It s been a year, and I still can t forget why

What's this?I haven't forgotten to have a crush on a girl for three years, and you've at least talked to her. What is there to regret?

It's hard to feel that the beauty you once had is suddenly gone. Like half a month after I just broke up with my girlfriend, I woke up in the middle of the night at any time. found that there was only one person, and everyone knew the feeling of loneliness and loneliness.

But what can be done?Only to silently endure the heartache of loneliness. Forget, but don't forget.

If you really miss her, if she and you are still in the same city, one place. You can take a sneak peek at her, how is she doing?Deliberately forgetting a person will not work, it will only make you miss more.

I can only imagine in my mind if I met her on the street, or said hello and asked how she was doing. And so it can only be.

Also, let's go find a girlfriend again. You'll forget about that.

If you can't get along with each other, then forget about each other.

As long as you remember this once and beyond.

Get numb first, and then find something to do for yourself.

And then for a long, long time, when you think that the daughter outside the forest is good, it is estimated that it will be about the same, otherwise, it will be delayed for a long time.

But if all the conditions are met.

I also want to see the stories in fairy tales

Who can forget this day?Two days after the opening of the Olympics dizziness.

Next time, find such a day for good things, and find something easy to forget for bad things.

But it's hard to forget the person you once loved, and now I'm adapting, there are two things:

1.When I think about her, I think about her shortcomings.

2.You can only think about her good when you don't want her.

For many years, I can't forget a person because of my inner obsession, whether it is love, family or friendship, I can't forget a person is often because of my previous regrets and previous memories engraved in my heart, and then continue to take root and sprout and become my inner obsession.

When that person really appears in front of you, you will be relieved to find that that person is not so important, but just to put an end to your past and your regrets. If you really want to forget this person, it is better to meet once, and maybe you will really let go.

I think most people who haven't been in a relationship for a long time have someone in their hearts who can't forget for many years. This person may not affect your life, but they live deeply in your memories and keep a special place in your heart for him.

I think the reason why many people can't forget a person for so many years is probably because this person has left a particularly deep impression on themselves. I think this kind of existence, first love is such an existence, many people can't forget the reason why the first love is because it left a deep impression, because after all, it is the first person they like, and it is the most ignorant but sincere feeling, which is the relationship that can never be met again. I myself have a special feeling for my first love, so much so that now two or three years have passed, and I still have his place in my heart, probably the most sincere when I was young.

The second reason, I think, is because I am a person who is more nostalgic for the old, some people are the kind of people who like the new and hate the old or can quickly put into a new life after breaking up, so they face the people of the past, holding the attitude of not going to the old and not going to the new, and they will not have too much nostalgia, but some people just miss the old and can't forget that person The reason is because they have been thinking about it all these years and don't want to start a new life, so they have not made progress, and their personality is like this, so it leads to such a result.

Everyone will more or less have the person who can't forget it, why, I can't tell you clearly, he may not be the most handsome, not the best, not considerate enough, and even a little impatient with himself, not patient enough to be angry with himself, but I can't forget it, sometimes I wonder if I am stunned, why I can't let go of him.

Maybe it was because the weather was just right that day, he gently patted your head with his hand, and the pain fell on his hand, but his ruffian smile was imprinted in your mind and imprinted in your heart with that moment, yes, it should be at that moment that he lived in your heart, and he lived in your heart for so many years.

Maybe it's because you met him in high school, you missed the key high school because of a big mistake, and you passed the summer vacation in a mess, and you came to an ordinary high school at the beginning of school, although you comforted yourself 10,000 times, you still can't let go. The sentence on the table, "If you come to it, you will be safe" has been described over and over again, and it has also become a nick, and the disappointment has also turned into motivation, how did you come to high school, I forgot, I just remember that I didn't laugh, I had the same dream every night, and this time I couldn't find the admission ticket for the high school entrance examination, and then the whole world collapsed ......A whole year's nightmare, it's not that I'm unhappy, it seems to be accurate that I don't dare, I'm afraid that I'm full of joy, and in the end it will end in tragedy. Why did I end up in this school, God, what are you going to do?

I've asked this countless times. But when he saw all this, he seemed to have an answer.

The sophomore year of high school was no longer dark, he was just a ray of light, first a spot of light, then a ray of light, and then it was all bright. Yes, the first half of my sophomore year was my happiest time because of him. Anyway, youth is a waste no matter how it is lived, I am willing to waste it on him, and the youth spent on him will be immortal, you see, in those times, that time is still shining in my heart.

I can't ask for it, I can't let it go. The ancients were really wise, yes, it is precisely because they can't ask for it, so they can't forget it. You think you can't love people, but his appearance tells you that you are a mortal and have sentient feelings.

You are respectful to the teacher, because he is against the teacher for the first time. You have always had the spirit of Ah Q and never knew the taste of jealousy, or because of him, you have seen and truly experienced the ugliness and pain of jealousy. You think you can't be considerate of people, he has a fever and doesn't know it, but you know, or he lets you know that a person doesn't love you, and his sincerity is like a.

Yes, maybe I still love it, because when you meet occasionally, you will still giggle involuntarily, and your heart will still flutter, just like when he clapped your forehead many years ago, your heart is the same.

People are not sages, and many truths are understood more than they can't be relieved.

may be married, have children, and have grandchildren, but I still can't forget the shadow of the past, and the thoughts that have lingered in my heart for a long time are constantly stirring!

In fact, this topic has been said many times, but what you can't get will always be in turmoil, because you don't get it, so you will be praised to the high god position.

