I don t have a direction, what should I do if I don t have a direction?

Updated on society 2024-07-18
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Get employed first, and when you can survive on your own, then work hard to develop the career you love. Interest is the best teacher. Since you like literature and art, you want to develop in this area.

    It shows that in this aspect, you have your unique advantages, as long as you work hard, I believe you will definitely achieve something in literature and art. But now you have more patience, you can say to yourself. This is the price you have to pay for your success.

    I will send you three sentences: First, you will not have a million annual salary as soon as you leave school, and you will not have a vice president of action right away. Both have to work hard to earn and come and go.

    The second is that there may be winners and losers in school, and it is too early to say in life, and the school may keep giving you the opportunity to find the right answer. This is not the case at all in real life. The third is that life is not a semester system, there is no winter and summer vacation in life, and no employer is interested in helping you find yourself, please use your free time to do this.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There are very few people who can do the right thing, and most of them have changed careers

    Many people are bitter before they become famous

    Maybe on the road will find your way, don't push yourself

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Many people graduated and did not pursue their majors. Let's cultivate this interest slowly, let's find a job quickly, and then think about which direction I really want to develop in the future while working? Bless you!

    I haven't had a job for a long time, and I wish you a job soon! Everyone's encouragement!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Divide the work on the basis of your own specialty. After that, you can sing and dance with the female boss.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Wait for the opportunity and then seize the opportunity.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1.You can try to find your own direction, and that's all we can do for our current life, because if you want to change the situation, you have to create opportunities. You can create opportunities, and no one is born with anything, so you have to create your own opportunities to develop your own future.

    2.Devalue yourself so that you give others a chance, and opportunities are for those who are prepared, and if you want to be not a good-for-nothing person like you are now, you need to prepare yourself, be yourself, and move towards your goals.

    3.Set a small goal, and then step by step to the end of the goal, you will find that you are not useless as you imagined, you will feel very fulfilled, which will trigger your inner motivation to struggle, the direction of progress.

    4.There may be unsatisfactory things in life, we can only face the difficulties, it is impossible to slump, life is not satisfied, we have the final say, and we decide by ourselves So a good life starts in the morning, and hard work can make your life satisfying.

    5.You can find what you want to do in many ways, even if you stick to something every day, stick to it and become a habit, you can set a small goal, and then do your best to complete it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Recall the road you have traveled, summarize the lessons and lessons, think, learn, understand the reality, and slowly have a direction.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you have no direction, try to calm down and think about what you need, what you want, what is worth pursuing, whether you have something worth fighting for, whether there is something worth fighting for, don't always look at the distance and are not clear, the important thing is to do the things that are clear around you.

    First you have to determine your direction, and then work towards it. Relax yourself and participate in more recreational sports. Actively participate in group activities and build good interpersonal relationships, and you will find that you are happy every day.

    You need to talk to your friends more, some things buried in your heart often become a time bomb, but when you talk to your friends, it will disappear, and you can confide in friends and relatives to evacuate the depression. Calm down and think about what path you want to take, go on a trip, relax yourself, see new people and things, or go for a run and fitness, think about life in sports, when you get out of the haze, you look back, you will find that everything that you thought made you desperate and overwhelmed at the beginning is not as difficult as you imagined.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Doing what you can is the direction of your struggle!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Step 1: Accept yourself as you are, identify with him, and tell yourself that everyone has this experience, not you. We must not think about rebelling against the situation we encounter at the moment, if we resist, we will be more painful, so first accept the current state of confusion, who has not been confused if you are a hero?

    Only by accepting it will we find a new way.

    Step 2: Calm yourself down, don't recall the unfortunate and unhappy things that happened to you in the past, and don't be in a hurry to imagine what you want to do in the future, because at this time your heart is fluctuating, you can't see many things clearly, and you can't deal with them rationally, so calm down first.

    Step 3: Don't recall the past or fantasize about the future, find out your interests in a calm state in the present, be sure to find your hobbies, what you like to do the most, whether you can do it or not, find out first, and then find a way to solve it, if you can't even find it, then how to solve it? Ask yourself what you are lacking at the moment, what can make you feel truly happy, because interest is the best teacher, and interest is the foundation for successfully getting out of the state of confusion and embarking on the road to success.

    Step 4: After finding your interest, start learning, let yourself become professional in the field you like, become strong, become proficient, only proficient, there will be almost no confusion in your life. And stick to it, and you will be successful in life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is only one way to the end in life, change the road for a few more days, even if the road is not suitable for you every day, you will find the road that suits you. You, like many of your friends, don't dare to try new jobs and environments. Be bold and starve no matter what, learning experience is what you earn.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You just have to keep learning and improve your academic qualifications!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let me start with a remark.

    Do your best to do everything well, and accept reality when you do.

    You have poor eyesight right now and don't have the confidence to chase someone you like.

    Do you understand what it is like for a woman to pursue a man?

    I think what women value the most is.

    a man's character;

    men's self-motivation;

    a man's love of life;

    And the most important thing is to be sincere to yourself.

    Your poor eyesight is a drawback though.

    But not everyone with poor eyesight is like this.

    Everyone has shortcomings, flaws.

    The key is to accept it and overcome the negative effects it brings to yourself.

    You have poor eyesight and can wear glasses.

    But you must not let it engrave your eyes in your heart.

    If you are trying to increase your confidence to chase the girl you like.

    I'll give you another note.

    Be yourself first.

    Maintain a normal life.

    Maintain family, friendship, and everyone with your heart.

    In-depth understanding of respect for society, respect for the cause, respect for others, so as to gain respect for themselves.

    Establish your own outlook on life and values;

    Find your own direction in life;

    Establish your own goals in life;

    Pursue your own life ideals.

    Girls want their men to be like a god.

    Don't go to people and ask you what you do, what you want to do, what your ideals are.

    Go for it, and it's best to confess when she's completely sure, if she won't find a partner during this time.

    I won't say much about the superfluous, if she has something like the person she was introduced, you just fight it and show sincerity.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're not afraid of anything, you're just worried.

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