At 16 years old, I felt like I was living a garbage life seeking comfort

Updated on psychology 2024-07-15
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Many times in our lives, we can't control our emotions, and the wet and dry periods are to adjust our mentality! In these two periods, which are also two opposite concepts, the dry period: the hopeless juncture of life, the low period of chaos without hope; Wet season:

    A wreath of success in life, a wreath shrouded in flower excitement.

    During these two periods, it is necessary to rely on one's own sobriety, others cannot help, learning to grit one's teeth and stand tall is the key, and it is also the key to win without being arrogant or discouraged.

    There is only one life, you are your own God, all miracles are created and controlled by yourself, you are your own God, as long as you do not bow your head, your fate will be rewritten by you.

    Every life is a pentagram that makes the sky glow with its own light, wishing you life, exuding eternal brilliance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let go of your current negative attitude.

    Friends are beautiful to manage with heart.

    It's not like you're complaining or secretly annoying and you're going to come running over on your own.

    Communication Problems Everyone starts at 0.

    You're just a little late.

    Teach you how.

    Find the friends you want to make and get in touch slowly.

    Tell him about your troubles.

    And expressed the hope that he could give you advice.

    of his opinion approve of him.

    Tell him some of your little secrets.

    It is better to exchange little secrets.

    Passing on notes can be a great way to deepen feelings.

    But don't get caught by the teacher.

    Finally, I wish you all the best.

    Don't be afraid of not having friends.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're still a long way off, so I'm not more rubbish than you? When I was in junior high school, I was often bullied by others because I was young, and my parents were not around to do business in other places, so I lived at my grandmother's house, and I often wore two different socks to laugh at others. And so on.

    And now? It's only been a few years, hehe, dragging thousands of oceans every day, driving a car, almost doing whatever he wants every day.

    I think my future will be happier, and so will you! ~~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's complicated at your age and thinks a lot. But it's basically all fantasy.

    There's no other way, get through it yourself and do what you have to do.

    It's really not okay to secretly find a psychiatrist to adjust your psychology.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm as old as you

    You know what is most important to you!

    Everyone's personality is different, and how many people have had such thoughts.

    The main reason is that parents should pay more attention to you in order to cultivate you and give you more self-confidence, so that you will not think so! Nowadays, as long as the children are fed and drunk, when we grow up, we will have the idea that we should learn more things.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is recommended that you find a boyfriend so that you will know what the world is full of sunshine. Don't be unconvinced, you try. I wish you a speedy way out of trouble!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    And what about those who don't live as well as you?

    How did he live?

    At least you're better than him.

    Relax your mind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, everyone has their own way of life, as long as you know what to do every day, the days always have to be lived day by day, just like this, don't worry about anything, anyone will live well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I sympathize with you, but I have to tell you that you shouldn't treat yourself as a special person, it will only make you more autistic. You should try to communicate with others, accept your shortcomings head-on, and try to correct them. The sky never abandons the birds, only the birds abandon the sky.

    I am also a person who has just passed this age, and this experience is the most profound, and I would like to listen to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be pessimistic, really, the flowering season has just begun.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Grit your teeth and get admitted to university.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People always use the misfortunes of others to set off their own happiness.

    Happy people are always set off by unhappy people.

    Please adopt, o( o thank you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you watch too much of the car, you think it's not good-looking, it's noisy.

    It's the same with celebrities.

    What is there to regret.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't rejoice in things, don't feel sorry for yourself, since it's all over, what do you regret him do? Be more relaxed!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It doesn't matter, you can choose other paths, life can be changed, and these irrelevant gusts of wind will pass, there is no need to do this, there is no need to regret it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no need to regret it, the road is your own, you have to believe in your own ability, and you will live better than them!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no regret medicine ... Originally, since it has passed, what is there to regret? I regret that the medicine was not sold? What's the use of regretting? Find a place to yell and vent your mind to be calmer...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What are the ones you can succeed with? Immature.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What is there to regret ... If you miss it, you miss it, and it's useless to think about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Halo, what's the big deal about celebrities.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Wouldn't it be OK to work your own and become a star!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think it's necessary. Since you like stars so much, why don't you become a star yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's good to vent, don't regret it, what is a star, you are a star, and the result of comparing yourself too much with others is that you compare people with others, you are angry, and you will go your own way if you live

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Someone else did those. You should have done something else at this time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's all spiritual enjoyment, it's useless, be practical.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In a word, opportunity is given to those who have perseverance.

    You should reflect on yourself, why don't you insist on pulling.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    From this matter, if you can find your shortcomings, your gain is far greater than your loss.

    Don't release pigeons in the future, there should be an integrity issue here.