No matter what happened in the past, it will slowly fade with the passage of time, the anger in life will slowly smooth out, and the stories and people that were once remembered in the heart will begin to fade.

When I want to remember again, I can't remember many details clearly, so this phenomenon is created, the good part is infinitely magnified, and the bad part is forgiven and redeemed because of time.

As a result, a perfect person was born, buried in the bottom of his heart and became a bright moonlight.

Many people will fantasize that it is a relief from the boredom of real life. Do people who get along day and night still use fantasies? You don't need to use your brain to know what dishes he likes, what brand of clothes he likes, there is no sense of mystery, and he imagines that the people around him don't have that kind of satisfying desire, and only those who can't get it will have that kind of pleasant feeling.

This is the reason why people are slow to forget others, maybe not so vigorously because of the unforgettable love, just because life is too boring and always needs some spice.

In fact, people say that forgetting is a difficult thing, but most people gradually forget the original appearance in the obsession, and what remains in their minds is only their own imagination and regret for not living the good life they imagined.

1. Not used to being alone. When we used to be together, it was two people, but when we broke up, we suddenly changed from two people to one person, naturally, there will be all kinds of unaccustomed feelings, feeling very lonely, and being very lonely and helpless. Living in two people for a long time and suddenly becoming one person is very uncomfortable, so in life, I often unconsciously think of when I was with each other.

2. Unwillingness. Because I have loved, I have gone all out for the relationship, and I have spent countless hours and experiences for this relationship, and I have paid a lot. However, after paying so much, in the end, it was a failure.

Therefore, the heart is extremely unwilling. is unwilling, therefore, after the breakup, I always want to redeem it, and I don't want all my efforts to be in vain.

3. Still in love. Sometimes, the breakup is not caused by something important, but often by something small, which may be caused by anger or impulsiveness. In ordinary life, in fact, the relationship is still very good, so such a breakup is a bit unexpected.

After the breakup, I still have feelings for each other, and I still love each other in my heart. Therefore, it is very boyfriends who let go of each other, and they are reluctant to let go.

Because he is the person you really love, and you haven't met his type of person in your later life, you will feel more regretful in your heart, and it will be more difficult to let go, and you can only keep it in your heart forever.

Of course, it may also be that he taught you a lot of sophistication, and even changed your outlook on life, and he has had a profound impact on you, which is one of the reasons why you can't forget him.

There is nothing bad in remembering, he can also be used as your mate selection criteria in the future, the existence of that memory is also a witness to your past feelings, just to retain the good feelings of the past.

Memory, it's really happy, it's sad, memory, it can make us remember what happened, everything that happened, so that we can recall it later, it can make us feel gratified, happy, content, memory is a thing that allows us to know everything that happened to us from childhood to adulthood, leaving us with a good childhood, since then, we have deleted all contacts, we have deleted all the things about that time, we are not in contact, we are not talking, and we have really become the most familiar strangers, I want to forget him, I want to completely forget as if I never knew him, but the memories just remind you, remember how good we used to be together, remember the scenes where we often ate together and sing, remember that I would send us blessings every year at zero o'clock on my birthday, remember that every time I was sick, no matter how late it was, he would send me medicine downstairs at my house, and I remembered the bits and pieces between us.

So, I can't forget him, because the more I want to forget, the more I can think of our past, he was good to me, but now we are no longer friends, QQ, deleted, even his space can't enter, I can't see his recent dynamics, I don't know if he has been like me recently, whether he is also missing each other like me, lost is lost, so, I hope you don't lose the relationship of good friends for many years because of a little thing, I hope you can all become friends who will never be separated, I hope you all are well, and I hope that friend of mine is all the best in the future.

Your experience is similar to mine, but I'm just beginning, that is, I can't forget to leave her in your heart, in fact, it's not a question of who changes and doesn't change, what's the use of caring about these at this time, I just have a dead heart, and now I still miss her very much, this is my first love, I am sincere to her so I can't accept this reality, but I love her, I want to give her happiness, don't put pressure on her, although my heart is very reluctant, but her choice, I respect her, I will bless her, silently continue to love her, I will keep the promise that belongs to us and love her forever!! So don't forget it deliberately, since you can't forget it, remember it! From time to time, I think about it, although it is sad, but at least you were happy!!

There are things that can be remembered in a moment, but it takes us a lifetime to forget. There are things that we spend a lifetime remembering only to be forgotten in an instant. It has been said that the best way to forget one person is to meet another.

Only I know that even if I meet another person, I still can't make up for the defect in my heart.

Forgetting is just lying to yourself.

Why forget? Is it just the result that matters? In fact, what I care about is that the process is the only thing that I forget.

The way to remember a person is to make yourself crazy or dead

Lost beauty. Leigh is forever in pain and helpless, stop pushing yourself.

If you want to forget the person you like, you almost have to spend time dilute everything, and there are two reasons why you can't forget it.

One is that you value feelings. You need time.

The second is that you still like him and love him.

If it's the previous person's reason. It's easy to do.

Do more of what you love. Make a few more friends.

Or focus on work. Don't let yourself get cranky!

If it's the latter, it's a bit tricky!

Time is not the cure for the wounds of love.

Unless there is really a water of forgetfulness in this world.

But I want to tell you. You can't forget a person, even if it's painful.

But don't try to find another person to forget about someone's relationship!

That would be counterproductive. Unless you've found another love! First of all, let your mind decide to forget, otherwise nothing will work 1:

Let yourself fall in love with another person. 2: (self-deception) Psychological suggestion, every day I keep saying to myself that I don't love him.

If you still love her, set off again to chase her.