, old age, sickness and death?
In this regard, it seems that twins and parents can compare with lovers, parents and twin sisters may accompany you to give birth and recuperate, this birth and raising means that you are born and raised, and your lover accompanies you to give birth and raise sick and die, this birth and raising refers to your birth and raising, and after death, the children generally try to be buried together.
If you don't get a grave all the time, you may be able to be with your other half until you are old, Oh yes, don't say that you don't know anything after death, it's meaningless, and you don't know anything before you are born, but it's just as meaningless.
Moreover, the husband and wife also have to form a new family, face the pressure of life together, share property and debts, etc., which are not comparable to brothers and sisters.
After a few years, I can remember that you can sacrifice you are also the descendants of your husband and wife, and will never be the children of brothers and sisters, so I think about it, it is still closer to the husband and wife, and there are only your parents who can compare with your other half.
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Husband and wife relationship, brother and sister love belongs to different systems, after marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is in the core position of the major family system, is the primary, in the priority maintenance, husband and wife relationship is good, in order to honor parents, deal with the relationship between brothers and sisters to better reach a consensus, in order to give birth to the next generation, more willing, more good atmosphere to edify children, good relationship between husband and wife, in order to better promote the orderly replacement of life.
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Hello, this question is not easy to say, everyone thinks differently, so the choice is different. But no matter what, don't ignore the relationship between husband and wife, which is an important bond to maintain family harmony. You can usually communicate more with your husband and care more about your husband, and when the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, you will naturally have a harmonious and happy home.
Hope you are happy!
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The relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between brother and sister cannot be compared, one is the relationship after love, and the other is family affection, I think both are very important, so there is no comparison. It is impossible for a man who really loves you to hide it, hoping to bring you home to meet your parents and friends as soon as possible, so that you can give you the sense of security you want in the world, and rob others first.
Habits are not achieved overnight, it is a way of life that accumulates over time, and it is difficult to change, but if there is a person who is willing to change your daily habits for you, this must be a way to love misery.
If you love someone, you always want to change for the other person, and you want to be able to live as the other person wants, as long as the other person is happy, you always think that all the efforts are worth it.
When a man loves a certain woman deeply, what he hopes most is to establish a relationship with the other party, but in real life, he is often cautious, afraid that the other party will think too much and hurt the other party, because he cares too much will cherish it, will be afraid of losing, and is unwilling to hurt you at all.
The more a man is afraid of his partner in a relationship, the more it shows true love, why are many men strict in marriage? This is not a real fear, but a manifestation of true love, only in front of the lover will he keep bowing his head, will he continue to show weakness.
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There is no way to compare this, one is the wife who loves him, and the other is the blood relationship that he grew up with since childhood, family affection is the most important person in his life, and there is no way to compare the indispensable.
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This is not comparable, because couples are the ones who decide to be together for the rest of their lives. Brothers and sisters are related by their own blood, how can there be any comparison between relatives who are difficult to part with for a lifetime? It will only make your life more boring, and they are all indispensable in your life.
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People can only have one chance in their lives to choose brother and sister love, but love can be encountered at different times and in different places. Weigh up for yourself.
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It cannot be compared, because husband and wife and brother and sister are relatives, and the feelings between relatives cannot be compared with things.
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There is no comparison between the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between brother and sister, because the relationship between husband and wife is more responsibility than affection.
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It cannot be compared, the relationship between husband and wife is long-lasting, and the relationship between brother and sister is innate.
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Husband and wife, husband and wife live for a lifetime.
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Husband and wife are family, and of course the most important thing. Brothers are relatives and have grown up together since childhood. It's best not to make trade-offs. All important.
Hope, thank you.
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Both are important, brother and sister love is blood relationship blood dissolved in water must be wanted, and husband and wife are the ones who mix you to the end of your life, take care of you when you are sick, and accompany you when you are troubled, so both are important.
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There is no comparison between the two. Husband and wife are dependent on each other, brother and sister are family relationships, both are important, how can they be compared?
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Who is in the house?The wife and children are young, so they are not married, their parents and brothers and sisters, and after they start a family, their wives and children are old and young.