    Regardless of whether there is remuneration or not, whether there is an agreement or not, what has been promised should not be canceled unilaterally and casually. I think there's a lack of integrity around us.

    Integrity is precious!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What do you regret, celebrities are also people. It's not a monster.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What kind of comfort, or comfort, I'm embarrassed to say you, Yan X, celebrities are not also people, there is a ball, the only use is if you do business in the future, if a big star is your iron buddy, you can not have a penny of endorsement fees, then it is really useful, but is it possible? Thinking wildly, I get angry when I hear some fans or something. Immature.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In the future, we must cherish every opportunity around us! Don't regret it!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Life is a choice, that is, persistence, don't regret if you choose, and don't regret if you persist. If they don't make it back, shouldn't you laugh at them?

    Friend: Please cherish your choices and persistence in the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why, do you feel inferior to your friends, or do you feel inferior? You have to believe that everyone is unique, and only by knowing yourself correctly can you find your own unique characteristics. People also have times of inferiority, inferiority is not terrible, what is terrible is eternal inferiority.

    I used to be a person with low self-esteem, and I could only live in my own miserable world. Since I was a child, I didn't like to talk, I didn't have anything outstanding, and I was even a little clumsy, my relatives always used me as a joke, my family never had hope for me, and even thought about giving me to others, I knew how sad I was, and my inferiority complex increased a lot. They prefer my sister who is better than me, my sister is better than me in everything, can sing and dance, has a good academic performance, and has won a lot of award certificates in school.

    And I always have no confidence in myself, I can only live under the aura of my sister, and I don't know what self-confidence means to me. Is my life so hopeless, I really hate myself like this, and even have extreme thoughts. It wasn't until I wanted to change myself that I met something cute.

    Introverted and withdrawn, I usually don't entertain or have pastime, and basically I don't have any friends, so I just shop when I have nothing to do to pass some boring time. One day I found a little thing in a wish bag, and I felt that it was a very magical thing. The small shop of the wish bag is called to help you get rich, the name is quite interesting, I think it would be nice if it could really help me get rich, and money can at least reduce a little inferiority complex.

    The shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying are very good, they said that the wish bag is opened, it can bring strength to people, it is very suitable for people like me who have had low self-esteem since childhood, it will make people more confident, and it may be helpful to bring one on the body. I think this wish bag is destined for me, he will give me the change I want, and I believe that it will be different from before when I wear it. I think I can only give myself a little courage and strength in this way, and at least psychologically comforting.

    Sure enough, it's really different, I find that I am much more confident than before, I can say whatever I want, dare to express my opinions and opinions, and I also want to try new things and contact more people, and I no longer feel that I am inferior to others, because there is a saying that I am born to be useful, and it turns out that I can also be so confident. My family saw the change in me, and they didn't believe it was real, and they thought that I was a different person, only I knew that it was true. As long as you are willing to believe in yourself, miracles will happen, and the ugly duckling will turn into a beautiful white swan.

    I think change is the only way to get a new lease of life, even though some of the methods seem so incredible.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    We must be full of stress and negative emotions in life, but don't let these emotions affect our normal life, the most important thing is that we need to do our best, so that it may be the best.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Don't complain, don't create negative energy, and bear it silently. Well said, great!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The pain of life is nothing more than two aspects, 1 life, 2 feelings. Your painful willingness should be the second, guess you're a girl, your current situation is not so serious, you don't need mental counseling, go out for a trip, or chat with good friends are not wrong choices. I wish you a speedy way out of the confusion.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Mmmm, be full of positive energy all the time.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Do you want to rely on the love of others?

    This world is like this, if you don't adapt to this environment, you can't survive, learn to be independent, learn to release yourself, this world is not as bad as you think, in fact, sometimes fate may choose you, isn't it?

    Isn't it amazing and mysterious to go to the future with a heart for the future?

    If you don't have a lot of ability, you have to exercise your ability, right? Instead of blindly complaining, try to surround yourself with positive energy, not let everyone see that negative energy surrounds you!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you want to open it, everyone is like this. As long as you realize that people live like this in the world, you won't be so uncomfortable.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Everyone has their own responsibilities, they have their own helplessness, there is nothing that they can't get by, believe in yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This is also a very helpless thing.,The current society is like this.,A lot of times I look like I have a lot of friends.,But there's basically no one who can tell the truth.。

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In fact, it is really difficult to find such a real confidant now, which is a very long phenomenon.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You don't have to be like this, it's normal if you're still in school

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's all the same! I'm also 18, it's normal, I have to bear it myself.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Everyone will have their own things, and the only one who can really accompany you may be yourself.

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