Does your boyfriend care about your past?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Those who are in favor of the 1st floor, since you love him, you must respect him and respect his ideas. If you love him and want to be with him for a long time, you should discuss with him and be considerate of each other. ......And having had a relationship, I think your boyfriend may not just be a matter of a man's self-esteem, but really cares about you and doesn't want to lose you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    -He's afraid that you'll have a relationship with that man again...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I said don't be angry if you're stupid, because you're really not smart!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    is something that men will care about.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not everyone cares so much about the past, but if he says don't contact him, don't contact him if there's no need to do so. It's also a kind of respect for him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's false to say that you don't care, and I want to ask you, do women care about their past?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's human nature that a lot of men are like this.

    Approaching, everyone is an ordinary person, not a saint.

    It's always a little jealous to think that my girlfriend has such a good relationship with other men.

    I'm jealous.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Just because you don't care about his past doesn't mean he doesn't care about your past.

    And now that person is still related to you before, and you don't care if he wants it at all, will you think that he doesn't care about you?

    It's better to keep a little distance from other male friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, men care more about this. You better don't contact him. If you like him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love someone love all of him, of course, embrace the past, if he cares about your past, then divide it, because you can't change the facts of the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, your parents are right. If there is a gap in my heart now, what should I do when we get acquainted with each other? As for loving him, I advise you not to take it too seriously, people's hearts are fickle, and I don't know how many thoughts come up every day.

    Imagine if you were to break up, would you still be uncomfortable - the essence of this breakup has not changed. When you meet a better and more suitable person in the future, you will feel ridiculous about your current self.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I really love you, and I'll be fine after a while, if it doesn't go on like this, it's best to break up, and he will always reveal this scar.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You love him, but he doesn't mind your past, so maybe because he cares about you too much, you give him a few days to think about it. Have a good talk.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What kind of man is of use?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, what is yours is yours, and there is no need to force it. There is no need for such a man to be sad for him at all, who has no past, then cares about a person's past, is not a man at all. Besides, what about classmates knowing, it shows that this man has low self-esteem and has no opinions.

    It's also unreliable, and it's not worth your life. Girl, think about it carefully, do you feel that such a man is worthy of your love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It should be fine, in fact, this man loves you, and it is because he loves you that he will be like this...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If he breaks up with you because of this, it means that he doesn't love you, so wait and see.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He's just a little bit of a hard time with himself... It might be better to let go.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Even if the man says it's okay now, bear with you. But I bet the man would mind!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Take a look at "The Character of a Gentleman".

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think you should give up on such a man!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm talking to him about it、If he still has this attitude。

    So be resolute

    Don't get married in the future He also used this matter as a bargaining chip for threats

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not wise to confess in the past, Tong Da is often the beginning of tragedy, a man can not care about what you have done before, but it is not good to get on the sedan and tell him in a hurry.

    A man who loves you, is wise, forgiving, and responsible will not ask about your past affairs, he only cares about your future life and not your past.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, I think the most important thing for two people to be together is to be honest, if he asks you, you should be honest with him about your past. As the first male surge in the state, I think it doesn't matter if a girlfriend or wife is a place, if he talks about this matter every day, it will be better to break it early.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can only tell him that if you can accept it, you can accept it, and you can't accept it, and after you get married, you find out, and the consequence is divorce.

    This is what you asked for yourself, hey, no way, providence.

    There is no traditional man who is not smiling.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he really loves you, then he won't care about your past, if he cares, leave as soon as possible, there is no need to dwell on it

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If he cares about you, he doesn't care about your past, and if he doesn't care about you, then he should leave.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whether he can accept it or not, he still has to be sincere, so as not to hurt both of you, and if your sincerity can't impress him, you will have to reap the consequences.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't say it well, even if you really don't care on the surface, you will mind it in your heart.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't say it!! That's it! Love, need a little privacy!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Break up, if your boyfriend minds your past, it is clear that he doesn't love you so much, and if you have a quarrel, he will definitely mention these things again, so it's best to break up early.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It shows that he doesn't love you deeply yet, and my ex-girlfriend is also the second time, and I didn't mind at first, but after a long time, because she was very good to me, I was relieved, who hasn't made mistakes. As long as you are good to him and love him. It is completely reasonable, no one is humble or great, love is a matter of two people.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Feelings can't be forced, the person who loves you will understand you, after all, it's a thing of the past, if he always holds on, then you won't be happy after you get married!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Men and women are equal, there is no need to wronged yourself, no matter how messy he is, he is not qualified to say you, break up with him, don't wronged yourself, if you get married in the future, it will scold you and scold you even more ugly, leave him, you have to find someone who loves you very much and then be with him

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then break up, if he doesn't mind it, he can't love you wholeheartedly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let's break up. Stay with him. You will certainly not be happy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Is it? Then there's no reason for him to be kept!