It's not a contradiction, if you abandon your spouse for your brother and sister, will your brother and sister lose your divorce and remarriage?
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Which one is really getting along with each other matters.
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Psychologist Snoek once pointed out that both brothers and lovers should conform to the model of mutual dependence. Whether it is a brother or a lover is interdependent.
Among them, siblings have increased their intimacy with each other from a similar environment since childhood. In psychology, it is called the simple ** effect.
Growing up together, naturally, more intimate.
As we grow up, we look for each other's other half. The other half is that we build a small family with each other. Naturally, siblings who were once very close in the relationship are not so close anymore.
At this stage, your partner and your child will occupy most of your time.
In general, with the progress of society, we are constantly adapting to this society. And from the very nature of society. From our perspective with our loved ones, lovers.
There is no comparison between them. They are all an indispensable part of our lives, and they just accompany us at different times.
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The lack of silver is important, the parents are dependent on each other for a lifetime, the relationship of the white-headed old together, the Jane family, the brothers and sisters are in trouble, and they can give selfless or sincere help.
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Adults don't make choices, and it matters to sign. But if you really want to choose one or the other, I personally think that it is still husband and wife, husband and wife get along day and night, in fact, most people's general life is spent with the object, and the time is even more than that of their parents. So I think the relationship between husband and wife is more important.
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It's all important, many times we have to look at right and wrong, and don't just weigh it with family relationships, many people prefer the relationship between husband and wife, resulting in a bad relationship between siblings, so it depends on what you think, after all, there are many practical factors.
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Personally, I think it's all important, and there is no priority or priority. Because the other half is the person who will accompany you for the rest of your life, and the siblings are the people who are related to you by blood, you grow up together and witness each other's growth, both relationships are important.
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The relationship between husband and wife is important because the other half is the person you rely on and accompany for life, and the siblings also have their own families, and they will focus on their own families.
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In my opinion, the relationship between husband and wife is more important, because the other half is the person who has been with you the most time, and even the closest sisters cannot follow you forever.
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The relationship between husband and wife is very important, because the other half will spend more time with you than your brothers and sisters, and you will have to support each other in the days to come, and it is your favorite partner who will follow you through hardships and hardships.
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I think it's all important, but people who have been hurt by feelings will always say that when nature is the closest relationship between sisters, the relationship between husband and wife is not stable in many cases, maybe the relationship will be bad one day, and they will part ways.
The relatives are different, there is a blood relationship, even if the relationship is not good, it is still a relative, and it is a fact that cannot be changed.
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Of course, it's all important, on the one hand, your relatives, the people you grew up with; On the other side are also your loved ones, the people with whom you will spend the rest of your life. Both sides are important, no one should give up.
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Originally, they were all more important, but which one is more important, I think the relationship between husband and wife is more important, husband and wife have to live together every day, if the relationship between husband and wife is not good, quarrel every day, it is better to divorce as soon as possible.
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Is the relationship between husband and wife more important or brotherhood? Take a look at the answers in psychology.
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I think the relationship between husband and wife is more important, husband and wife have to live together for a lifetime, and brothers and sisters have not lived with us for a lifetime, of course, the relationship between husband and wife is important.
First of all, you said that he took the initiative to ask to be your brother, then he must have thought about it before making this request, and decided to position you in the position of a sister. So you don't have to worry too much, sometimes relatives are not as good as friends, it's not bad that you have a brother who cares about you so much! You should be happy! >>>More
Don't contact her for 2 weeks, give it a try.
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Legally, no, the law stipulates that close relatives are blood relatives within three generations, counting up from you, your generation, your parents' generation, and your grandfather's generation. Your uncle and your mother are sisters, belonging to the parents' generation, and you are only the second generation in your generation, and you and your uncle's family are cousins, and if they are indeed related by blood, they cannot get married, because there is a high possibility that the next generation after marriage will suffer from diseases. >>>More
If so, of course it's the parents. I have 1 parent in my life. If the wife is gone, you can marry. If you want both of them. Just try to mediate.
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