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Today's girls are becoming more and more independent, and men and women are becoming more and more equal, unlike before, which advocated male dominance and female dominance. As long as you have the ability, you can also give yourself a home.
A 25-year-old woman should have just started working for two or three years, and there is a reason why she advocates that she should start working hard to earn money at this age and is ready to buy a house. In the past, it may be said that a girl is better at work than married, but now this concept is becoming more and more useless.
Men also begin to look at the conditions of girls when they get married, who doesn't pay attention to a right person, unless they are really rich enough to care about anything. However, such a family is unbalanced, and one party who is too good or too rich can easily lead to two parties and different family concepts of the two parties, which will produce many contradictions. Therefore, girls must have their own jobs and savings, so that they do not have to rely on others to live.
The house means a sense of security for girls, no matter what happens to you, as long as you can go home and have a place to live, you still have the confidence to meet the rest of your life. So a lot of times, the house is a lot more important than love.
To put it mildly, now in a divorce, if it is a house in the south alone, you may not even be able to get a point, so it is very important for girls to have their own house.
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I think girls should work hard to earn money, but not necessarily to buy a house, and I don't recommend buying a house either. In fact, both boys and girls should work hard, study hard, work hard, and realize their life values. Whether a girl is a person, or later marries and has children, economic issues can reflect the value of people from one side, although it is not accurate.
The house is not a suitcase, you can pull it wherever you want, but the house can't be moved. Do you know which city you're marrying to? Besides, now that the house has no investment value, it may soon become a burden.
So, as a girl, as long as possible, you have to work hard to make money, both for yourself and for your family. When you have money in your hand, you can buy whatever you want, not just a house. It would be even better if you could marry a good husband who has a high income and is considerate of you.
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No matter what the purpose is, you should work hard to make money, and you must always have your own goals and directions in life. As long as you still have the ability to make money, you should rely on yourself. What a glorious thing it is to not reach out and ask others for money, not to look at other people's faces, to spend as much as you want, without any scruples.
As for buying a house, it is best to have that ability, and if you buy it before marriage, it is a pre-marital property, so it will not be affected. If it's after getting married, it's not bad, because you have your own dedication and efforts, and you have a sense of home. When I used to live at my in-laws' house, to be honest, I didn't feel at home at all, including everything in the house, except for my husband and my own clothes, of course.
And now the house I bought is different, after entering the house, the body and mind are different, especially comfortable! So if you have the ability, create it yourself! It's peace of mind!
In the same way, I hope that all of our fellow women can create their own value!
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The world is changing rapidly, so prepare yourself a roof in advance. If you can buy a house, you can buy a house, and you would rather take out a loan to buy a small room than buy a house. In any city in China, a house can give a woman a sense of security.
Therefore, many girls would rather bear a heavy mortgage than give themselves a place where they can protect themselves in the "real sense". With this house, it is not necessary to "entrust" it to others in any form and at any time. When my parents' family encounters a major event, it is okay to reach out to my husband occasionally, but there is always a degree.
Your own house can be realized, and you can have money in your pocket most calmly. A woman's sense of security comes from all material things, believe me: with a house, with an independent job, you will walk more calmly at every step, because the world is too hard and too cold, so you have to give yourself a warm and soft home.
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Personally, I think that if a woman wants to easily get a happy life, she should not focus on working hard to make money and buy a house, but should improve her self-cultivation and personal image dress.
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In modern society, men and women are equal, girls should work hard to make money to buy a house, rather than relying on men to buy a house, after all, the house they work hard for is more fulfilling, and they know how to cherish it. Now it is not easy for boys to make money, and girls must understand boys, because women have a lot of advantages in making money than men! The girl who bought the house remembered to tell me that I would definitely give priority to pursuing her!
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Girls should not spend their energy on making money to buy a house, but on reading and their own beauty! Reading is an internal show, and beauty is the capital to enhance self-confidence and win the favor of society. The matter of making money should be borne by men, because men's bodies are naturally powerful, which is arranged by God for men, that is, to let men rely on their own strength to create a better life, and women are petite and weak and beautiful in appearance, so they come to this world to enjoy life.
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Personally, I think that women have to work hard to make money no matter what, and have the conditions to buy a house and a car by themselves! To put it mildly, even if a woman is not beautiful, but she has the ability, the probability of marrying a man with the same ability is greater, men love beauty, but there are more men who love both inside and outside, so women still have to be self-reliant, even if they are not very capable, they must have their own jobs, because there is no way, don't wait for men to give everything, men also have a day to be tired, women have their own careers, it is different, so that women have more say in the family,
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Girls who make money and spend their own money have too many choices, you can pay for any high-end restaurant by yourself, you can choose to buy any lipstick you like, without bothering to play tricks, you can take a visa to wander the world, take your parents to do a full body check-up, go to entrepreneurship, go to fitness, even if you fall out of love, you can also cry with Skii's ** in a hot spring in Japan, cry in a high-end hotel in Paris...Let the person who hurt you get out of the way in minutes. Encourage every girl to be self-reliant, this independence will give you self-confidence and let you be yourself. Only when the personality is independent, the economy is independent, and the person who does not rely on the man to live, can love be independent and free.
I'm not waiting for you to propose because of the car because of the house, but because of love.
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There is no such statement. Women are meant to be married. What to do when buying a house. Unless you're not ready to get married. So. There's no need to toss your own money!
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Girls who have money and a house have their own confidence, which is responsible for themselves.
After a woman reaches the age of 25, she will get older and older every year in the future, and she needs someone to love and take care of herself, so she will be urged to marry by her family, and she is also afraid that she will not be able to marry in the future.
This stuff doesn't have to be put. What kind of boys do girls like has nothing to do with age but not much, I personally think that 25-year-old girls will slowly become mature after experiencing a few loves, and it may not be in the yearning for a white horse boy, a man who looks good is good, and he starts from the inside, and a mature and rational man will be very attractive.
I don't think it matters what brand of clothes you wear, the important thing is to fit yourself, to suit your figure and appearance, you should be very cute, now that summer is here, you can wear miniskirts, accompanied by a pair of good-looking high heels,
It is said that women are made of water because women are more fragile and tend to cry after being hit by feelings. In contrast, men are a bit stronger. A woman's heart is like the surface of the water, and there will be ripples when there is a little movement. There are also women who love to drink water.
At the age of twenty-five, all aspects will be taken into account! It's also very mature and thoughtful! The heart is more delicate! >>>More