    Who hasn't clicked it yet! Right?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Long-distance relationship, if love, love ...... deeplyOccupy a place first, wait and reply!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you love him, you should care for him and love him.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Emotional things are not easy to say, the key is how you understand them. He cares more about you than about himself, then you are very important to him, sometimes you can't just look at the surface, you have to experience it with your heart, in order to understand whether he really cares about you.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's really hard to say, but feelings are the most subtle.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If the breakup is not due to some personality problems, both parties will leave room for each other. Of course, the premise is that you don't have a boyfriend yet, and he doesn't have a girlfriend yet. If you have a sweetheart, that kind of care is just a kind of good friend's care.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I'm a guy and I had 2 girlfriends before I fell in love. When my current girlfriend and I first fell in love, she also asked me about my experience of falling in love, and I was very honest about my experience, because I felt that I was 100% committed, although I was dumped, but I had a clear conscience about my feelings. So you can't judge a person by how many times he has been in love, because sometimes a person's experience is not something he can decide, but depends on the person's character.

    Let's talk about your boyfriend, unlike me, he seems to cheat on you, which is not a good thing to do. What I hate the most is deception, because I don't feel safe, and you also mentioned that he QQ is very attentive later, I can't say that you break up, just advise you to observe your boyfriend more, if he is sincere to you, then you don't have to care too much about his past, because he didn't make a mistake in principle, and he has been entangled in the past just to drill the horns, it is meaningless.

    I hope it can help you, welcome to ask.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you can't let go, it means that you care about him very much, since you care, don't look at the past, try to look back, and think: Who doesn't have a history?! It's not a bad thing to have history, he will make comparisons and understand who is most important to him.

    What you have to see now is where you are in his mind, and that's all that matters. Since he deliberately concealed the previous things, I think he still cares about you, sometimes men lie in good faith, and don't want you to worry about those things, in this case, why not go with the flow, in fact, sometimes a woman who understands in her heart but doesn't say much is more cherished and distressed. As for QQ, it's just a specific occasion, a specific language, virtual, let go of some and be happier!

    Hope it helps.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you love her sincerely, you don't have to worry about this, it must be before people know you. The key is that as long as you are wholeheartedly good to you in the future, this is the most important thing. He must have a reason for not telling you, and you should understand it properly.

    Anything can happen in the current social situation, and now that there is transparency between you and him, let it pass in the past, and happiness in the future is the most important thing. People must not live in the unpleasant shadows of the past, and to meet a better tomorrow, there is still a long way to go. Besides, all the things he did before were his mistakes, and the mistakes he made don't need you to suffer and suppress, don't think about it anymore.

    As long as you treat each other sincerely, you will be happy.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Dear, the past is always the past, what you have to care about, not the past, is his future, is his future can you grasp it, the past has always become the past, if it is not the past and his girlfriend are unhappy, how can they be separated, you have to care more about him, care too much about the past, it will make him feel very wrong, maybe there will be a crack in the relationship, so the past is in the past, in the future, you have to join hands with him for a lifetime.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Something like this, it's not that you don't do it well, it's your boyfriend to blame As a boy, doing this kind of thing is irresponsible, irresponsible, and irresponsible For such a man, even if you pay more, he still can't help.

    Break up with him quickly Don't let go Don't let go Don't let go Long pain is better than short pain Now he hurts you like this Maybe he will hurt you even more in the future! Sometimes love is unfair, and there will be no return for what you give! But friendship is rewarded!

    And family affection does not need to be paid to be rewarded! Well, let your heart hibernate and care about what you should care about! Although what I say is not perfect and incisive, I hope to heal the wounds in your heart!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Your reaction is normal, but if someone else knows this, not to mention that the person concerned still knows each other, and it is very embarrassing to meet, so it is not so easy to let go.

    If you are sure that the other person and yourself are single-minded, then it is worth you to tolerate the other person's past, it is worth you to give the other person a chance, and also give yourself a chance, because the present and the future are always more important than the past.

    However, first of all, make sure that the other party is single-minded, otherwise it is really not worth it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    In fact, you don't care much about his past, you care more about his present, and you care about whether he still has abnormal relationships with other women, so you now have to confirm whether he really has normal relationships with other women, and whether he really likes you. Figure this out, and you'll be relieved.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Everyone's past has something that is not so easy to talk about, but when you feel that you have to walk with someone, you can have a future by being honest about the past. So my view is that no matter how deep a person's sins are, as long as he is willing to bow his head and confess his mistakes, then he can be trusted. And if a person chooses to cover up their mistakes with lies, then that person is not worth paying.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I think if you love him until you are old, tolerate him If you care, let him write a letter of guarantee, give him one last chance, if he loses his temper with you, he will be divided (if you love someone, you must tolerate him) If he doesn't care about this last chance, he will also divide If he really can't divide If you don't want to face it, just hide, I think if he cares about you, he will look for you all over the world, and you can verify his love for you In short, it is up to him to choose to give points.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Everyone has a past, including yourself, there are some things you don't want to delve into, such as watching QQ, msn, etc., after watching it, you will only feel heartache, and you can't quarrel with your boyfriend, so don't ask for trouble.

    Other women who have boyfriends" This problem is a bit serious, you take a good look at his usual performance, if you find a problem, break up early, and break up once you find it, because the country is easy to change and difficult to change!!

    If you think it makes sense, give it to me. Thank you.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    A mature woman doesn't ask about a man's past, and an open-minded woman doesn't ask about a man's future. It's all in your own heart, in fact, if you spend 200 minutes asking this question, you won't get any answer, just release your depressed feelings. The main thing is still on your own.

    Bless you!!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This is difficult to answer, if your boyfriend loves you very much now and sincerely wants to be with you, then you don't need to worry so much, because that is all in the past, let him pass in the past, and the future life is the focus!

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