Is it auspicious for the woman s family to die on the day of the wedding?

Is it okay to have a funeral on your wedding day?

Generally speaking, people still taboo to meet marriage and funeral. If you know in advance that you will encounter a funeral, you must change to another day to greet your relatives. Sometimes when you really encounter a funeral without preparation, you can't get rid of it and don't make some explanations, such as "official luck", "financial luck", etc., which is just a self-comforting solution.

On the way to greet relatives, in addition to taboo "joy and joy", it is also taboo to "fierce and happy". In Taiwan, it is also considered unlucky for the wedding procession to meet the funeral procession. Because it is the destruction of a happy event by a bad event, it is called "fierce joy".

The Central Plains and other places also have taboos in this regard. However, some people say that funerals are not taboo, because funerals have coffins, and "coffins" are homophonic to "official wealth", so it is also said that it is a good omen to meet funerals. However, after all, the happy event and the funeral are not harmonious, and the general funeral always reminds people of the "dead man", hears the "cry", etc., and is always difficult to reconcile with the festive atmosphere of marriage.

Another way to put it:

There is a folk saying: "When you go out for a funeral, everything goes well", that is, if the unfortunate thing is robbed by others, you will be safe.

On the auspicious day of the zodiac, some do red things, and some do white things. This is normal. Just like there are people in the world who are born today, and there are people who die today.

Getting married is a good day for yourself, and the bad things are snatched away, which proves that day is a real auspicious day for the zodiac. I wish you all the same, and grow old.

The natural phenomenon of birth, old age, sickness and death, there is no need to pay attention to it, and there is no connection between white things and red things.

The dead in the family can also do happy events, there is no other way to say.

But now the customs of each place are different, and many elderly people have different views on marriage and narrative, so it is still according to the local area.

For example, in some conservative places, they believe that after a person dies, no one in the family can get married for three years. There are also places where you don't look so seriously, but some periods are also reserved as a buffer period, after all, the deceased family is immersed in sad emotions, and even if the marriage is not happy, so the wedding is generally not held within 100 days. Most places think that the one-year period of filial piety is normal, so that the joy of the coming year can wash away the disadvantages of the previous year.

The wedding date was set and suddenly the old man in the family died:

1. First of all, the death of the family is very sad, and the parties must not have this mood when the wedding is held, which also affects the quality of the wedding, so it is necessary to communicate with the other party's family and make some clever decisions to postpone the wedding.

2. And postponing the wedding does not have to be three years, as long as it is 100 days for two or three months, so as not to delay the entire process of the wedding, after all, this is something that no one wants to encounter, very helpless, and they are considerate.

3. According to Chinese traditional customs, if you do the happy event within 100 days, you can be happy, otherwise you will have to wait for three years.

In general, it is acceptable to marry after a year of mourning for a deceased family member. However, this varies from region to region, and some regions may require up to three years of mourning before marriage is allowed, and it is important to consider the opinions of the deceased's children when making such a decision.

Marriage is a happy event, and it is a major event in life, and it should be joyful. But someone died, not happy, lacking atmosphere, and should be postponed. According to the customs of the past, it is necessary to keep filial piety for three years before getting married, and the new society does not emphasize the old etiquette, but it is also necessary to gradually forget the pain of losing relatives, and the mood is no longer sad, so that the marriage can be happy.

In general, 100 days is sufficient.

There are also people who in order to reflect the filial piety of their descendants, abide by the old custom of not marrying for three years, and do happy events and funerals together, I think it is inappropriate, so that happy events are not like happy events, and sad events are not like sad things.

Personally, I think there will be a funeral this year, so let's get married next year.

It takes three years for the man's family to die before he can get married.

How long does it take for an old man to die before a grandson gets married?

1. Generally speaking, when the old man dies, the grandson cannot get married within three years, in fact, it means that the old man in the family is gone, and the grandchildren have to keep filial piety for the deceased old man for three years. Not long after the old man is gone, if the younger generations do a happy event, there is a sense of disrespect for the deceased. Of course, this is just the old rite religion.

Times have changed, and now it is not enough to be a code of conduct.

2. The customs of each place are different, so the time for the death of the elderly in the family is also different. In some places, it is generally a year of filial piety, during which it is not possible to get married, because one year is a relatively complete day.

3. In some rural areas, the wedding is either held within 100 days after the death of a loved one, or it is necessary to wait for three years. However, during this period, it is best to hold a wedding only with a license, not to make a big deal, and then make up the wedding when the time for filial piety is up.

Why can't you get married in three years?

Cause. It is believed that the reason why filial piety should be observed for three years is because the parents work very hard for nearly a year during the mother's pregnancy, and after birth, they have to hold it in their hands for a year, and they have to work behind them for a year to learn to walk, and they have to pay a lot for their children's parents, so after their deaths, their children should remember them in this way and repay their nurturing feelings.

Daintily. 1. After the death of the elderly, it is best not to hang red lanterns, because red represents festivity, which is not allowed during the period of filial piety.

2. After the death of the elderly, in order to show respect for them, you should not post happy words, couplets, blessing words, etc. within three years, and you must maintain silent mourning and solemnity.

Summary. Hello dear: Marriage is a happy event, and the dead represent a funeral. Happy events and funerals clash with each other, and it is not good. So you can't meet the dead.

Why can't the bride see the dead for a few days after she gets married.

Hello dear: Marriage is a happy event, and the dead represent a funeral. Happy events and funerals clash with each other, and it is not good. So you can't meet the dead.

Hello dear: If two people get married for less than 100 days, in fact, they can't go to the funeral, people in many places are more taboo in this regard, because happy events and funerals are one red and one white, just married couples, with a happy atmosphere, to attend the funeral will have a conflict, but also wear out the joy, to the couple bring ominous, for the future marriage life and family impact. Less than 100 days after marriage, in addition to avoiding participating in the funeral, it is also taboo to clean the room, and the traditional custom will think that cleaning the room at this time is to sweep away the joy, which will affect the relationship between the husband and wife and affect the married life.

It is also taboo to tear the word Xi, the word Xi symbolizes a good omen, if it is torn, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife, it is difficult to last for a long time, and there will be conflicts. If you go back to your parents' house, it will mean that you are not doing well in your husband's house, which means that you will divorce or affect your mother's family in the future. It is also forbidden to lend the marriage room to others, which means that the marriage will be interfered with by others, which is unlucky.

Hello dear: Actually, these are all customs, and they still can't be based on this.

If you don't know, it's best not to know, because auspiciousness is a psychology.