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Since ancient times, the true feelings cannot be retained, only routines can win the hearts of the people", which does not sound in line with traditional values, but it is a summary of many facts and experiences. Why is this happening? Because it conforms to the internal guidelines of interpersonal relationships to a certain extent.
It is difficult to convey true feelings.
Everyone is born lonely, although social neurological studies have shown that individual neural functions can transmit some emotions, but there is still a big gap from people's expected emotional transmission effect, and the emotions that people send out are very asymmetrical with the emotions received by others.
Under the influence of human cultural factors, people's emotions have become very complex, and the ancient nervous system that has evolved naturally is difficult to capture these complex emotions. At this time, people need to consciously express their emotions, and the expression of emotions first requires the ability to be self-aware of emotions, and then also needs expressions that others can understand, including speech, expressions, bodies, behaviors, etc. Identifying the emotions of others is also a difficult consciousness activity.
All of this puts obstacles in the way of the transmission of true feelings. Under these obstacles, it is not known whether the true feelings sent by individuals can be received by others, let alone win the hearts and minds of others.
It's not what others want from you.
From the bottom of the phenomenon, what an individual needs is that his own inner needs are satisfied, which has a direct correspondence with what others can provide, and has no direct or inevitable relationship with whether others have true feelings. Therefore, what others need is not your true feelings, but the satisfaction of their own needs, fundamentally speaking, others do not care whether you have true feelings or not.
True affection is the true embodiment of a person's inner emotional needs, so its value tendency is simple and transparent, and the behavior under its guidance is sincere and stable. Its significance lies in the fact that it represents a person's attitude, but it only represents one attitude, and whether the behavior under the influence of this attitude is what others need is another matter.
A person who only knows the truth often runs into a wall, because he only understands his own needs, but does not understand the needs of others, so he completely ignores the needs of others in his actual actions. How selfish is the objective effect of such behavior. At the same time, it is like a blind person who only knows his own world, but does not know the world of others, how stupid this behavior is.
Of course, in real life, there will not be people who only understand their own true feelings and do not understand the needs of others at all, but everyone understands to a different degree.
A person who only knows the truth may also get a positive response from others, that is, the objective effect of his behavior just meets the needs of others, but this requires luck.
Of course, in real life, there will not be people who only understand their own true feelings and do not understand the needs of others at all, but everyone understands to a different degree.
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Since ancient times, affection has not been retained, and it has always won the hearts of the people.
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Since ancient times, affection has not been retained, but there are routines to win people's hearts.
The meaning of this sentence is: Since ancient times, people who have used sincerity and sincerity have often not been valued, but are not as popular as people who do a set of things (sleek and scheming).
This verse is from Tong Yao's "Ace Imperial History".
The sea vow is useless, and it has to be filled with gold and silver. Since ancient times, affection has not been retained, and it has always won the hearts of the people. Punch pants.
The revelation of this sentence:
Promise that this thing is too worthless, the matter of touching the upper and lower teeth, there is no cost, just listen to it, enter the ear, don't care. What forces you forward is not the faint light in front of you, but the abyss of reality behind you. The relationship between people is like knitting a sweater.
When you build, you can take a stitch and a thread, carefully and long, and when you dismantle it, as long as you pull it gently, uninstalling will always be faster than installing, and losing will always be faster than getting.
Love is, if there is no better choice, I will accompany you to the end of the world. There is a truth that adults must understand: how much chicken soup Wendu.
It's not as safe as a banknote.
Less hypocrisy, more effort. The kind of life you want to live, you have to earn yourself.
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1. Since ancient times, the routine has won the hearts of the people, but only the chaos and affection cannot be retained.
2. Since ancient times, people with true feelings are often not valued, but they are not as popular as people who do things.
3. Since ancient times, routines have won the hearts of the people, and those who have routines have won the hearts of the people.
4. Since ancient times, routines have won the hearts of the people, but it is not as good as technology to win the hearts of the people.
5. Since ancient times, the routine has won the hearts of the people, and finally retains you affectionately.
6. Since ancient times, the routine has won the hearts of the people, the society is very simple, and the complex is people.
7. Since ancient times, the routine has won the hearts of the people, and the same routine is easy to use as soon as possible, but it is necessary to be cautious when using the banquet again.
8. Since ancient times, routines have won people's hearts, and the best and easiest way to encounter routines is to "keep yourself". Don't be greedy, think about what you want, and stick to the simplest self.
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Since ancient times, affection has not been retained, and it is always the heart of the routine.
This means that since ancient times, people with true hearts and feelings have often been ignored and ignored. On the contrary, it is not as good as people with deep routines and scheming people who can get what they want.
If it is not a classic saying, if you want to follow the previous sentence or the next sentence, as long as you read the history and express it according to your own ideas, you can try to rhyme as much as possible, and you can do it well in concise and concise expression. But if it's a classic quote, then you can't change it randomly, otherwise you will be laughed at and generous.
Extended Content:
I don't know when the word "routine" became popular. The word taolu was first used in Chinese martial arts.
That's right, it's the kind of guy who gets knocked out by someone after playing a whole set of flower fists and embroidered legs, that's the routine. Later, it was widely used in various fields.
Since ancient times, people with sincerity and sincerity have often not been valued, but they are not as popular as people who do things (sleek and scheming). There is a sigh of sincerity and sincerity, but it is not as good as others to play tricks, and it means to be appreciated.
This verse is from Tong Yao's "Ace Imperial History".
The sea vow is useless, and it has to be filled with gold and silver. Since ancient times, affection has not been retained, and it has always won the hearts of the people.
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