What should I talk about on a blind date with a woman?

If it's the first time you're meeting. Both sides are relatively unfamiliar, so it is natural to speak politely. Don't ask too sensitive words to mention.

Don't even ask me how you feel about me. Do you like me or not? This kind of thing, because she doesn't come out.

I haven't even figured out how to like it. Otherwise, it's a different kind of thing, and it doesn't feel for you. So when you're together, ask each other what they used to do.

What do you like to play? What hobbies do you have? Anyway, it's just a matter of the world.

Try to find common interests. At that time, I couldn't talk a lot when we met for the first time.

The first time we met, it was a simple way to get to know each other, clean up (not cool, not handsome, just your usual appearance, simple is the truth), just don't be cold.

Whether girls can open conditions in blind dates is a complex issue that needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

First of all, if a girl is an independent, intelligent and promising person, she may have certain plans and expectations for her future life. In the blind date, she hopes to find a partner who has the same heart and values as herself, and can grow together. At this time, she can appropriately express her expectations and requirements, including family background, career, hobbies, etc.

This will also allow the other person to have a clearer understanding of her needs and expectations, and to communicate more specifically.

Secondly, you need to pay attention to the wording and method of opening conditions in blind dates. Girls can use self-esteem as a sign of self-confidence and self-esteem, rather than forcing the other person to accept or threaten them. At the same time, girls should also try to avoid overly demanding or unreasonable conditions, which may make the other person have a negative impression and even do not want to associate with them.

Finally, girls can make conditions in blind dates, but they need to make judgments based on the specific situation and their actual situation. If she pays more attention to her inner world and qualities, then she can find someone who really understands herself, and she doesn't need to prescribe too many conditions; If she pays more attention to external factors such as money, status, etc., then it may need to be expressed appropriately. In short, in blind dates, we must adhere to the principles of truth, confidence and respect in order to find a good relationship.

In today's society, many older young men and women are difficult to find suitable partners for various reasons.

The social circle is narrow, there is no opportunity to meet the opposite sex, work is busy, there is no time to fall in love and other factors, which delay the youth and happiness of many people.

Xiaohua is a more enterprising woman, she is in her early thirties, and she has not yet found a boyfriend, not because she doesn't want to find it, but because she has never met the person she likes.

Every time I go home for the Chinese New Year, I will always be asked by relatives and friends about finding a partner. As long as Xiaohua says that he doesn't have a boyfriend yet, those three aunts and six mothers-in-law will offer to help Xiaohua introduce a partner. However, Xiaohua advocates free love and doesn't like to go on blind dates, so he refuses every time.

Recently, Xiaohua's father talked to Xiaohua seriously, which roughly means that they are older, Xiaohua is a lot older, and if they can't find a boyfriend, they will go home on a blind date. Xiaohua is very entangled, should he accept his parents' arrangement to go on a blind date?

Let me share some of my thoughts:

First of all, as parents, they all hope that their children can live happily, get married and have children, and have a stable home. Blind date is also a quick way to get to know the opposite sex, and people who don't have a partner can try it.

Secondly, blind dates are just a very common thing, and there is no need to put too much psychological pressure on yourself. Just go to the state to pretend to be a very ordinary friend, have a meal, and chat. If the other party's conditions are good and the character is good, you can try to date, if you feel that the other party is not your ideal person first, you can refuse to contact again.

In the end, everyone's life is very long, and if you go through the road of life by yourself, it is really boring. If you meet a person of the opposite sex, organize a happy family together, have children, and live an ordinary life, you can experience the true meaning of happiness.

Blind date steps. The first is introduced by the matchmaker to the two of you to meet, the second is to introduce the general situation of the two of you after meeting, the third is to give up time and space for the two of you to chat together alone, the fourth is that the matchmaker will come forward to pull you or the other party aside to ask about the meeting, the fifth is that the matchmaker will call ** or come to your house to ask about the specific situation of the meeting, the sixth matchmaker informs the woman of the man's opinion or the woman informs the man's opinion, and the seventh is whether the final opinion can continue to develop!

The main attention in the blind date process is: your luck regrets that people are decent, to be casual, and do not necessarily have a straight suit, leather shoes are shiny, as long as it looks comfortable and refreshing (both men and women are the same), to the other party's house if you are a man, you must be ready to prepare cigarettes and lighters, to the other party's home to pay attention to send cigarettes and help each other light the fire (women to the man's house do not use), when there are more people, talk less, listen to each other more, if the other party's home is particular about please drink tea and snacks to pay attention to the occasion, do not eat and drink, pay attention to manners, Don't be the last to finish eating, don't get drunk when you drink, it's easy to make mistakes when you're drunk, that's probably it, if you're satisfied, you can also ask!